Will Social Security DAC benefits increase when my daughter's survivor benefits end? Part-time caregiver options?
I'm really stressed about our family's Social Security situation changing soon. My daughter (17) receives survivor benefits that will terminate in about 18 months when she turns 18. My son has DAC (Disabled Adult Child) benefits because of his condition that requires constant care. Since I'm his only caregiver, I can only work part-time (25 hours/week) which barely covers our expenses. I have two questions that keep me up at night: 1. When my daughter's survivor benefits stop, will my son's DAC benefits automatically increase? 2. Since I'm his full-time caregiver, can I apply for any benefits myself? I previously received benefits until my youngest turned 16. Someone at the SSA office briefly mentioned I should come back and apply for something when my daughter's benefits end, but they were rushed and didn't explain further. Has anyone navigated this situation? Part-time work really isn't sustainable for us long-term.
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Freya Nielsen
Your sons DAC benifits won't automatically increase when your daughter stops getting benefits. Each person gets their own amount. You might b able to get parents benefits if your caring for your disabled son but i think there's an income limit
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Ravi Kapoor
•Thank you for responding. Do you know what the income limit might be for parent's benefits? I only make about $1,250/month from my part-time job.
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Omar Mahmoud
I went through something similar with my disabled son and wanted to share what I learned. The DAC benefit amount for your son is calculated based on the worker's (deceased parent's) record and won't automatically increase when your daughter's benefits stop. What the SSA person was likely referring to is Mother's/Father's benefits, which you can receive as a parent caring for a disabled child (at any age) who began their disability before age 22. These benefits could replace what you were receiving when your daughter was under 16. There is an earnings limit for these benefits - for 2025 it's approximately $22,320 per year before they start reducing your benefit amount. With your part-time income around $15,000 annually, you would likely qualify for the full amount. You should definitely apply for the Mother's/Father's benefit as soon as your daughter's benefits end. Bring documentation of your caregiving responsibilities and your son's medical condition.
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Ravi Kapoor
•This is so helpful! I didn't realize there was a specific benefit for parents caring for disabled adult children. That earnings limit is above what I make, so hopefully I'll qualify. Do you know what percentage of the deceased parent's benefit this would be? My late husband's full benefit would have been around $2,800/month.
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Chloe Harris
DONT COUNT ON THE SSA TO TELL YOU EVERYTHING!!!! I was in your shoes 3 years ago and they NEVER volunteered information about benefits I was entitled to. I found out from another parent that I qualified for caregiver benefits and when I went back to apply the SSA worker acted like it was some big secret!!! You have to specifically ASK for Mother's benefits as a caregiver of a disabled adult child and be PERSISTENT. They will try to say your not eligible and you have to INSIST!!!
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Freya Nielsen
•This is so true!!!! The SSA never tells u what ur eligible for. My sister had to ask 3 different people before they admitted she could get benefits as a caregiver.
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Diego Vargas
My brother gets DAC benefits too. When my benefits ended his stayed the same amount. But my mom got benefits as his caregiver until she started working full time.
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Ravi Kapoor
•That's good to know that your mom received benefits as his caregiver. It sounds like this might be what the SSA person was referring to when they told me to come back after my daughter's benefits end.
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NeonNinja
I spent 2 months trying to get through to Social Security about a similar situation with my son's DAC benefits. Called daily, got disconnected constantly, and could never speak to the same person twice. Finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) and got through to a live agent in 20 minutes. They have a video demo showing exactly how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent confirmed I was eligible for parent's benefits while caring for my disabled son and helped me start the application process right over the phone. They explained that parent's benefits are generally 75% of the deceased worker's PIA (Primary Insurance Amount), but subject to the family maximum limit. Definitely worth checking out if you're struggling to get answers from SSA directly.
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Freya Nielsen
•Does this Claimyr thing really work? SSA always hangs up on me or puts me on hold forever
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Anastasia Popov
To address your specific questions: 1. DAC benefits don't automatically increase when other beneficiaries on the same record stop receiving benefits. Each person's benefit is calculated separately, though all are subject to the Family Maximum Benefit limit. 2. Yes, you likely qualify for what's called "Mother's or Father's Benefits" as the parent caring for a disabled adult child. The key requirements are: - Your son became disabled before age 22 - You must be unmarried (or remarried after age 60) - You must not be entitled to a higher benefit on your own record - You must provide evidence of caregiving responsibility The benefit amount would be up to 75% of your late spouse's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), subject to the family maximum. With your part-time earnings of approximately $15,000 annually, you would be under the 2025 earnings limit of $22,320. Schedule an appointment with SSA about 3 months before your daughter's benefits end. Bring documentation of your caregiving responsibilities for your disabled son, including medical records showing his condition requires substantial care. Important: This won't happen automatically - you must file an application specifically for Mother's/Father's Benefits.
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Ravi Kapoor
•Thank you for this detailed explanation! I really appreciate you breaking down exactly what I need to do. I'll call SSA next week to schedule an appointment for a few months before my daughter's benefits end. I also have all my son's medical documentation ready to show his need for care.
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Sean Murphy
I applied for mother's benefits last year but got denied because they said I make too much money (I work 30 hrs and make $24k). They have this earnings test thing and if you make over a certain amount they reduce your benefit by $1 for every $2 you earn over the limit. So annoying that they punish us for trying to work part time while taking care of our kids!!
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Omar Mahmoud
•This is an important point. The 2025 earnings limit for people under Full Retirement Age is $22,320. If you earn more than that, they reduce benefits by $1 for every $2 above the limit. However, with the original poster earning about $15,000 annually, they should be well under this limit and eligible for the full benefit amount.
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Ravi Kapoor
Thank you all for your helpful responses! I feel much better knowing there's a path forward with Mother's benefits once my daughter's benefits end. I'm going to: 1. Schedule an appointment with SSA 3 months before my daughter turns 18 2. Specifically ask about Mother's benefits as a caregiver for my disabled son 3. Bring documentation of my caregiving responsibilities and his medical condition 4. Be prepared to advocate for myself if they initially say I'm not eligible I'm relieved my current part-time income should be under the earnings limit. This would make such a huge difference for our family's stability.
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Anastasia Popov
•That's a perfect plan. One more tip: when you go to your appointment, ask for a written explanation of the benefit calculation including the family maximum. This will help you verify they've calculated everything correctly.
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Darcy Moore
I just wanted to add one more thing that might help - when you apply for Mother's benefits, make sure to ask about retroactive benefits too. Sometimes if there was a gap between when your daughter's benefits ended and when you applied, you might be able to get back benefits for up to 6 months. Also, if your son ever needs to go into a care facility or gets additional income sources in the future, it could affect your caregiver benefits, so it's good to stay in touch with SSA about any changes. Good luck with your appointment!
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•That's really good advice about asking for retroactive benefits! I hadn't thought about that possibility. And you're right about staying in touch with SSA if circumstances change - I'll make sure to report any changes in my son's care situation or if my work hours increase. Thanks for the additional tips!
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Dananyl Lear
Just want to echo what others have said about being persistent with SSA! I went through this exact situation 2 years ago when my youngest daughter's survivor benefits ended and I needed to apply for mother's benefits as caregiver for my disabled son. One thing I learned is that you should also ask about auxiliary benefits - sometimes there are additional programs or adjustments that can help. Also, keep detailed records of all your caregiving activities (medical appointments, daily care tasks, etc.) because they may ask for specific documentation. The earnings limit others mentioned is key - at $15,000/year you're well under the threshold. Just remember that if you ever consider increasing your work hours, run the numbers first because sometimes the benefit reduction from higher earnings isn't worth it financially. Hang in there - this transition period is stressful but there is help available once you navigate the system!
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Amina Sy
•This is such valuable advice, especially about keeping detailed records of caregiving activities! I never thought about documenting daily care tasks, but that makes complete sense in case SSA needs proof of the caregiving responsibilities. You're also absolutely right about being careful with increasing work hours - I'll definitely run the numbers first before making any changes to make sure the benefit reduction doesn't outweigh the extra income. It's reassuring to hear from someone who went through this exact transition successfully. Thank you for the encouragement!
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Fatima Al-Sayed
I want to add something important that hasn't been mentioned yet - make sure to ask SSA about whether your state has any additional caregiver support programs that might complement your federal benefits. Some states have respite care programs or caregiver stipends that can help with expenses. Also, when you go to your appointment, bring a list of all your son's medications, therapies, and medical equipment needs. This helps demonstrate the level of care required and strengthens your case for mother's benefits. I learned this the hard way when they initially questioned how much care my disabled daughter actually needed. One more tip: if possible, try to get your appointment scheduled with a disability specialist rather than a general claims representative. They tend to be more knowledgeable about DAC and caregiver benefit rules. You can specifically request this when you call to schedule. You're doing an amazing job caring for your son while working part-time. Don't let anyone make you feel like you're asking for too much - these benefits exist for exactly your situation!
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Tyrone Johnson
•This is excellent advice about state programs and requesting a disability specialist! I hadn't thought about asking for a specific type of representative, but that makes so much sense given how complex these DAC and caregiver benefit rules can be. I'll definitely compile that detailed list of my son's medications, therapies, and equipment - we have quite a few medical appointments and daily care routines that I can document. Thank you for mentioning state programs too - I'll research what might be available in our area to supplement the federal benefits. It's so helpful to hear from other caregivers who understand this situation!
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