EDD denied my claim after quitting to care for special needs daughter - any appeal options?
I'm really struggling right now and could use some guidance. I recently resigned from my nursing assistant position because my daughter's medical condition worsened (she has severe autism with seizures) and required more intensive care than before. When I applied for unemployment, EDD immediately disqualified me saying I voluntarily quit without 'good cause.' During my phone interview, the EDD representative told me I should have requested an unpaid leave of absence instead of quitting outright. Here's the thing - my previous job was paying $23/hour which barely covered our basic expenses, let alone my daughter's therapy sessions that insurance only partially covers. I was hoping to find part-time work with better pay while still being able to take my daughter to her appointments. I honestly didn't think about asking for leave because I NEEDED to find a better-paying position anyway. Does anyone know if caring for a disabled child qualifies as 'good cause' for voluntarily quitting? Can I appeal this decision? The disqualification letter mentions something about 'compelling family circumstances' but doesn't explain what qualifies. I'm desperate - we have maybe 2 months of savings left before things get really bad.
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Keisha Taylor
they ALWAYS deny claims when u quit, doesnt matter if its for a good reason or not!! ive seen this happen to so many people. the system is RIGGED against parents especially. u should definitely appeal though, you have 30 days from the date on that letter to submit the appeal form. make sure you include ALL your daughters medical documentation, letters from her doctors, everything!!!
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Yara Khoury
•Thank you! I'll start gathering her medical records tomorrow. Do you know if I need to get a specific statement from her doctor for the appeal? I'm worried they'll just deny it again without something official stating she needs full-time care.
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StardustSeeker
I went through something similar last year with my son who has special needs. Under CA Unemployment Insurance Code Section 1256, you may qualify for benefits if you quit due to 'domestic circumstances' that include care for an ill or disabled family member. However, EDD typically expects that you first exhausted all reasonable alternatives before quitting, such as requesting schedule modifications, FMLA leave, or other accommodations from your employer. For your appeal, you'll need to demonstrate: 1. Your daughter's condition required your care (medical documentation) 2. Why continuing employment made providing that care impossible 3. That you communicated with your employer about your situation before quitting Did you discuss your situation with your employer at all before resigning?
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Yara Khoury
•I did tell my supervisor about my daughter's condition getting worse, but I didn't formally request accommodations. I just submitted my two weeks notice explaining I needed to care for her. The schedule was already fixed at 12-hour shifts, and they'd made it clear before that they couldn't offer part-time positions because they were short-staffed. Should I get a statement from my supervisor confirming we had that conversation?
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Paolo Marino
I had a somewhat similar situation and discovered that caring for a disabled family member CAN qualify as good cause for quitting - but the burden is on you to prove it. For your appeal, here's what worked for me: 1. Get detailed documentation from your daughter's doctor specifically stating she requires full-time care and why 2. Write a timeline showing when her condition worsened and how it conflicted with your work schedule 3. Document any conversations with your employer about your situation (emails, texts, etc.) 4. Explain why alternative solutions (like leave of absence) wouldn't have solved your financial situation The appeal hearing is usually by phone, and the judge will want very specific answers about why you felt quitting was your only option. Be prepared to explain why you couldn't reduce hours instead of quitting completely. Also, have you looked into In-Home Supportive Services (IHSS)? You might qualify to be paid as your daughter's caregiver through that program.
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Yara Khoury
•Thank you for the detailed advice! I hadn't heard about IHSS before - I'll definitely look into that program. For the appeal hearing, should I mention that my employer had a strict policy against part-time schedules? I don't have that in writing, but it was common knowledge among staff.
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Amina Bah
my cousin got denied too when she quit her job bc of childcare issues. its like they expect us to just abandon our kids or something?? the whole system is broken. good luck with ur appeal
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Oliver Becker
Have you tried calling EDD to discuss your case with someone? Sometimes talking to the right person can make all the difference. I've been trying to call them about my claim for weeks, but can never get through - always get the 'too many callers' message and then it hangs up.
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Natasha Petrova
•Calling EDD is nearly impossible these days. I was in the same boat - couldn't get through for weeks about my disqualification. I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to connect with an EDD rep after trying for days on my own. They have a service that basically holds your place in line and calls you when they get an agent on the phone. Saved me hours of redial frustration. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/JmuwXR7HA10?si=TSwYbu_GOwYzt9km Getting through to an actual person made a huge difference in my case - the rep explained exactly what documentation I needed for my appeal and even noted some info in my file that helped.
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Javier Hernandez
I'm gonna be honest with you - your situation sounds really tough but from my experience working with UI claims, quitting for better pay is almost never considered good cause by EDD standards. HOWEVER, quitting to care for a disabled family member absolutely can be good cause IF properly documented. The key to your appeal will be separating these two reasons. Focus ENTIRELY on your daughter's care needs and how your work schedule made it impossible to provide necessary care. Do NOT mention the pay issue in your appeal - that will likely hurt your case. Also, for the appeal hearing, be prepared to answer why you couldn't have requested intermittent FMLA leave or schedule accommodations instead of quitting outright. The judge will definitely ask this. You'll need to explain why those options wouldn't have worked for your specific situation with your daughter's care schedule.
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Yara Khoury
•This is really helpful - thank you! I'll focus solely on her care needs for the appeal. Should I bring up that my employer doesn't offer part-time positions at all? Or should I just focus on why even a leave of absence wouldn't have solved the problem long-term due to her ongoing care needs?
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Emma Davis
u shuld check if u qualfy for SDI or PFL insted of UI. those r for family care situations i think
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StardustSeeker
•Good suggestion, but State Disability Insurance (SDI) and Paid Family Leave (PFL) typically apply when you need temporary time off. SDI is for your own illness/injury, and PFL provides up to 8 weeks to care for a seriously ill family member or bond with a new child. Neither is designed for ongoing, indefinite caregiving situations. Also, both require you to have been contributing to SDI through payroll deductions, and neither would apply if OP has already quit their job.
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Keisha Taylor
BTW - when u appeal make sure u check the box requesting an IN PERSON hearing not phone!! its alot harder for them to deny u when ur sitting right infront of them with ur disabled child. my friend did this and won her appeal even tho she also quit her job!!!
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Yara Khoury
•I didn't realize I could request an in-person hearing! That's a really good tip, thank you. My daughter's condition is visibly apparent so that might help the judge understand our situation better.
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Paolo Marino
One more important thing - if you're filing an appeal, you should continue certifying for benefits every two weeks during the appeal process. If you win your appeal, they'll pay all those weeks retroactively, but only if you kept certifying. Many people don't realize this and miss out on back benefits even when they win their appeals.
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Yara Khoury
•Oh wow, I had no idea I needed to keep certifying! I thought the disqualification meant I shouldn't bother. Thank you so much - I'll make sure to certify every two weeks while waiting for the appeal.
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Natasha Petrova
Just wanted to update that I won my appeal in a similar situation. The key was having detailed medical documentation that specifically stated my family member required my personal care and a doctor's note explaining why my work schedule was incompatible with providing that care. The judge was actually quite understanding once all the medical evidence was presented. Good luck with your appeal!
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Yara Khoury
•That's so encouraging to hear! I have an appointment with my daughter's neurologist next week, and I'll ask for detailed documentation about her care requirements. Thank you for sharing your success story - it gives me hope.
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