New York Unemployment: Do I need to attend career advisor meeting after getting a job?
Started a new job this week and will stop certifying for unemployment. Have a mandatory career advisor meeting scheduled next week. Not sure if I should still attend or if skipping it will affect my previous benefits. Anyone know what happens if I skip since I'm employed now?
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JaylinCharles
Just go to the meeting. Its only like 30 mins and not worth the risk of them trying to get money back. They can be real sticklers about this stuff 🙄
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Eloise Kendrick
•fr fr dont mess with them. they looking for ANY reason to say you owe money back
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Lucas Schmidt
•learned this the hard way last year. missed one meeting and they froze my account for 2 months 😫
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Freya Collins
Hey! I had the same issue but found a workaround. Used claimyr.com to get through to an agent and they helped me cancel the meeting since I had proof of employment. Cost $20 but worth it to get a clear answer. Here's a video about how it works: https://youtu.be/Rdqa1gKtxuE
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LongPeri
•sounds sketchy. they actually answer?
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Freya Collins
•Yeah totally legit! They dial and wait on hold, then call you when someone picks up. Saved me hours of frustration
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Oscar O'Neil
•can confirm - used it twice myself. beats calling 500 times a day lol
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Sara Hellquiem
Congrats on the new job! 🎉 But yeah def attend or at least call them to explain. The system is unforgiving af
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Charlee Coleman
Someone in my fb group got hit with a $3000 overpayment notice for missing career meetings even tho they had a job. NY unemployment dont play around
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Liv Park
•bruh thats wild 😱 they really be trying to get that money back any way they can
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Leeann Blackstein
Listen up - here's what you need to know about career advisor meetings and benefits: First, congratulations on the new job! However, you should absolutely handle this properly to protect your previous benefits. Here's why: - Missing mandatory meetings can trigger a benefits review - They can retroactively disqualify you and demand repayment - The system flags non-compliance automatically Best options: 1. Attend the meeting (safest option) 2. Call and explain your situation (use claimyr.com if you can't get through - totally worth the $20) 3. Submit proof of employment through your online account DON'T just ghost the meeting. That's the worst thing you can do. The NY unemployment system is looking for any reason to claw back benefits. Cover yourself and do this right.
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Ryder Greene
•this should be pinned fr 💯
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Carmella Fromis
•wish i knew this earlier... fighting an overpayment rn 😭
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Theodore Nelson
yo anyone else notice how they scheduling these meetings right when ppl getting jobs? seems sus
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AaliyahAli
•its like they KNOW 👀
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Jamal Harris
Definitely attend or call to reschedule with proof of employment. I went through this exact situation last month - got a job but had a meeting scheduled the following week. I called the career center directly and they were actually really understanding about it. They just asked me to email proof of my start date and cancelled the meeting. Way better than risking any issues with benefits you already received. The whole call took like 10 minutes vs potentially months of headaches if they flag your account.
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Xan Dae
Had this exact same situation 2 months ago! Definitely don't skip it - I made the mistake of thinking since I got a job I didn't need to go anymore. Big mistake. They sent me a letter saying I violated the work search requirements and had to appeal to keep my benefits. Took 6 weeks to resolve. Just attend the meeting, tell them you found work, and they'll usually just congratulate you and close out your case properly. It's like 20 minutes max and saves you SO much potential drama later.
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Malik Johnson
•omg thank you for sharing this! exactly what i needed to hear. better to spend 20 mins than deal with appeals and letters for weeks 😅
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Reginald Blackwell
This happened to me too! I was so stressed about it but ended up just going to the meeting. The advisor was actually really nice about it - she said it happens all the time and just had me fill out a quick form about my new job. She explained that attending shows you followed through on your obligations while receiving benefits, which protects you from any future issues. The whole thing took maybe 15 minutes and she even gave me some tips about my new role. Way better than worrying about potential complications later!
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Ruby Blake
•This is so reassuring to hear! I was getting really anxious about it but sounds like they're pretty understanding when you actually show up and explain the situation. Thanks for sharing your experience - definitely going to attend now 😊
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Ev Luca
Just went through this exact situation last month! Definitely attend the meeting - I know it feels pointless when you already have a job, but it's actually really important for protecting your benefits. When I showed up, the advisor was super cool about it and just had me sign a form confirming my employment status. She said it officially closes your case the right way and prevents any red flags in their system. The meeting lasted maybe 10 minutes and she was actually excited to hear I found work! Way better than risking them coming after you later for skipping a mandatory appointment. Trust me, it's worth the small time investment for peace of mind 👍
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Caleb Stone
•This is exactly what I needed to hear! I've been stressing about whether to go or not but you're totally right - 10 minutes of my time is nothing compared to potentially dealing with benefit issues later. Really appreciate you sharing your experience, makes me feel so much better about just going and getting it handled properly 🙏
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Steven Adams
Absolutely attend the meeting! I was in the exact same boat last year - got a job but had a career advisor meeting scheduled for the following week. I almost skipped it thinking "why do I need this now?" but decided to go just to be safe. Best decision ever. The advisor was actually really happy to hear I found work and said attending shows I completed all my obligations properly. She had me fill out a simple employment verification form and officially closed my case. Took literally 15 minutes and gave me total peace of mind. Don't risk it - these meetings are considered mandatory for a reason and skipping could trigger a review of ALL your previous benefits. Just go, tell them about your new job, and get it handled the right way 💯
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MidnightRider
•This is such solid advice! I was literally just about to skip mine thinking it was pointless now that I'm working, but you're so right about completing obligations properly. 15 minutes to avoid potentially months of headaches is totally worth it. Thanks for breaking it down - definitely going to attend and get it handled the right way 🙏
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Samantha Johnson
I'm actually dealing with this right now too! Just started a new position Monday and have my career advisor meeting Thursday. From reading everyone's experiences here, it sounds like attending is definitely the way to go. Even though it feels unnecessary since we're already working, seems like it's way better to spend the 15-20 minutes getting it handled properly than risk any issues down the road. Plus sounds like the advisors are usually pretty cool about it when you show up with good news about finding work! Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences - makes me feel way more confident about just going and getting it wrapped up the right way 👍
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StarStrider
•Same here! Got a job offer last week and have my meeting coming up soon too. Reading all these stories has me convinced - definitely just gonna go and get it done properly. Better safe than sorry when it comes to unemployment stuff. Good luck with your meeting Thursday! 🤞
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Omar Mahmoud
Definitely go to the meeting! I was in a similar situation a few months back - got hired but had a mandatory meeting already scheduled. I was tempted to skip it but so glad I didn't. The advisor was actually really happy to hear about my new job and said it was important that I showed up to properly close out my case. She had me fill out a quick form about my employment status and that was it - maybe 20 minutes total. She even mentioned that attending protects you from any potential issues with benefits you already received. Way better than risking them flagging your account for missing a mandatory appointment. Congrats on the new job btw! 🎉
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Andre Dupont
•Thanks for sharing this! I'm in the exact same situation and was stressing about whether to go or not. Hearing that the advisor was actually happy about your good news makes me feel so much better about it. 20 minutes to properly close everything out and avoid any potential headaches sounds totally worth it. Really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience! 🙏
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Paolo Marino
This thread is so helpful! I'm literally in the exact same boat - just started a new job yesterday and have a career advisor meeting scheduled for next Tuesday. Was definitely leaning toward skipping it since I'm employed now, but after reading everyone's experiences I'm 100% going to attend. The consensus seems crystal clear - spend the 15-20 minutes to do it right rather than risk any complications with benefits already received. Plus it sounds like the advisors are usually really positive when you show up with employment news! Thanks to everyone who shared their stories, this gave me exactly the clarity I needed. Sometimes it's worth doing the "unnecessary" thing to cover your bases properly 👍
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Diego Mendoza
•This whole thread has been such a lifesaver! I'm actually in a super similar spot - just got hired last Friday and have my meeting this Thursday. Was totally planning to blow it off but now I'm definitely going. Love how everyone's being so helpful sharing their actual experiences instead of just guessing. Sounds like these advisors are actually pretty chill when you show up with good news too, which makes me way less anxious about it. Thanks for putting this all together Paolo - sometimes you really do need to hear from people who've been there! 🙌
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Diego Fisher
Jumping on this thread because I'm in the EXACT same situation! Just got an offer letter signed today and my career advisor meeting is scheduled for Friday. Was totally going to skip it but after reading all these experiences I'm definitely attending. The pattern is super clear - everyone who went had a positive experience and got their case closed properly in like 15-20 minutes, while people who skipped ran into issues. Really appreciate everyone sharing their real experiences here instead of just speculation. Sometimes the "safe" choice is worth the small time investment, especially when it comes to protecting benefits you already received. Congrats to OP and everyone else who found work! 🎉
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Malia Ponder
•Congrats on the offer letter! 🎉 This thread has been such a game changer - I was literally about to make the same mistake of skipping mine. It's crazy how consistent everyone's experiences are when they actually attended vs the horror stories from people who didn't show up. Sounds like these advisors are used to this situation and actually enjoy hearing success stories. 15-20 minutes to avoid months of potential headaches is such a no-brainer when you put it that way. Thanks for adding your story too - helps reinforce that we're all making the right choice by just going and handling it properly!
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Lara Woods
Wow, this thread is incredible! I'm in literally the exact same situation - just accepted a job offer yesterday and have my career advisor meeting next Monday. I was 100% planning to skip it since I figured "what's the point now?" but reading everyone's actual experiences has completely changed my mind. The pattern is SO clear - everyone who attended had a smooth, positive 15-20 minute experience where they properly closed their case, while people who skipped faced weeks or months of appeals and potential overpayment issues. That's such a no-brainer trade-off! Plus it sounds like these advisors are actually excited to hear success stories, which makes the whole thing way less stressful. Thanks to everyone who took the time to share their real experiences - this is exactly the kind of practical advice that makes these communities so valuable. Definitely attending my meeting and doing this the right way! 🙏
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Andre Moreau
•This thread has been such a lifesaver! I'm literally in the same boat - started my new job this week and have been stressing about my meeting next week. Reading everyone's experiences makes it so obvious what the right choice is. 15 minutes to properly close everything out vs potentially months of appeals and overpayment drama? Total no-brainer. Really appreciate how everyone shared their actual experiences instead of just guessing. Congrats on your new job and thanks for helping cement my decision to just go handle it properly! 🎉
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Mateo Sanchez
This thread is so reassuring! I'm actually in this exact situation right now - just got hired last week and have my career advisor meeting tomorrow. Was totally going to skip it thinking "why waste time when I already have a job?" but after reading everyone's experiences here, I'm 100% attending. The pattern couldn't be clearer - everyone who went had a quick, positive experience (like 15-20 minutes) and got their case properly closed, while people who skipped ended up dealing with appeals, overpayment notices, and months of headaches. That's such an obvious choice when you put it that way! Plus sounds like these advisors are actually happy to hear success stories, which makes me way less anxious about going. Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences - this is exactly the kind of practical advice that makes these communities so valuable. Sometimes doing the "unnecessary" thing is totally worth it for peace of mind! 🙏
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•This whole thread has been a game changer for me too! I'm in the exact same situation - new job started Monday and meeting scheduled for this Friday. Was definitely planning to skip it but seeing everyone's consistent experiences has me convinced. It's wild how every person who attended had the same positive outcome - quick meeting, happy advisor, case closed properly. Meanwhile the people who didn't show up dealt with appeals and overpayment drama for months. That's such an easy choice! Really appreciate everyone taking the time to share their actual experiences instead of just guessing. Good luck with your meeting tomorrow! 🍀
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Brielle Johnson
This whole thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm in the exact same situation - just started a new job this week and have my career advisor meeting scheduled for next Friday. I was honestly planning to skip it since I figured it was pointless now that I'm working, but after reading everyone's experiences I'm definitely going to attend. The consistency is amazing - literally everyone who went had a positive 15-20 minute experience where they properly closed their case, while people who skipped ended up with appeals, overpayment issues, and months of stress. That's such an obvious choice when you think about it that way! What really helped me was seeing how the advisors are actually happy to hear success stories. I was worried it would be awkward showing up employed, but it sounds like they're used to this situation and genuinely enjoy hearing when people find work. Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences instead of just guessing - this is exactly the kind of practical advice that makes these communities so valuable. Sometimes spending 20 minutes to do things the "right way" is totally worth avoiding potential headaches down the road. Congrats to OP and everyone else who found work! 🎉
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A Man D Mortal
•This thread has been such a blessing! I'm literally in the same exact boat - just got hired this week and have been stressing about my meeting next Tuesday. Reading everyone's consistent positive experiences when they actually attended vs the nightmare stories from people who skipped has made my decision so much easier. 15-20 minutes to properly close everything out and avoid potential months of appeals? Absolute no-brainer! Plus knowing the advisors are actually excited to hear good news makes me way less anxious about it. Thanks for such a thorough breakdown of why attending is the right move - this community is amazing! 🙌
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