Will my stepchild's Social Security DAC benefits change when I claim my retirement?
I'm trying to plan ahead for our family's Social Security situation and need some help understanding how everything works. My husband passed away 3 years ago, and my stepchild (his biological child) is receiving DAC (Disabled Adult Child) benefits based on my deceased husband's work record. I'm currently 63, so about 4 years away from my full retirement age. Here's what I'm confused about: When I eventually file for my own retirement benefits, will my stepchild's DAC benefits somehow switch over to be based on MY work record instead of continuing from their father's? I've heard conflicting things from friends and family, and I can't seem to get a straight answer when I call the SSA (if I can even get through). My work history is solid but my earnings were lower than my husband's, so I'm worried this could reduce my stepchild's monthly payment if there's some kind of automatic switch. Any insights from people who've dealt with this situation would be really appreciated.
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Andre Lefebvre
No, your stepchild's DAC benefits will NOT switch to your record when you claim your own retirement benefits. DAC benefits are permanently based on the parent's record that established eligibility (in this case, your deceased husband). These are two completely separate entitlements. Your stepchild will continue receiving DAC survivor benefits based on your husband's work record regardless of when you file for your own retirement. The only thing that would affect their benefits would be if they started working above SGA (substantial gainful activity) levels or got married (in most cases). Hope this helps ease your mind!
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Carmen Ruiz
•Thank you so much for clarifying! That's a huge relief. I was so worried about accidentally reducing my stepchild's benefits by filing for my own. Just to make sure I understand completely - there's no situation where the SSA would automatically switch which record they're drawing from?
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Zoe Dimitriou
I agree with the previous response. Your stepchild's DAC benefits are based on your deceased husband's record and will remain that way. However, I'd suggest you look into whether you might be eligible for widow's benefits now, before your own retirement. Since you're over 60, you could potentially claim widow's benefits while letting your own retirement benefit grow until your FRA or even age 70 for maximum amount.
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Carmen Ruiz
•That's a really good point about widow's benefits I hadn't considered. Would claiming widow's benefits now affect my stepchild's DAC benefits in any way? And would the widow's benefit be reduced since I'm still working part-time?
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QuantumQuest
when my sis claimed her retiremnt they didnt change her disabled sons benefits at all. he still gets the same amount from my BIL's record even tho hes been gone 12 years now
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Carmen Ruiz
•Thanks for sharing your sister's experience. That's reassuring to hear from someone who's been through a similar situation!
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Jamal Anderson
The SYSTEM is designed to CONFUSE us!!! I spent 3 WEEKS trying to get a straight answer from SS about my disabled daughter's benefits when I retired. Every person told me something different! Finally got someone who actually knew the rules. You have to keep calling until you get someone competent, which feels IMPOSSIBLE these days.
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Mei Zhang
•I had the same problem when I called about my benefits. Waited 2 hours and then got disconnected! Beyond frustrating.
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Liam McGuire
I had this exact concern when I was approaching retirement age. My stepson receives DAC benefits from his late father (my husband). When I contacted Social Security, I discovered they will always pay the higher amount between the two potential benefits, but they don't automatically switch. In practice, the deceased parent's benefit is almost always higher since DAC benefits are 75% of the deceased worker's benefit amount. One thing to be aware of though - if your stepchild ever works above SGA limits ($1,550/month in 2025 for non-blind individuals), that could jeopardize their DAC benefits regardless of which record it's based on. The rules are complex but that threshold is critical for maintaining eligibility.
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Amara Eze
•Is that SGA limit the same for all disabled beneficiaries? I thought there might be different amounts depending on the type of disability?
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Andre Lefebvre
Have you tried using Claimyr to get through to someone at Social Security? It saved me hours of frustration when I needed answers about my daughter's DAC benefits. Their system connects you with an SSA representative without the endless hold times. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU that shows exactly how it works. I was able to get clear answers about my complicated benefit questions in one call instead of multiple attempts. Given your situation with multiple benefit types involved, speaking directly with SSA might give you the most accurate information.
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Carmen Ruiz
•I haven't heard of that service before. Sounds worth checking out, especially if it helps me get an official answer. The last time I tried calling SSA directly I waited for over an hour before giving up. Thanks for the suggestion!
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Mei Zhang
my neighbor's kid gets DAC and when she turned 63 and took early retirement nothing changed with her son's payment. dont worry about it!
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Carmen Ruiz
•Thank you! It's really helpful hearing from people with real-world experience with this situation.
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QuantumQuest
i think u should wait till 70 to get UR retirment anyway... bigger checks!!!!
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Liam McGuire
•This is good advice in many situations, but everyone's financial circumstances are different. The 8% per year increase for delaying past FRA can be substantial, but some people need the income sooner or have health concerns that make waiting impractical.
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Amara Eze
When I claimed my SS at 66, my disabled son's benefits stayed exactly the same. They're completely separate. But I got really confused because there's DAC benefits and then there's also SSI which has different rules entirely and I kept mixing them up when talking to the representatives. Make sure you're clear about which benefit type your stepchild receives when you speak with them. The terminology gets so confusing sometimes!
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Mia Rodriguez
I went through this exact situation two years ago when I filed for my retirement benefits at 66. My stepson receives DAC benefits from his deceased father's record, and I was terrified that my filing would somehow mess up his payments. I called SSA multiple times and got different answers each time, which made me even more anxious. The good news is that absolutely nothing changed with his DAC benefits when I claimed my own retirement. His monthly payment stayed exactly the same and continued to be based on his father's earnings record. The SSA representative who finally gave me the correct information explained that DAC benefits are "locked in" to the original parent's record and won't switch or be affected by a stepparent's retirement filing. One tip: when you do call SSA, be very specific that you're asking about DAC survivor benefits, not regular disability benefits. I found that being precise with the terminology helped me get more accurate answers. Good luck with your planning!
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Dananyl Lear
•Thank you so much for sharing your personal experience with this exact situation! It's incredibly reassuring to hear from someone who went through the same worry and confusion I'm experiencing. I really appreciate the tip about being specific with the terminology when calling SSA - that makes a lot of sense given how many different benefit types there are. It sounds like "DAC survivor benefits" is the precise term I should use. Your story gives me a lot more confidence that my stepchild's benefits will remain stable when I eventually file for retirement.
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Liam O'Donnell
I'm new to navigating Social Security benefits and this discussion has been incredibly helpful! My spouse passed away last year and I'm trying to understand all the different benefit options available. Reading through everyone's experiences here has clarified so much about how DAC benefits work. One question I have - several people mentioned widow's benefits as an option to consider before retirement age. Are there income limits or other restrictions on widow's benefits that might affect eligibility? I'm still working full-time and want to make sure I understand all my options before making any decisions. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and experiences - it's so much more helpful than trying to navigate the SSA phone system!
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Emma Wilson
•Welcome to the community, and I'm sorry for your loss. You're asking great questions about widow's benefits! There are indeed income/earnings limits if you claim widow's benefits before your full retirement age. For 2025, if you're under FRA, you can earn up to $23,400 annually before they start reducing your benefits ($1 for every $2 over the limit). In the year you reach FRA, the limit is higher ($62,160 for 2025) with a different reduction formula. Once you reach FRA, there's no earnings limit at all. The widow's benefit can be claimed as early as age 60 (or 50 if disabled), but it will be reduced if taken before your FRA. Many people use widow's benefits as a bridge while letting their own retirement benefits grow until age 70 for maximum delayed retirement credits. Definitely worth exploring your options!
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Amina Toure
I'm sorry for your loss and understand your concern about planning ahead for your family's financial security. From my experience working with families in similar situations, your stepchild's DAC benefits will absolutely remain on your deceased husband's record when you file for your own retirement benefits. These are completely separate entitlements that don't interact with each other. What's particularly important to understand is that DAC benefits are survivor benefits, not dependent benefits. Once established on a deceased parent's record, they stay there permanently unless the beneficiary loses eligibility due to marriage, earnings above SGA, or medical improvement that removes their disability status. I'd also echo the suggestion about looking into widow's benefits. At 63, you could potentially file for reduced widow's benefits now (if you haven't already) while allowing your own retirement benefit to grow with delayed retirement credits until age 70. This strategy often maximizes lifetime benefits, but it depends on your specific earnings history and current financial needs. Consider speaking with a financial advisor who specializes in Social Security planning to run the numbers for your particular situation.
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•This is such comprehensive and reassuring information! I really appreciate you explaining the difference between survivor benefits and dependent benefits - that distinction makes everything much clearer. The point about DAC benefits being "locked in" once established gives me so much peace of mind. I hadn't really considered the widow's benefits strategy you mentioned, but it sounds like something worth exploring. The idea of using widow's benefits as a bridge while letting my own retirement grow until 70 is intriguing, especially if it could maximize our overall household income. Thank you for suggesting a Social Security specialist - I think having someone run the actual numbers for our specific situation would be really valuable before making any major decisions.
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Liv Park
I'm a newcomer to this community and found this discussion incredibly informative as I'm facing a similar situation. My husband passed away two years ago, and we have a disabled adult son who receives DAC benefits based on his father's record. I've been so anxious about how my eventual retirement filing might affect his benefits, but reading everyone's experiences here has been tremendously reassuring. What strikes me most is how consistent everyone's real-world experiences have been - in every case shared here, the DAC benefits remained unchanged when the surviving spouse filed for retirement. It's also eye-opening to learn about the distinction between DAC survivor benefits versus regular disability benefits, and how important it is to use the correct terminology when speaking with SSA representatives. I'm particularly grateful for the suggestions about widow's benefits and working with a Social Security specialist. Like many of you, I've struggled with the SSA phone system and gotten conflicting information, so having these community insights and professional resources to explore gives me a much clearer path forward. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and experiences - it's made navigating this complex system feel much less overwhelming.
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