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This thread has been absolutely fantastic! As a newcomer to this community, I'm impressed by the depth of knowledge everyone has shared about Social Security benefits and ex-spousal claiming rules. I wanted to add one more resource that might be helpful for people in similar situations. The AARP website has some really good articles about Social Security strategies for divorced individuals, including flowcharts that help you work through the decision trees based on your specific circumstances (remarriage status, filing ages, etc.). Also, I've noticed several people mentioning the difficulty of getting through to SSA on the phone. Another option that some people don't know about is that many local libraries and senior centers offer free AARP tax preparation services during tax season, and those volunteers are often very knowledgeable about Social Security rules too. They can't make official determinations like SSA can, but they're great for helping you understand your options before you call. Ana, your situation really illustrates how important it is to understand not just your own benefits, but how various life events (like remarriage) affect eligibility for different types of benefits. Thanks for sharing your story - I'm sure it's going to help many others who find themselves in similar situations!
Welcome to the community! Those are excellent additional resources, especially the AARP articles with flowcharts - visual decision trees can make these complex Social Security rules so much easier to navigate. I hadn't thought about the library and senior center volunteers either, but that's a great suggestion for getting some initial guidance before dealing with the official SSA channels. It's amazing how this thread has evolved from Ana's specific question into such a comprehensive resource about ex-spousal benefits, remarriage rules, and filing strategies. Even as someone new to these topics, I feel like I have a much better understanding of how all these pieces fit together. The point about understanding how life events affect benefit eligibility really resonates with me. Social Security isn't just about your own work history - it's this complex web of relationships, timing decisions, and legal status changes that can dramatically impact what benefits are available. It definitely reinforces the value of getting professional guidance before making any major decisions. Thanks for adding those resources and for the welcoming introduction to the community! This is exactly the kind of supportive, knowledge-sharing environment that makes navigating these complicated systems a little less overwhelming.
This has been such an incredibly helpful and comprehensive discussion! As someone who's new to this community and just starting to think seriously about Social Security planning, I'm amazed at how much I've learned from everyone's contributions. What started as Ana's specific question about her ex-spouse has turned into a masterclass on Social Security rules, ex-spousal benefits, remarriage implications, and filing strategies. The collective knowledge shared here - from former SSA employees to people who've navigated these situations personally - is invaluable. A few key takeaways that really stood out to me: - SSA doesn't automatically check or notify people about potential benefit increases - Remarriage completely changes ex-spousal benefit eligibility - Early filing creates permanent reductions through "deemed filing" rules - There are so many interconnected factors beyond just your own earnings record I'm particularly grateful for all the practical tips about contacting SSA, the resource recommendations, and the real-world examples everyone shared. This is exactly the kind of community-driven knowledge sharing that helps people make informed decisions about such important financial matters. Ana, I hope you'll follow up after your SSA consultation - even though your original question is resolved, I'm sure there will be insights about your own filing strategy that could benefit others. Thanks for starting such a valuable discussion!
Welcome to the community! I couldn't agree more about how educational this thread has been. When I first joined this forum a few months ago, I was completely overwhelmed by Social Security rules, but discussions like this one really help break everything down into understandable pieces. Your summary of the key takeaways is spot-on, especially the point about SSA not automatically checking for benefit increases. That seems to be one of the biggest misconceptions people have - assuming the government will just handle everything optimally for you. The reality is you really need to be your own advocate and stay informed about your options. I'm also new to thinking seriously about retirement planning, and what strikes me most is how these decisions aren't just about the numbers - they're about understanding all these interconnected life circumstances and legal rules. The remarriage aspect of Ana's situation is a perfect example of how personal life changes can completely alter your benefit picture. Thanks to everyone who contributed their expertise and experiences. This is exactly why I love this community - real people sharing practical knowledge that you just can't get from reading official publications alone. Looking forward to Ana's update and learning even more from everyone's ongoing discussions!
I'm so sorry you're going through this nightmare! I just joined this community after dealing with the exact same SSA website crashes for my own retirement application. Reading through everyone's experiences here has been both reassuring (knowing it's not just me) and infuriating (seeing how many people are affected by this broken system). Like so many others have mentioned, I had success with the 8 AM calling strategy - got through in about 50 minutes and the representative was super understanding about the website issues. She mentioned they're getting hundreds of calls daily about these crashes and walked me through the entire application over the phone in about 25 minutes. One tip that helped me prepare: I had all my documents scanned and saved on my computer beforehand, so when the rep asked for information from my W-2s or other paperwork, I could quickly pull it up rather than scrambling around looking for physical copies. Made the whole phone process much smoother. It's absolutely ridiculous that we need workarounds just to access benefits we've been paying into for decades, but at least the phone route is reliable. Don't give up - you'll get through this! The 8 AM timing really does seem to make a huge difference in wait times.
Thank you so much for sharing your successful experience with the phone route! It's really encouraging to hear from someone who actually got through and completed their application. The tip about having documents scanned and ready on your computer is brilliant - I hadn't thought of that but it makes perfect sense for making the phone process smoother. 50 minutes on hold sounds totally reasonable compared to the days we've all been spending fighting with their broken website. It's reassuring to know the representatives are understanding about these technical issues and can walk you through everything efficiently once you get connected. I'm definitely going to try the 8 AM approach tomorrow morning with all our paperwork organized and scanned ahead of time. Thanks for taking the time to share not just that it worked, but the practical details about how to make it work better. This community has been such a lifesaver for navigating this bureaucratic mess!
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this incredibly frustrating situation! As a newcomer to this community, I've been reading through everyone's experiences and it's clear the SSA website is having major widespread issues right now. You're definitely not alone - so many people are reporting the exact same problem where the site works fine for account access but crashes when trying to submit retirement applications. Based on all the success stories shared here, I'd highly recommend trying the 8 AM calling strategy. Most people are getting through in 45-60 minutes when calling right at opening time, and the representatives seem understanding about the website issues. Make sure to have all your husband's documents organized beforehand so you can complete everything in one call. Also, don't stress too much about the exact timing - several knowledgeable members here have explained that benefits are paid based on the month you apply, not the specific day. Since your husband just reached his FRA, you have the whole month to file without losing any benefits. It's absolutely ridiculous that we need workarounds just to access benefits we've been paying into for decades, but at least there are proven solutions. You'll get through this - hang in there!
This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm currently helping my 78-year-old mother with her retirement benefits inquiry and we've been stuck in the same phone maze for weeks. What strikes me most is how much institutional knowledge exists in this community that SSA doesn't provide anywhere officially. I'm definitely going to try the online appointment scheduler first - the tip about specifying "Claims Specialist" and mentioning it's a retirement issue seems crucial. I also love the suggestion about calling right at 7 AM with the claim number ready. It's honestly disgraceful that accessing basic information about benefits we've paid into requires this level of strategy and community crowdsourcing, but I'm grateful for everyone who shared their hard-won experience here. Planning to try multiple approaches and will update with results. For anyone else reading this feeling defeated - don't give up! This thread proves there are ways through the system, even when it feels impossible.
I'm new to dealing with SSA issues but this thread has been an absolute goldmine of information! I'm in my early 60s and just starting to think about retirement benefits, but after reading about everyone's struggles just to get basic information, I'm honestly dreading the process. It's shocking that there isn't a straightforward way to simply talk to someone about your own benefits without needing a whole battle plan. I'm definitely bookmarking all these strategies - the online appointment scheduler, early morning calls, having your claim number ready, visiting in person, and even reaching out to advocacy organizations. It's incredible how much collective wisdom everyone has shared here. I really appreciate people taking the time to help others navigate this broken system. Hopefully by the time I need to apply, some of these processes will be improved, but at least I'll be prepared with all these strategies if they're not!
I'm so glad I found this thread! I've been lurking in government service communities trying to figure out how to navigate SSA's phone system for my own situation. Reading through everyone's experiences has been both validating (I'm not crazy - the system really is broken!) and incredibly informative. The range of solutions you've all discovered is amazing - from the online appointment scheduler to early morning calls to advocacy organizations I never knew existed. What really stands out to me is how much problem-solving power exists in communities like this compared to official government resources. I'm bookmarking this entire conversation as my SSA survival guide. For anyone else who finds this thread in the future: you're not alone in this frustration, and there ARE ways through the maze. Thanks to everyone who took the time to share their hard-won knowledge instead of just keeping it to themselves!
I'm also new to this community and just discovered this thread while searching for help with my own SSA issues. What an incredible resource this has become! I've been struggling to get information about my late husband's benefits for months, and seeing all these practical strategies laid out gives me so much hope. The fact that an actual SSA employee took time to explain how the system works from the inside was particularly valuable. I'm planning to start with the online appointment scheduler tomorrow morning and have my claim numbers organized. It's really heartwarming to see a community come together to help each other navigate such a frustrating system. I'll definitely be sharing my results here once I try these approaches - this thread deserves to help as many people as possible!
Wow, this thread has been incredibly educational! I'm 61 and was considering claiming early next year, but I had no idea about the complexity around the earnings test. The Box 3 vs Box 1 distinction is huge - like the original poster mentioned, that could be thousands of dollars difference depending on your pre-tax deductions. I'm especially interested in what @Savannah Glover mentioned about the timing strategy. If I understand correctly, you could potentially work full-time for the first half of the year, then claim benefits in July and only work part-time for the remainder? That seems like it could be a great way to maximize income during the transition to retirement. Has anyone here actually used that mid-year claiming strategy? I'd love to hear about real experiences with how SSA calculated the earnings for a partial year. Also wondering if there are any gotchas or complications with that approach that aren't obvious.
I actually did exactly this strategy last year! I worked my regular full-time job until August, then claimed benefits and switched to part-time consulting work. SSA only counted my earnings from August through December for the earnings test, which came to about $18,000 - well under the limit. The key thing to understand is that in your first year of claiming, they use what's called the "monthly earnings test" if it's more favorable than the annual test. So even if your total annual earnings would exceed the limit, you might still be okay if you can keep each month's earnings under the monthly threshold (which is the annual limit divided by 12). One small gotcha I ran into: make sure you understand exactly when your benefits start. There's sometimes confusion about the application date vs. the first month you're actually eligible to receive benefits. I'd definitely recommend getting this clarified with SSA before making your work schedule decisions. Overall though, it worked great for me - I was able to maximize my income for most of the year while still getting some Social Security benefits to start the transition into retirement.
This has been such an informative discussion! I'm 63 and have been collecting SS for about 8 months now while working part-time. I can confirm everything said here about Box 3 being what they use - learned this the hard way when I got nervous about going over and called SSA multiple times to verify. One thing I'd add for anyone considering the earnings limit strategy: keep very detailed records of your paystubs and any 1099s throughout the year. I created a simple Excel sheet with columns for pay period, gross pay, and Box 3 SS wages, plus a running total. This has been invaluable for making decisions about whether to pick up extra shifts or decline overtime. Also, if you're married and your spouse is also working, make sure you understand that the earnings test applies individually - your spouse's income doesn't count toward YOUR earnings limit (though it may affect other aspects of your benefits). I was initially worried about our combined household income but learned it's calculated separately for each person claiming benefits. The peace of mind from tracking this carefully has been worth the extra effort. Better to be overly cautious than deal with an overpayment situation later!
Thank you so much for sharing your real-world experience with tracking the earnings! The Excel spreadsheet idea is brilliant - I'm definitely going to set that up before I start claiming. It's reassuring to hear from someone who's actually been navigating this successfully for several months. Your point about married couples having individual earnings limits is really important too. I was wondering about that since my spouse and I are both planning to claim in the next couple years. Good to know we don't have to worry about our combined income affecting each other's benefits. Quick question - when you mentioned declining overtime, how far in advance do you typically make those decisions? Do you try to stay well under the limit as a buffer, or do you track it pretty closely to the $22,680 threshold? I'm trying to figure out how conservative to be with my planning.
Jade Santiago
I'm 61 and planning to start collecting SS early next year, so this discussion has been incredibly helpful! I've been sitting on the fence about whether to touch my 401k because of all the conflicting information out there about earnings limits. Reading through everyone's experiences here makes it crystal clear - 401k withdrawals absolutely do NOT count toward the Social Security earnings test. Only actual wages from employment and self-employment income count toward that limit. It's such a relief to hear from so many people who've actually been through this process with real dollar amounts and outcomes. The tax withholding advice is invaluable too. It sounds like having 15-20% withheld upfront is the way to go based on multiple people's experiences. I'm planning to withdraw about $18,000 next year for some long-overdue home maintenance, and I'll definitely request that withholding when I make the withdrawal. One thing that really stands out is how many people mentioned getting incorrect information from various sources - even SSA representatives sometimes! It really emphasizes the value of communities like this where people share their actual real-world experiences rather than just theoretical advice. Thanks Sebastian for asking this question and thanks everyone for sharing such detailed and helpful responses. This thread should be required reading for anyone dealing with early SS and retirement account withdrawals!
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Ryder Ross
•Welcome to the community! You're absolutely right about the value of getting real-world experiences versus just theoretical advice. I went through this same decision process last year and can confirm everything you've heard here - 401k withdrawals don't touch the earnings test at all. Your plan to start SS early next year and withdraw $18,000 for home maintenance sounds very similar to what I did. Having 20% withheld worked out perfectly for me - I actually got a small refund which was much better than scrambling to pay extra taxes. The peace of mind alone is worth it! One tip from my experience - when you call your 401k provider to set up the withdrawal, they'll walk you through the withholding options. Don't just accept their default suggestion (which is often too low). Specifically request that 20% and mention you're already collecting Social Security so you want to be conservative with the tax planning. You're smart to get this all figured out before you start collecting benefits. Having a clear understanding of these rules upfront will save you a lot of worry later. Your home maintenance projects will be completely safe from affecting your monthly SS checks!
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Holly Lascelles
I'm 65 and have been dealing with this exact situation for the past two years since I started collecting Social Security early. I can absolutely confirm what everyone else has said - 401k withdrawals do NOT count toward the earnings test at all! I've withdrawn over $40,000 from my 401k across multiple withdrawals for home repairs, medical expenses, and helping my daughter with college costs. My monthly Social Security check has remained exactly the same every single month. The only impact has been on the taxation side - more of my benefits became taxable, but that's completely separate from the earnings test. The key thing to remember is that the earnings test ONLY looks at: - W-2 wages from employment - Net earnings if you're self-employed Everything else (401k, IRA, pensions, investment income, etc.) is considered "unearned income" and doesn't count toward that $22,320 limit. Your $15,000 withdrawal for home repairs is 100% safe. Just make sure to have 20% withheld for taxes - I learned that lesson the expensive way on my first withdrawal! Your financial advisor is absolutely correct and your brother-in-law is likely confusing the earnings test with benefit taxation. Go ahead with confidence - your monthly SS benefits won't be affected at all!
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