Can I switch from my reduced Social Security benefit to spousal benefits after my husband filed at FRA?
I'm kicking myself for taking my Social Security early! I started collecting at 62 (my FRA was 66 years and 10 months) and now I'm only getting $988 monthly. My husband waited longer and just started collecting at 66 and 4 months (his FRA was 66 and 6 months - he was too impatient to wait those extra 2 months for some reason). He's now receiving $2,868 per month. Here's my question: Now that he's collecting his benefits, can I switch to drawing half of his benefit instead of my own reduced amount? Would I get more that way? I'm confused about how the spousal benefit works when you've already claimed your own retirement benefit early. Does anyone know if this is possible or if I'm stuck with my reduced amount forever? Thanks for any help!
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Jade Santiago
youre not stuck but you wont get half. since you took benefits early they reduce the spousal amount too. they call it "deemed filing" and it means ur stuck with the reduction for claiming early. you might still get a small increase tho
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Lauren Johnson
•Oh no! I was afraid of that. Do you know approximately how much of an increase I might get? Even a small bump would help with inflation these days.
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Caleb Stone
Your situation is actually quite common. Since you filed for your own benefits before FRA, you won't receive a full 50% of your husband's benefit as a spousal benefit. Instead, you'll receive what's called a "spousal add-on." The calculation works like this: 1. SSA will calculate your full spousal benefit (50% of your husband's PIA) 2. They'll subtract your own PIA (not your reduced benefit) 3. The difference becomes your spousal add-on amount, which is then reduced because you took benefits early You should contact Social Security to apply for the spousal benefit now that your husband is collecting. You won't get 50% of his $2,868, but you'll likely receive some increase over your current $988. Every bit helps!
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Daniel Price
•This happened to my sister and she only got like $120 extra. Better than nothing I guess but she was expecting WAY more because her husband gets almost triple what she does. The SSA rep told her if she'd waited till her FRA she would've gotten the full 50%.
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Olivia Evans
Same boat!! I'm getting $1025 after taking benefits at 62 and my husband gets $3076 at his FRA. When I applied for spousal benefits, my monthly amount only went up to $1192. That's WAY less than half of his! The SSA agent explained that I'm permanently reduced because I filed early - if I had waited until MY full retirement age to file for ANY benefits, I could have gotten the full 50% spousal benefit. The system really punishes us for taking early benefits!! Definitely apply though - even a small increase helps with these grocery prices!
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Lauren Johnson
•Thank you for sharing your experience! That really helps to set my expectations realistically. I'll apply for the spousal benefit and hope for at least some increase. You're right - every little bit counts these days!
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Sophia Bennett
You should definitely apply for the spousal benefit, but understand that your early claiming decision does permanently impact both your own retirement benefit AND your spousal benefit. Based on the numbers you provided, here's a rough estimate of what might happen: - Your PIA (unreduced benefit) is probably around $1,400-1,500 - Half of your husband's PIA would be approximately $1,434 - Since these are so close, your spousal add-on might be very small The key thing to understand is that when you take benefits before FRA, you're locked into a reduction for life. This is why financial planners often recommend that the lower-earning spouse consider waiting until FRA if a significant spousal benefit might come into play. You'll need to contact SSA directly to apply for the spousal benefit - this isn't automatic.
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Lauren Johnson
•This is really helpful information. I had no idea my own PIA would factor into the spousal benefit calculation! I'm going to contact SSA right away. Do you know if I can apply for this online or do I need to call them?
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Aiden Chen
This whole system is RIDICULOUS!!! The SSA makes everything so complicated ON PURPOSE so people don't get what they deserve. I tried calling them for WEEKS about my spousal benefits and couldn't get through. When I finally did, they gave me THREE different answers from THREE different people!! Some "expert" on YouTube said you can switch to spousal and get the full 50% anytime after your spouse files. WRONG! They don't tell you about all these crazy reductions and deemed filing rules until it's TOO LATE. The whole system needs to be burned down and rebuilt!!
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Caleb Stone
•While the system certainly has its complications, the deemed filing rules have actually been in place for many years. The rules changed slightly with the 2015 budget act, but the basic concept that filing early reduces all benefits permanently has been consistent Social Security policy. It's always best to consult directly with SSA or a financial advisor who specializes in Social Security before making claiming decisions.
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Zoey Bianchi
Try using Claimyr to get through to SSA faster! I was in your same position last month trying to sort out my spousal benefits. Kept calling for days and couldn't get through. My neighbor told me about claimyr.com and they got me connected to a real person at Social Security in about 15 minutes! They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent explained exactly what my spousal add-on would be and processed my application right over the phone. No more waiting on hold forever!
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Daniel Price
•does this actually work? i've been trying to reach someone at SS about my disability review for weeks now
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Zoey Bianchi
•Yes, it definitely worked for me! I was super skeptical too but was desperate after trying for days to get through. The service connected me to an agent who was really helpful with my spousal benefit questions.
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Jade Santiago
btw one more thing - make sure you apply right away. they only go back 6 months for benefits so if you wait too long you could lose some $$$
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Lauren Johnson
•Thank you for that tip! I had no idea there was a time limit. I'll make applying a priority this week.
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Olivia Evans
Has anyone else noticed that SS benefit increases never keep up with REAL inflation? My "cost of living adjustment" this year was a joke compared to how much my groceries and medications have gone up. Even with a spousal add-on, we're all falling behind. Sorry for the rant - just frustrated with the whole system lately.
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Sophia Bennett
•The COLA is based on the Consumer Price Index for Urban Wage Earners and Clerical Workers (CPI-W), which doesn't always reflect the spending patterns of retirees. Many advocacy groups have pushed for using a different index (CPI-E) that would better reflect costs like healthcare that affect seniors disproportionately. It's a valid frustration many beneficiaries share.
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Caleb Stone
Just to clarify something that might be confusing - when we talk about your "spousal benefit" in this scenario, you're not actually switching from your retirement benefit to a spousal benefit. Instead, you'll receive your own reduced retirement benefit PLUS a spousal add-on amount (if you qualify for one based on the calculations). The deemed filing rules mean that when you file for one benefit (retirement), you're deemed to have filed for all benefits you're eligible for at that time. This prevents people from selecting one benefit type now and another later to maximize payments. Definitely contact SSA to see what additional amount you might receive. The application process for the spousal component is relatively straightforward once you get through to a representative.
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Lauren Johnson
•Thank you for this explanation! I was definitely confused and thought I would be switching from one benefit to another. This makes more sense now - I'll be getting an add-on rather than a replacement benefit. I appreciate everyone's help in understanding this complicated system!
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