Can I get ESD benefits if I quit to care for sick parent? Medical leave claim questions
I'm facing a really tough situation and need some advice about ESD unemployment. My father was just diagnosed with late-stage cancer and needs full-time care. I'm the only family member available to help him, but my employer won't approve an extended leave (they only offered 2 weeks). I feel like I have no choice but to resign from my job to care for him. Has anyone successfully filed for unemployment after leaving work to care for a family member? I know regular UI typically doesn't cover voluntary quits, but I've heard there might be exceptions for family medical situations. What documentation will ESD require? Should I expect my claim to go into adjudication? I'm really stressed about both caring for my dad and paying my bills without income. Any advice from people who've been through something similar would be incredibly helpful.
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QuantumQuasar
ur going to run into issues becuz its a voluntary quit. regular UI doesnt usally cover voluntary quits but there are rare exceptions. u should apply ether way and see what happens, the worst they can do is deny u. make sure u explain clearly the medical reason when u apply!!
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Miguel Ramos
•Thanks for the response. Yeah, I know it's a voluntary quit technically, but it feels like I don't have a real choice. I'll definitely be clear about the medical necessity. Did you or anyone you know go through a similar situation?
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Zainab Omar
I can provide some specific guidance here. This situation falls under what ESD calls a "good cause quit" - specifically, you're quitting to care for an immediate family member with a serious health condition. Here's what you'll need for your claim: 1. Medical documentation from your father's doctor confirming diagnosis and need for care 2. Documentation showing you requested leave from your employer and it was denied/insufficient 3. Be prepared to explain why you're the only available caregiver And yes, your claim will almost certainly go to adjudication, where an adjudicator will review these documents and make a determination. During adjudication, make sure you respond to any requests for information promptly. This type of claim is specifically covered under RCW 50.20.050(2)(b)(ii) - which allows benefits when you quit to care for an immediate family member with a serious health condition.
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Miguel Ramos
•Thank you so much for this detailed information! Do you know roughly how long the adjudication process takes for these types of claims? I'm worried about going weeks or months without income while caring for my dad.
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Connor Gallagher
I'm so sorry about your father. My mom had cancer last year and I know how scary and overwhelming it is. I didn't have to quit my job because I could work remotely, but a friend of mine had to leave her job for similar reasons. ESD denied her at first but she appealed and eventually got approved. The whole process took about 8 weeks though which was really stressful for her. Make sure you have all the medical paperwork organized and ready to go!
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Miguel Ramos
•I'm sorry about your mom, and I appreciate you sharing your friend's experience. 8 weeks sounds really long to go without income, but it's helpful to know what to expect. Did your friend do anything specific that helped with the appeal?
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Yara Sayegh
When my claim went to adjudication last year it took FOREVER!!! They kept saying "2-3 weeks" but it was more like 10 weeks and I couldn't get ANYONE on the phone!!! 😠I called literally 50+ times. The whole system is a joke. Good luck getting through to a human being at ESD - you'll need it!!!
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Keisha Johnson
•Have you tried using Claimyr? It helped me get through to an ESD agent after weeks of trying on my own. I was skeptical at first but it actually worked - they got me connected to an ESD rep in about 25 minutes. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ?si=26TzE_zGms-DODN3. Definitely worth it when you're dealing with adjudication issues that need a human to resolve.
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Paolo Longo
I work with employment issues professionally, and I want to clarify something important: what you're describing might actually be better handled through Paid Family & Medical Leave (PFML) rather than regular unemployment. PFML is specifically designed for situations like yours - caring for a family member with a serious health condition. The benefit amount is similar to unemployment (about 90% of your weekly wage up to a cap), but it's specifically designed for caregiving situations. Unemployment benefits require you to be available for work and actively job searching, which might be difficult while providing full-time care. PFML doesn't have these requirements. You can apply at paidleave.wa.gov and the approval process is often faster than ESD adjudication for voluntary quits.
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Miguel Ramos
•This is incredibly helpful information - I hadn't even considered PFML! You're right that I probably couldn't manage job searches while caring for my dad full-time. Do you know if I can apply for PFML even after I've already quit my job? Or should I have applied before resigning?
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Paolo Longo
You can still apply for PFML after leaving your job, but ideally you should apply as soon as possible. There's a waiting week after your application is approved before benefits begin. One thing to note: you need to have worked 820 hours in Washington during either the last four completed calendar quarters or the four quarters before that. Also, PFML allows you to take up to 12 weeks per year to care for a family member. If for some reason you don't qualify for PFML, then pursuing unemployment with a "good cause quit" is your next best option, but as others have mentioned, be prepared for adjudication and possibly an appeal process.
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Miguel Ramos
•Thank you for this additional info! I've worked full-time in WA for the past 3 years, so I should meet the hours requirement. I'm going to look into PFML right away. This seems like a much better fit for my situation than traditional unemployment.
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CosmicCowboy
I had to quit my job last year when my wife got sick (stroke). I applied for regular unemployment and got denied initially. The denial letter said I had "quit without good cause" even though I explained the medical situation. I filed an appeal and had to wait for a hearing with a judge from OAH. It was really stressful. At the hearing I showed all my wife's medical records and explained why I had to care for her. The judge reversed the decision and I got benefits, but it took almost 3 months from my initial claim to getting any money. If I had known about PFML back then I would've done that instead.
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Amina Diallo
•same thing happened to my neighbor!! denied then approved on appeal. the system is set up to deny first and make u fight for it i swear
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Zainab Omar
Just to follow up on the PFML suggestion, which I agree is likely your best option: When you apply, you'll need certification from your father's healthcare provider. The certification form is available on the PFML website. If you do end up going the unemployment route instead, make sure you continue filing weekly claims even while in adjudication. Many people don't realize they need to keep filing weekly claims during the adjudication process. If your claim is eventually approved, you'll receive back payments for those weeks - but only if you filed claims for them.
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Miguel Ramos
•That's a really important tip about continuing weekly claims during adjudication - I wouldn't have known to do that. I've started the PFML application process and am getting the medical certification form completed by my dad's oncologist. Thank you again for all your help!
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