Can I get unemployment if I quit to take care of a family member in Washington?
My mom was diagnosed with dementia last month and I had to quit my job at the hospital to become her full-time caregiver. I've been working there for 6 years but they couldn't accommodate my schedule anymore. I heard there might be exceptions for family caregiving situations but I'm not sure if Washington ESD will approve my claim. Has anyone successfully gotten unemployment after quitting for family care reasons? I really need the income while I figure out long-term care options.
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Zainab Ahmed
Washington does allow unemployment benefits in certain circumstances when you quit for compelling family reasons. You'll need to prove that quitting was your only reasonable option and that the family situation constitutes 'good cause.' The key is documenting everything - medical records, care requirements, attempts to work with your employer on accommodations.
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Miguel Diaz
•Thank you! What kind of documentation should I gather? I have her diagnosis paperwork and some notes from her doctor about needing constant supervision.
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Zainab Ahmed
•That's a great start. Also get any emails or records showing you tried to work out a solution with your employer first. Washington ESD wants to see you exhausted other options before quitting.
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Connor Byrne
I went through this exact situation 2 years ago with my dad. Filed my claim online and it went straight to adjudication. Took about 5 weeks to get approved but I did get benefits. The key was showing that I had no other family members who could provide care and that professional care wasn't financially feasible.
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Miguel Diaz
•That gives me hope! Did you have to do a phone interview or anything during the adjudication process?
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Connor Byrne
•Yes, I had a fact-finding interview where they asked detailed questions about the care situation and why I couldn't continue working. Be prepared to explain your specific circumstances thoroughly.
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Yara Abboud
Just a heads up - getting through to Washington ESD by phone during adjudication can be nearly impossible. I spent weeks trying to check on my claim status. If you need to reach them, I'd suggest using Claimyr.com - it's a service that helps you get through to actual agents. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ showing how it works.
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PixelPioneer
•Is that service legit? I'm always skeptical of third-party services for government stuff.
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Yara Abboud
•I was skeptical too but it actually worked. Got through to an agent in about 30 minutes instead of the hours I'd been spending on hold. Worth it when you need answers about your claim.
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Keisha Williams
this is really hard situation but i think you might qualify. my sister had to quit her job to take care of her disabled son and she got approved after like 6 weeks of waiting. the adjudication process takes forever but if you have good documentation you should be ok
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Miguel Diaz
•Thank you for sharing that. It's reassuring to hear success stories. The waiting is the hardest part when bills are piling up.
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Paolo Rizzo
Make sure you file your claim as soon as possible even if you're not sure about eligibility. The effective date of your claim is when you file, not when it gets approved. You can always appeal if they deny it initially.
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Miguel Diaz
•Good point, I'll file this week. Better to have it in the system than wait and lose potential benefits.
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Zainab Ahmed
•Exactly right. And keep filing your weekly claims even during adjudication - you won't get paid until approved but you need to maintain the claim.
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Amina Sy
The system is so broken. I've been waiting 8 weeks for my regular unemployment claim to get processed and they still haven't made a decision. Good luck getting through to anyone who can actually help you.
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Oliver Fischer
•That's terrible! Have you tried reaching out through the online messaging system or just calling?
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Amina Sy
•I've tried everything. Called hundreds of times, sent messages, nothing works. The whole system is overwhelmed.
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Natasha Ivanova
I work in elder care and I see this situation a lot. Washington ESD does recognize family caregiving as good cause for quitting, but you need to show that professional care services weren't available or affordable in your area. Document everything about care costs and availability.
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Miguel Diaz
•That's really helpful insight. I did get quotes from several care facilities and they were all way beyond what I could afford on my salary.
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Natasha Ivanova
•Perfect - keep those quotes as evidence. Also check if you looked into any in-home care services and why they weren't viable.
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NebulaNomad
Be prepared for the job search requirements once you're approved. You'll still need to be available for work and actively searching, which can be challenging when you're a caregiver. They do have some flexibility for caregivers though.
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Miguel Diaz
•Oh I hadn't thought about that. How does that work if I'm caring for someone full-time?
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Zainab Ahmed
•You can often work around care schedules or look for part-time/flexible work. The key is showing you're genuinely available and seeking work that's compatible with your caregiving responsibilities.
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Javier Garcia
Another thing to consider - if your mom qualifies for any state programs like Medicaid waiver services, that might help with the care situation and potentially allow you to work part-time while still receiving some unemployment benefits.
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Miguel Diaz
•I'll look into that. Are there specific programs I should research?
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Javier Garcia
•Check out Washington's Home and Community Based Services waivers. They can sometimes provide respite care or other services that might give you more flexibility.
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Emma Taylor
I had a similar situation and honestly the hardest part was getting someone at Washington ESD to actually explain what documents I needed. Took me three different phone calls to get consistent information.
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Malik Robinson
•This is exactly why I ended up using that Claimyr service someone mentioned earlier. Got tired of getting different answers from different people.
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Emma Taylor
•Yeah, I should have done that. Would have saved me weeks of confusion.
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Isabella Silva
Just want to add that even if you get approved, the benefits might not be enough to fully replace your income. Start looking at other resources too - caregiver support programs, respite care options, etc.
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Miguel Diaz
•You're right, I need to be realistic about the financial situation. Any suggestions on where to look for caregiver resources?
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Isabella Silva
•Check with your local Area Agency on Aging - they usually have lists of available programs and services for caregivers.
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Ravi Choudhury
The timing of when you quit matters too. If you quit and then waited months before filing, that might hurt your case. File as soon as possible after quitting.
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Miguel Diaz
•I quit about 3 weeks ago, so hopefully that's not too long. I wanted to make sure I understood the process first.
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CosmosCaptain
One more tip - when you do your fact-finding interview, stick to the facts and don't get too emotional. I know it's a stressful situation but they want clear, factual information about why quitting was necessary.
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Miguel Diaz
•Good advice. I'll make sure to organize my thoughts and documentation before any interview.
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Connor Byrne
•This is so important. I practiced what I was going to say beforehand and it really helped me stay focused during the interview.
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Freya Johansen
Don't forget to keep track of all your caregiving expenses too. While it won't directly affect your unemployment claim, you might be able to use them for tax purposes or other benefits.
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Miguel Diaz
•That's a good point. I've been so focused on the immediate situation that I haven't thought about tax implications.
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Omar Fawzi
The whole system is designed to make it hard for people in genuine need. But don't give up - if you have a legitimate reason for quitting, keep pushing through the process.
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Miguel Diaz
•Thank you for the encouragement. It's overwhelming but I know I made the right choice for my family.
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Zainab Ahmed
•Absolutely. Caring for family is exactly the kind of situation these exceptions are designed for. Stay persistent with the process.
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Chloe Wilson
Last thing - make sure you understand the appeals process in case your initial claim gets denied. Many people don't realize they can appeal and just give up.
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Miguel Diaz
•How long do you have to file an appeal if needed?
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Zainab Ahmed
•You have 30 days from the date of the determination letter to file an appeal. Don't wait if you get denied - appeal immediately.
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Miguel Diaz
•Got it, I'll mark that on my calendar. Thank you everyone for all the helpful advice!
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