Can I collect Washington ESD unemployment if I have no childcare available?
I'm really stressed about this situation. I lost my job two weeks ago and need to file for unemployment but I don't have any childcare lined up for my 3 year old. My usual daycare has a waiting list and my mom who used to help moved out of state last month. I know I have to be able and available for work to get UI benefits but what happens if I can't find childcare? Does Washington ESD consider this when they review claims? I really need these benefits to pay rent while I look for work but I'm worried they'll deny me if I can't prove I'm available immediately.
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Lauren Wood
You can still collect unemployment benefits even with childcare issues, but you need to show you're actively seeking childcare solutions. Washington ESD considers this a temporary barrier. Document your childcare search efforts - daycare applications, babysitter interviews, etc. You should still file your claim right away and report your job search activities.
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Dylan Baskin
•That's reassuring, thank you! Should I mention the childcare situation when I file my initial claim or just keep track of my efforts to find care?
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Lauren Wood
•Include it in your initial filing. Be honest about your situation but emphasize you're actively working to resolve it. The key is showing good faith effort to become available for work.
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Ellie Lopez
I had a similar issue last year. Washington ESD approved my claim but I had to document that I was looking for both jobs AND childcare. I kept a log of daycare centers I contacted, family members I asked, everything. They never questioned it during my weekly claims.
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Dylan Baskin
•How long did it take you to find childcare? I'm worried this could drag on for months.
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Ellie Lopez
•About 6 weeks for me, but I got benefits the whole time. Just be thorough with your documentation and file your weekly claims on time.
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Chad Winthrope
Actually, if you're having trouble reaching Washington ESD to clarify this situation, I recently discovered Claimyr at claimyr.com. They help you get through to actual ESD agents instead of sitting on hold forever. There's a demo video at https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ that shows how it works. Might be worth checking out if you need to discuss your specific childcare situation with someone at ESD.
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Dylan Baskin
•I've been trying to call ESD for days! Always get a busy signal or disconnected. I'll definitely look into this, thanks.
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Paige Cantoni
•Wait, is this a paid service? How much does it cost?
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Chad Winthrope
•Yes it's a service but honestly after wasting hours trying to get through the regular way, it was worth it for me. Check their site for details.
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Kylo Ren
THIS IS EXACTLY WHY THE SYSTEM IS BROKEN! They expect you to find work immediately but don't consider real life situations like childcare. It's ridiculous that you have to jump through hoops to prove you're looking for care when you obviously want to work.
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Dylan Baskin
•I agree it's frustrating but I just need to know how to navigate the system as it is right now.
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Nina Fitzgerald
•The system isn't perfect but at least they do consider childcare issues. Better than some states.
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Jason Brewer
You might want to look into DSHS childcare assistance while you're job hunting. Sometimes they have emergency childcare vouchers for people in transition. Won't solve your unemployment question but could help with the underlying problem.
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Dylan Baskin
•Oh I hadn't thought of that! Do you know if there's an income limit for those vouchers?
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Jason Brewer
•There are income limits but unemployment benefits might still qualify you. Worth calling them to ask.
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Ellie Lopez
Just make sure you're not turning down job offers because of the childcare issue. That could hurt your claim. You need to show you'd accept suitable work if you had care arrangements.
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Dylan Baskin
•Good point. What if an employer wants me to start immediately but I need a week to arrange childcare?
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Ellie Lopez
•Most reasonable employers understand childcare needs. You can negotiate a start date. Just document these conversations.
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Kiara Fisherman
•Yeah, any decent employer will give you at least a few days to arrange childcare when you accept a position.
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Lauren Wood
One more thing - make sure you're meeting the job search requirements even while dealing with childcare issues. You still need to document your job search activities for your weekly claims. Look for positions that might offer flexible hours or remote work options.
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Dylan Baskin
•How many job contacts do I need per week in Washington? I want to make sure I'm meeting the requirements.
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Lauren Wood
•It's typically 3 job search activities per week, but check the specific requirements on your claim. Can include applications, networking, job fairs, etc.
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Liam Cortez
i had the same problem when my daughter was little. took forever to get daycare but esd never gave me trouble about it. just keep looking for work and keep looking for childcare at the same time
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Dylan Baskin
•Did you have to explain the situation every time you filed your weekly claim?
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Liam Cortez
•nah, just the first time. after that it was just the regular questions about job search and stuff
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Chad Winthrope
If you do need to speak with someone at Washington ESD about your specific situation, I really recommend trying Claimyr. I was skeptical at first but it actually worked - got connected to an agent in about 20 minutes instead of the usual hours of calling. Sometimes you need that personal clarification on complex situations like yours.
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Savannah Vin
•How does it work exactly? Do they just call for you or something?
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Chad Winthrope
•They handle the calling process and get you connected to an actual ESD agent. Much better than the endless busy signals.
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Nina Fitzgerald
Don't overthink this too much. Thousands of people collect unemployment while dealing with childcare issues. As long as you're genuinely looking for work and childcare, you should be fine. File your claim and keep detailed records.
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Dylan Baskin
•You're right, I'm probably overthinking it. Just nervous about doing everything correctly.
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Nina Fitzgerald
•Totally understandable! The system can be confusing but they're generally reasonable about real-life situations.
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Mason Stone
My sister went through this exact situation in 2023. She got benefits while looking for childcare but it took her about 2 months to find affordable care. The key was being proactive about documenting everything - daycare applications, interviews with potential babysitters, even family members she asked for help.
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Dylan Baskin
•That's helpful to know it worked out for someone else. Did she have any issues during her weekly certifications?
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Mason Stone
•None at all. She just answered the questions honestly and never had any problems. The job search requirement was actually harder than the childcare part.
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Makayla Shoemaker
Are you looking at all types of childcare or just traditional daycare? Sometimes family daycare providers have shorter waiting lists and might be more flexible with scheduling.
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Dylan Baskin
•I've been focused on daycare centers but you're right, I should look at family providers too. Any suggestions on where to find them?
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Makayla Shoemaker
•Try the DSHS childcare website - they have a provider search function. Also check local Facebook groups for parents.
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Kylo Ren
The whole system is set up like everyone has perfect life circumstances with no real responsibilities. Single parents especially get screwed by these arbitrary availability requirements.
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Christian Bierman
•I get the frustration but they do make accommodations for childcare issues. It's not perfect but it's not completely unreasonable either.
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Kylo Ren
•Tell that to someone who's been denied benefits because they couldn't find childcare fast enough!
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Jason Brewer
Have you considered remote work opportunities? Might be easier to manage childcare if you're working from home, and it shows you're actively seeking employment that works with your current situation.
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Dylan Baskin
•That's a good idea. I have office experience so remote work could be an option. Still need some childcare but maybe not full-time.
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Jason Brewer
•Exactly! Even part-time childcare might be easier to find and less expensive while you transition.
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Emma Olsen
Just to add another perspective - I know someone who had their claim questioned because they turned down a job due to childcare conflicts. Make sure you can demonstrate you're trying to resolve the childcare issue, not using it as an excuse to avoid work.
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Dylan Baskin
•That's concerning. How should I handle it if I get a job offer before I find childcare?
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Emma Olsen
•Be upfront with the employer about needing time to arrange childcare. Most will work with you. Document the conversation either way.
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Lucas Lindsey
Another option might be looking into nanny sharing with other families. It's becoming more common and can be more affordable than traditional daycare.
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Dylan Baskin
•How do you find families to share with? That sounds like it could work well.
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Lucas Lindsey
•Check local parenting groups on social media or apps like Nextdoor. Some areas have specific nanny share groups.
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Chad Winthrope
I keep coming back to the communication issue - if you're unsure about anything, actually talking to an ESD agent can clear up a lot of confusion. That's where Claimyr really helped me. Sometimes you just need that human confirmation that you're handling things correctly.
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Dylan Baskin
•I think I will try that service. I've been stressed about whether I'm interpreting the rules correctly.
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Sophie Duck
•Getting real answers from ESD is definitely worth the peace of mind when you're dealing with something this important.
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Austin Leonard
Don't forget to keep receipts if you do find childcare - you might be able to claim some of those costs when you file taxes, especially if it's work-related.
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Dylan Baskin
•Good point! I hadn't thought about the tax implications. Thanks for mentioning that.
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Lauren Wood
Final thoughts - file your claim immediately, be honest about your situation, document everything, and keep looking for both work and childcare. The Washington ESD system is designed to help people get back to work, not to punish them for having real responsibilities. You'll be fine if you approach it systematically.
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Dylan Baskin
•Thank you everyone for all the advice! This has been incredibly helpful. I feel much more confident about filing my claim now.
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Anita George
•Good luck with everything! Hope you find both a job and childcare soon.
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Abigail Spencer
This thread has been really informative. I'm bookmarking it in case I ever need this information. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences!
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Dylan Baskin
•Same here - it's great to have a community where people actually help each other navigate these complicated systems.
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Chris Elmeda
I went through something similar about 8 months ago. Lost my job and had two kids (ages 2 and 4) with no immediate childcare options. Washington ESD was actually pretty understanding about it. The key things that helped me were: 1) I filed my claim right away and was upfront about the childcare situation from the start, 2) I kept detailed records of every daycare I contacted, every family member I reached out to, and every potential childcare solution I explored, and 3) I continued my job search while also searching for childcare, applying to positions that might offer flexible schedules or remote work options. I received benefits for about 10 weeks while sorting everything out. The weekly claims were straightforward - just the standard questions about job search activities and availability. As long as you're genuinely trying to resolve the childcare barrier and actively looking for work, they consider you available for employment. Don't let the stress delay your filing - you've already waited two weeks and you don't want to miss out on benefits you're entitled to.
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Natasha Volkova
•This is exactly what I needed to hear! Having someone who went through the same situation with multiple kids makes me feel so much better about my chances. I'm definitely going to file tomorrow and start keeping those detailed records you mentioned. Did you find that certain types of job applications worked better while you were dealing with the childcare situation?
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Zane Hernandez
•This gives me so much hope! I was really worried about being honest about the childcare issue on my initial claim, but it sounds like transparency is actually the better approach. Can I ask - when you were doing your weekly certifications, did you ever have to explain the childcare situation again or was it just noted in your file from the initial claim? I want to make sure I'm prepared for what to expect during the ongoing process.
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Dmitry Volkov
•This is so reassuring to hear from someone who actually went through this with kids! I've been losing sleep over whether to mention the childcare issue upfront or try to handle it quietly. Your approach of being transparent from day one makes total sense. I'm curious - when you were documenting your childcare search efforts, did you just keep a simple log or did ESD want specific forms of proof? I want to make sure I'm tracking everything the right way from the beginning.
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Jeremiah Brown
•Wow, 10 weeks of benefits while dealing with two kids and childcare issues - that's really encouraging! I've been so worried about how this would work with just my 3-year-old. Can I ask what kind of documentation you kept for the childcare search? Like did you save emails from daycares, take notes on phone calls, that sort of thing? I want to make sure I'm being thorough enough with my record keeping. Also, did you find that ESD preferred certain types of childcare solutions over others, or were they pretty flexible as long as you were actively searching?
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Selena Bautista
•This is incredibly helpful - thank you for sharing your experience! I'm dealing with the same situation right now and was really nervous about being upfront about the childcare issue. Your success story gives me confidence to file immediately and be transparent from the start. I'm especially glad to hear that the weekly certifications were straightforward once everything was documented initially. Did you find any particular resources or websites helpful for finding childcare options during your search? I'm trying to cast as wide a net as possible.
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Dylan Cooper
•This is such a relief to read! I'm actually in a very similar boat - lost my job 3 weeks ago and have been paralyzed by fear about filing because of my childcare situation. Your experience with two kids makes me feel like I can handle this with just one. I'm definitely going to follow your approach of being completely upfront from the beginning. One quick question - when you say you applied to flexible/remote positions, did you mention in your applications that you were currently arranging childcare, or did you wait until you got to the interview stage to discuss scheduling needs? I want to make sure I'm not inadvertently limiting my job prospects while also being realistic about my current availability.
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Daniela Rossi
•This is such valuable insight! I've been putting off filing for almost three weeks now because I was terrified about the childcare situation, but your experience shows it's definitely manageable. The part about keeping detailed records is really helpful - I hadn't thought about documenting family members I reached out to. Quick question: when you were applying for remote/flexible positions, did you find that employers were generally understanding about childcare arrangements, or did you run into any pushback? I'm wondering how to balance being honest about my current situation while still appearing like an attractive candidate. Also, did ESD ever ask to see your childcare search documentation, or was it more about having it available if needed?
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Sofia Ramirez
•Thank you so much for sharing your detailed experience! As someone new to this community and facing a similar situation with my toddler, your story gives me real hope. I'm particularly relieved to hear that being upfront from the beginning actually worked in your favor - I was worried that mentioning childcare issues right away might hurt my claim. Your point about applying to flexible/remote positions is brilliant; I hadn't considered that angle but it makes perfect sense to show you're adapting your job search to work around the childcare barrier rather than letting it stop you completely. I'm going to start my application tomorrow and follow your documentation approach. Did you end up finding both a job and stable childcare by the end of those 10 weeks, or did one come before the other?
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