I'm at week 7 of waiting for my online retirement application and this thread has been incredibly helpful! Like so many others here, I've been anxiously checking my mySocialSecurity account seeing nothing but "processing" with zero updates from SSA. I was really starting to panic that something was wrong with my application, especially after hearing stories about people getting approved in just a few days. Reading through everyone's experiences here - ranging from 4 weeks up to 8+ weeks - has been such a relief and really confirms this extended waiting period is normal, even though it's nerve-wracking. I've definitely been guilty of that obsessive daily checking so many others mentioned! Based on all the advice in this thread, I switched to checking just once a week which has helped my stress levels. I'm thinking of calling this week since I'm now past that 6-week mark several people mentioned, though the phone horror stories are making me hesitant. It's really reassuring to know about retroactive payments - takes away the financial worry knowing we won't lose money due to these processing delays. Thanks to everyone for sharing their timelines and experiences - it's amazing how much better it feels knowing this waiting game is completely normal and we're definitely not alone in this process!

I'm at week 1 of waiting for my online retirement application and already feeling anxious about the process! This thread has been incredibly reassuring to read though - I had no idea that 4-6 weeks was actually the normal timeframe. I was expecting something much faster since everything else online seems to happen instantly these days. Reading everyone's experiences here really helps set realistic expectations. I can already tell I'm going to fall into that trap of checking my mySocialSecurity account way too often, so I'm going to try to follow the advice about limiting it to once a week from the start. It's really helpful to know that "processing" with no updates is completely normal and not a red flag. The retroactive payment information is especially reassuring since I'm planning my finances around when the benefits will start. Thanks to everyone for sharing their timelines - it's so comforting to know what to expect and that this waiting period is just part of the normal process!

Hi Lana, I'm sorry for your loss. It's actually pretty common for back pay and regular monthly payments to come separately - the SSA often processes them on different timelines. Back pay can sometimes take a few extra weeks or even months to arrive after your first regular payment. If it's been more than 60 days since you were approved, you might want to call the SSA at 1-800-772-1213 to check on the status. They can tell you exactly when the back pay was processed and when to expect it. Hope this helps!

I'm turning 70 in March and this discussion has been incredibly helpful! I had the same confusion about whether to use March 1st or April 1st as my start date. Reading everyone's experiences has made it clear that I should use March 1st since that's my birth month. One question I have is about Medicare - I'm already enrolled in Medicare Part A and B. Do I need to do anything special with Medicare when I start collecting Social Security, or are they completely separate at this point? Also, has anyone had experience with how long it takes to get the actual Social Security card with your new status? I know it's not required for benefits, but I'd like to have the updated documentation for my records.

One more important detail I haven't seen mentioned yet - make sure you understand how Medicare premiums will be handled once you start receiving Social Security benefits. If you're already enrolled in Medicare Part B, those premiums will automatically be deducted from your monthly Social Security payment. This is actually convenient since you don't have to worry about separate billing, but it does mean your net Social Security payment will be lower than the gross amount you see in your benefit estimates. Also, if you have Medicare Part D or a Medicare Advantage plan, those premiums may also be deducted if you set that up. Just something to factor in when you're planning your budget around your new Social Security income. The Medicare.gov website has good information about how this all works together.

One additional thing to keep in mind - the SSA does recalculate your benefit amount when you reach Full Retirement Age to give you credit for the months they withheld benefits due to the earnings test. So while your wife may see reduced benefits now if she exceeds the earnings limit, her benefit amount will increase at FRA to account for those reductions. Many people don't realize this adjustment happens automatically.

Just wanted to add some practical advice based on what I've learned helping my mom navigate this same situation. Since your wife is 65 and her FRA is 67, she has two years where this earnings limit will apply. The key thing is to track her earnings monthly - don't wait until the end of the year! I created a simple spreadsheet for my mom that tracks her gross pay each month against the annual limit ($23,400 for 2025). Also, if she does go over, the SSA typically doesn't catch it until they get her W-2 the following year, so you might not know about any overpayment until 2026. One strategy that worked for us was having her employer reduce her hours in November/December if she was getting close to the limit. School districts are usually pretty flexible about this since they understand the SS earnings test issue with older employees.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Liam. As someone new to this community, I'm really moved by how everyone came together to help you navigate this complicated situation during such a difficult time. This thread has been incredibly educational for me - I had no idea that Social Security benefits were paid in arrears, which is such crucial information for families dealing with these situations. It's wonderful that you were able to get official confirmation from SSA and that everything worked out as expected. The fact that you took the time to call them directly and also ask about the death benefit shows great presence of mind during what must be an overwhelming period. Thank you for updating everyone with the resolution - this thread will definitely serve as a valuable resource for others who find themselves in similar circumstances. Wishing you strength as you continue to handle all the details during this challenging time.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Liam. As a newcomer to this community, I've been incredibly moved reading through this entire thread. It's wonderful to see how everyone came together to provide both practical guidance and emotional support during such a difficult time. This conversation has been so educational for me - I had no idea that Social Security benefits were paid in arrears, which is such important information for families navigating these situations. It's reassuring that you were able to get official confirmation from SSA and that the funeral home actually followed through with their notification. Your proactive approach in calling SSA directly and asking about the death benefit was really smart. Thank you for taking the time to update everyone with the resolution - this thread will be an invaluable resource for others who find themselves dealing with similar questions after losing a loved one. The knowledge and experiences shared here truly demonstrate the value of having a supportive community during life's most challenging moments.