Can I apply for SSDI/DAC for my adult disabled daughter without starting my own SS retirement benefits?
I'm trying to figure out the best approach for my 58-year-old daughter who has been disabled since childhood. We attempted an SSI claim for her about 10 years ago but got denied due to resources (she owns a partial interest in our family property). Now that I'm eligible for retirement benefits (I'm 67), I'm wondering if she could qualify for SSDI as a Disabled Adult Child (DAC) under my earnings record. Here's my dilemma - I'd prefer to delay my retirement benefits until 70 to maximize my monthly amount. However, getting my daughter on SSDI/DAC would significantly reduce our financial burden of supporting her, plus she'd qualify for Medicare after the 24-month waiting period. We consulted with an attorney about setting up a Special Needs Trust, but he suggested pursuing SSDI/DAC instead (though he's not specialized in disability law). My questions are: 1. Do I absolutely have to start receiving my own Social Security retirement benefits before she can apply for DAC benefits? 2. Should we hire a disability attorney to review our case before proceeding? 3. Any other suggestions for our situation? I'm worried about starting my benefits early, only to find out she doesn't qualify for DAC. That would be a permanent reduction in my benefit amount for potentially no gain.
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Sean Doyle
Yes, unfortunately you do need to file for your own retirement benefits before your adult disabled child can receive benefits on your record. The good news is that all the documentation requirements from her previous SSI application should still be relevant - medical records showing disability onset before age 22, etc. I'd strongly recommend consulting with an attorney who specializes in Social Security disability specifically. They can review her previous denial and advise whether the resource issue (the family land) would impact a DAC claim. Unlike SSI, DAC benefits under SSDI aren't affected by resources, only by work activity and marital status.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•Thank you for the clear explanation. I was afraid that would be the case about having to file for my own benefits first. Do you know if there's any way to get an informal assessment of her eligibility before I commit to starting my benefits? I'd hate to permanently reduce my retirement amount only to find out she doesn't qualify.
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Zara Rashid
I went thru something similar with my son last year. The resource limits only apply to SSI, not to DAC benefits under SSDI. But yes you have to be collecting your own benefits first before she can collect on your record. No way around that part unfortunately.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•Thanks for sharing your experience. Did you end up starting your benefits earlier than planned to help your son? And if you don't mind me asking, how long did the DAC application process take?
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Luca Romano
As someone who's worked with many families in similar situations, I want to add some important points: 1. You're correct that your daughter may qualify for DAC benefits on your record, but you MUST file for your own retirement benefits first. 2. DAC eligibility requires proof that her disability began before age 22, she remains unmarried, and she doesn't engage in substantial gainful activity (earning over $1,550/month in 2025). 3. The property ownership that disqualified her for SSI won't matter for DAC benefits, as SSDI has no resource limits. 4. If your retirement benefit would be substantially higher at 70, you need to carefully calculate whether starting early to enable her DAC benefits makes financial sense long-term. 5. YES, consult with a disability attorney specializing in adult disabled child cases - they can review her medical documentation to assess likelihood of approval BEFORE you apply for your own benefits. This is definitely a situation where professional guidance is worth the investment.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•This is extremely helpful information, thank you. I hadn't considered comparing the long-term financial impact of taking reduced benefits versus waiting. I'll definitely look for an attorney who specializes in DAC cases specifically.
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Nia Jackson
Is your daughter living with you? My brother is disabled (autistic) and gets DAC benefits on my dad's record. One thing they don't tell you is that if she gets approved, she'll get Medicare but there's a 24 month waiting period which SUCKS. Also they look at marriage status - if she ever gets married she loses the benefit which seems really unfair IMO.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•Yes, she lives with us - has her whole life. The 24-month Medicare waiting period is definitely a concern, but still better than our current situation. She's never been interested in marriage, so that restriction shouldn't be an issue for us. Has your brother's experience with DAC benefits been generally positive?
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NebulaNova
Ugh the SSA system makes everything SO COMPLICATED!!! Why should you have to sacrifice YOUR full benefit just so your daughter can get what she deserves?? This is exactly why people get so frustrated with the whole system. They set up all these rules that force impossible choices on families already dealing with enough!!!
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Mateo Hernandez
•its not really that complicated, the rules make sense if u think about it. disabled adult children can only get benefits when the parent is entitled to benefits. thats just how the program works
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Aisha Khan
I work with a disability rights organization, and I'd suggest looking into whether your state has any benefits planning assistance programs (often called WIPA - Work Incentives Planning and Assistance). They can sometimes help you understand the financial implications before you make decisions. Another point: if you have other income/retirement savings, it might make financial sense to live off those for a few years while taking Social Security early to establish your daughter's benefits. This is something a financial advisor could help model for you.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•I hadn't thought about the possibility of drawing down other retirement funds while establishing her benefits. That's an interesting strategy to consider. And I'll definitely look into WIPA resources in our state - thank you for that suggestion!
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Mateo Hernandez
have u contacted any local disability advocacy groups? they sometimes know good lawyers who specialize in this stuff. also if your daughter was denied SSI before doesn't necessarily mean shell be denied SSDI/DAC since the rules r different
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Anastasia Fedorov
•That's a good suggestion. I'll reach out to some local advocacy groups. And yes, I'm hopeful about the DAC application since the resource limits that disqualified her for SSI won't apply.
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NebulaNova
I spent 6 MONTHS trying to get SSA on the phone about my son's disability claim last year. Called DAILY and either couldn't get through or got disconnected after waiting for hours. FINALLY I found this service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual agent in 20 minutes! They have a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU and their website is claimyr.com. It was SUCH a relief to finally talk to someone who could actually help. Just wanted to share since you might need to consult with SSA directly before making your decision.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•That sounds like a lifesaver. Dealing with the phone system has been incredibly frustrating in the past. I'll check out that service - getting specific answers about our situation directly from SSA would be really helpful before I make any decisions about my retirement benefits.
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Zara Rashid
one thing nobody mentioned - if your daughter gets approved for DAC and your spouse is also getting benefits on your record there's something called the family maximum that might reduce the total amount your family receives. doesnt affect your benefit but might affect your planning
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Luca Romano
•Great point about the family maximum! This is where professional advice becomes essential. The family maximum typically ranges from 150% to 180% of the worker's primary insurance amount, so it could potentially affect how much each dependent receives if multiple family members are collecting on one record.
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Sean Doyle
After reading through all the comments, I'd recommend this approach: 1. Consult with a disability attorney who specializes in DAC claims specifically (not just general disability) 2. Have them review your daughter's medical records and previous SSI denial to assess likelihood of DAC approval 3. Consider scheduling a pre-retirement interview with SSA (use Claimyr if phone access is difficult) to get official information about how your benefit choices affect your daughter's eligibility 4. Run the financial numbers comparing scenarios: (a) take reduced benefits now to enable DAC, or (b) wait until 70 while continuing to support your daughter 5. Make sure your daughter's medical records clearly establish disability onset before age 22 A thorough preparation approach will give you much more confidence in your decision.
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Anastasia Fedorov
•This is a wonderfully organized approach - thank you so much! I'll follow these steps and hopefully be able to make an informed decision rather than just guessing. I especially appreciate the suggestion about the pre-retirement interview with SSA.
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