Can I get Washington ESD unemployment benefits if I quit due to child care issues?
I had to quit my job last month because my daycare suddenly closed and I couldn't find alternate childcare that I could afford on short notice. My employer wouldn't let me work from home or adjust my schedule. I've heard conflicting things about whether Washington ESD will approve unemployment benefits if you quit for childcare reasons. Has anyone been through this situation? I'm really stressed about making ends meet while I look for new work that fits my childcare schedule.
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Isla Fischer
Washington ESD does consider childcare issues as potentially qualifying for benefits under 'good cause' but you'll need to prove you tried other options first. Did you document your attempts to find alternate care or request accommodation from your employer?
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Logan Chiang
•I have emails showing I asked HR about remote work options and they said no. I also have documentation of calling 8 different daycares but they all had waiting lists or were too expensive.
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Isla Fischer
•That's exactly what you'll need for your claim. Make sure to include all that documentation when you file. Washington ESD will likely require an adjudication interview to review your case.
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Miles Hammonds
I went through this exact situation 6 months ago! Washington ESD approved my claim but it took forever because they had to do a full investigation. The key is proving you had no reasonable alternative.
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Logan Chiang
•How long did the adjudication process take? I'm worried about how I'll pay bills while waiting for a decision.
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Miles Hammonds
•Mine took about 5 weeks total. If you get approved, they'll backdate the benefits to when you first filed. But yeah, the waiting period is really stressful financially.
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Ruby Blake
•5 weeks?? That's insane. I've been trying to call Washington ESD for 3 weeks about my adjudication and can never get through. The phone system just hangs up on me.
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Micah Franklin
Actually I just discovered something that helped me get through to Washington ESD when I was dealing with my quit claim. There's this service called Claimyr that basically calls for you and gets you connected to an actual agent. I used it at claimyr.com and finally got to talk to someone about my case. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ that shows how it works.
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Ruby Blake
•Is this legit? I'm desperate at this point but don't want to get scammed.
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Micah Franklin
•Yeah it's totally legitimate. I was skeptical too but it actually worked. They don't ask for any personal info, just your phone number so they can transfer the call to you when they get connected.
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Ella Harper
the whole system is messed up!! quit for childcare and they make you jump through hoops like youre trying to scam them. meanwhile people who get fired for cause probably get benefits no problem
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Isla Fischer
•Actually, people fired for misconduct usually get disqualified from benefits. The system is designed to be thorough because they need to prevent fraud while also helping people in legitimate situations.
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Ella Harper
•whatever, still takes way too long when people need help NOW
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PrinceJoe
When you file your initial claim, make sure you select 'quit with good cause' as your separation reason. You'll also need to be available for work and actively job searching, which means finding childcare arrangements for when you do get interviews or job offers.
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Logan Chiang
•That's another problem - how can I be available for work if I still don't have reliable childcare? Seems like a catch-22.
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PrinceJoe
•You need to show you're making efforts to solve the childcare issue while job searching. Document your ongoing search for daycare, family help, etc. Washington ESD understands it's an ongoing process.
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Brooklyn Knight
I had a friend who quit for childcare reasons and got denied initially but won on appeal. The key was proving she exhausted all reasonable alternatives before quitting.
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Logan Chiang
•How long did the appeal process take? This is already so overwhelming.
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Brooklyn Knight
•Her appeal hearing was scheduled about 6 weeks after she filed it, but she said the hearing itself was pretty straightforward since she had good documentation.
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Miles Hammonds
Also make sure you're filing your weekly claims even during adjudication! A lot of people forget to do this and then miss out on backpay if they get approved.
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Logan Chiang
•I didn't know that - thanks for the tip! I haven't filed yet but I'll make sure to start my weekly claims right away.
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Ruby Blake
Update on the Claimyr thing - I tried it yesterday and actually got through to a Washington ESD agent in like 20 minutes! She was able to explain exactly what documentation I needed for my quit claim. Definitely worth trying if you're stuck.
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Logan Chiang
•That's amazing! I'm definitely going to try this. Did they explain anything specific about childcare-related quits?
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Ruby Blake
•She said they look at whether you made reasonable efforts to keep working - like asking for schedule changes, looking for backup care, etc. Having proof of those efforts is crucial.
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Owen Devar
just want to add that childcare costs are insane right now so dont feel bad about quitting if you literally couldnt afford it. my sister pays more for daycare than her mortgage
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Logan Chiang
•Thank you for saying that. I've been feeling so guilty about leaving my job but the daycare options I found would have cost more than half my paycheck.
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Isla Fischer
One more important point - make sure you're honest about your job search limitations due to childcare when you file your weekly claims. Don't say you're available 24/7 if you're not, but do show you're genuinely looking within your constraints.
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PrinceJoe
•Exactly. Washington ESD would rather see honest limitations than discover later that you weren't truthful about your availability.
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Daniel Rivera
Been there mama! It's so hard but you did what you had to do for your family. The system should be more understanding of these situations.
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Logan Chiang
•Thank you! Sometimes I wonder if people without kids just don't understand how impossible the situation can become.
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Daniel Rivera
•Exactly! And then they act like we're trying to game the system when we're just trying to survive and take care of our kids.
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Micah Franklin
Just wanted to follow up on my Claimyr experience - used it again this week to check on my claim status and got connected immediately. Really glad I found this tool because calling Washington ESD the regular way was impossible.
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Logan Chiang
•I tried it too after seeing your post and finally got answers about my claim! The agent walked me through exactly what documents to upload for my childcare situation.
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Sophie Footman
make sure u keep track of all ur job search activities too. washington esd requires proof that ur actively looking even during adjudication
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Logan Chiang
•Good point. I've been applying to remote jobs and positions with flexible schedules. Should I mention the childcare constraints in my job search log?
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Isla Fischer
•Yes, note that you're focusing on positions compatible with your childcare needs. This shows you're being realistic about your availability.
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Connor Rupert
The documentation requirements for quit claims are no joke. I had to provide like 15 different pieces of evidence for my case.
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Logan Chiang
•What kind of documents did they want besides the daycare closure notice and employer emails?
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Connor Rupert
•Bank statements showing I couldn't afford the backup care options, text messages with family about help, screenshots of daycare waiting lists, even receipts from calling around to sitters.
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Brooklyn Knight
Pro tip: if you get an adjudication interview scheduled, don't panic! They just want to hear your story and verify the facts. Be honest and have your documents ready.
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Logan Chiang
•How do they usually notify you about the interview? Phone or mail?
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Brooklyn Knight
•Both usually. They'll send a letter with the date and time, and might call to confirm. Make sure your contact info is updated in your account.
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Molly Hansen
this whole thread makes me realize how complicated the system is. why cant they just trust people when they say they had to quit for childcare?
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PrinceJoe
•Unfortunately fraud prevention requires them to verify claims, but I agree the process could be more streamlined for common situations like childcare issues.
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Brady Clean
Following this thread because I might be in the same situation soon. My babysitter is moving next month and I have no backup plan yet.
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Logan Chiang
•Start documenting your search for replacement care now, just in case! And ask your employer about options before you have to make any decisions.
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Brady Clean
•Good advice, thanks! I'll start keeping records of everything I try.
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Isla Fischer
Final reminder for OP - file your claim as soon as possible since there's a waiting period anyway. The sooner you start the process, the sooner you'll get answers and potentially benefits.
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Logan Chiang
•Thanks everyone for all the help! I'm going to file tomorrow morning and use that Claimyr service if I need to talk to someone. This thread has been incredibly helpful.
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Skylar Neal
Good luck OP! Remember that taking care of your child is not something to feel guilty about. You're doing the right thing.
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Logan Chiang
•Thank you so much. This community has been amazing and I feel much more confident about navigating this process now.
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Molly Chambers
I'm going through something similar right now - my childcare situation fell through unexpectedly and I'm trying to figure out if I should quit or try to make other arrangements work. Reading through all these responses has been so helpful! The documentation requirements seem overwhelming but it's good to know there are people who have successfully navigated this. @Logan Chiang I hope your claim gets approved quickly - it sounds like you did everything right by documenting your efforts with your employer and the daycare search.
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