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my neighbor said she only got her husbands FRA amount not his age 70 amount when he died. maybe the rules changed?
Your neighbor likely misunderstood what happened or was misinformed by an SSA representative. Unless this was many years ago under different rules, survivors are entitled to the deceased's actual benefit amount including delayed retirement credits. There's a lot of confusion about Social Security rules, even among their own employees sometimes.
After reading through all these comments, I want to clarify something important: There's a difference between SPOUSAL benefits during your husband's lifetime (which are based on his FRA amount) and SURVIVOR benefits after he passes (which include his delayed retirement credits up to age 70). This confusion might explain why your friends gave you different answers - they might have been thinking about different benefits. But rest assured, as a widow, you would receive his full age-70 benefit amount as your survivor benefit, assuming it's higher than your own benefit. This is exactly why my financial advisor encouraged my wife to delay claiming until 70 - to protect me with a higher survivor benefit if she passes first (she had the higher earnings record).
Thank you for that clarification! That might explain some of the confusion I've encountered while researching this. I definitely understand the difference between spousal and survivor benefits now. I appreciate everyone who took the time to answer my question - this forum has been incredibly helpful.
my sister told me the secret is to be super careful with the trial work period to make sure you dont use them all up at once. use maybe 1 month here and there if you can so they dont all get used up together and then your not stuck without a safety net
This isn't entirely accurate. TWP months aren't something you can strategically schedule - any month where your earnings exceed the TWP threshold (which is $1,110 in 2025) automatically counts as a TWP month. They don't need to be consecutive, but you can't choose when to use them. After the 9th TWP month is completed, you automatically enter the 36-month Extended Period of Eligibility where benefits continue in any month earnings fall below SGA. This is the actual safety net period.
To answer your question about my transition - yes, I did have a couple of payment gaps around month 10-11 after my TWP ended. I earned above SGA for those months, so my benefits were supposed to stop, but then I had a medical setback and my earnings dropped below SGA the following month. SSA was supposed to automatically reinstate my benefits for that month, but I had to make multiple calls to get it resolved. This is where documentation saved me - I had proof of my earnings drop and proof that I'd reported it. Eventually I did fully transition off SSDI, but knowing I had that 36-month safety net of the Extended Period of Eligibility made it much less scary to try. Best decision I ever made, but I wouldn't have done it without understanding all the protections available.
Thank you for sharing this - it's really helpful to hear a success story! I think I'll request that BPQY report and maybe talk to my employer about a more gradual increase in hours. The idea of going straight from part-time to 40 hours a week is probably too aggressive anyway given my health history.
Something else to keep in mind - the earnings limit only applies to wages and self-employment income. It doesn't include investment income, pension payments, government benefits, or annuities. So if part of your income comes from those sources, they don't count toward the $23,400 limit.
Thank you all for the helpful responses! I understand much better now - I need to watch the monthly amounts this first year (2025), but in future years only the annual total matters. I'll keep my earnings under the limits and keep good records of everything. One follow-up question though: does anyone know if they automatically track my earnings through payroll reporting, or do I need to report my earnings to SSA myself throughout the year?
SSA typically receives earnings information from the IRS after the end of the year. However, you are supposed to notify them if you expect to exceed the earnings limit. If you're confident you'll stay under the limit, you generally don't need to make regular reports. They'll reconcile everything when they receive your W-2 data. But if your situation changes and you might go over, it's best to notify them to avoid potential overpayments.
wait so is it the box 1 wages or the box 3 ss wages that count? im still confused
For the Social Security earnings test, you generally need to count gross earnings, which would align more closely with Box 1 (wages, tips, other compensation) plus any pre-tax retirement contributions. Box 3 (Social Security wages) already has certain pre-tax deductions removed, so it's not the right number to use for the earnings test in most cases. This is a common point of confusion because the terminology is similar but the calculations are different for different purposes.
Thank you all for the helpful responses! I clearly misunderstood how this works. We'll go back and check his actual gross earnings to make sure we're tracking correctly for 2025. And we'll be setting aside some emergency funds just in case we accidentally go over and have to deal with benefit withholding. It's frustrating that something seemingly simple gets so complicated. Hopefully when he reaches Full Retirement Age in a few years, we can stop worrying about all this earnings limit stuff!
one thing nobody mentioned - if your daughter gets approved for DAC and your spouse is also getting benefits on your record there's something called the family maximum that might reduce the total amount your family receives. doesnt affect your benefit but might affect your planning
Great point about the family maximum! This is where professional advice becomes essential. The family maximum typically ranges from 150% to 180% of the worker's primary insurance amount, so it could potentially affect how much each dependent receives if multiple family members are collecting on one record.
After reading through all the comments, I'd recommend this approach: 1. Consult with a disability attorney who specializes in DAC claims specifically (not just general disability) 2. Have them review your daughter's medical records and previous SSI denial to assess likelihood of DAC approval 3. Consider scheduling a pre-retirement interview with SSA (use Claimyr if phone access is difficult) to get official information about how your benefit choices affect your daughter's eligibility 4. Run the financial numbers comparing scenarios: (a) take reduced benefits now to enable DAC, or (b) wait until 70 while continuing to support your daughter 5. Make sure your daughter's medical records clearly establish disability onset before age 22 A thorough preparation approach will give you much more confidence in your decision.
forgot to mention - when i did my SS claim, the backpay was nice (they paid me for the month i applied even tho i didnt get my first check til the next month) also check out if ur eligible for any spousal benefits maybe?
I'm divorced after a 16-year marriage, so I think I might be eligible for spousal benefits. But I believe my own benefit will be higher since I've worked consistently with good income. Should probably check both options though.
Since you're planning to continue working part-time while collecting, also be aware of how your earnings will be calculated for the earnings test. SSA counts income when it's earned, not when it's paid. So December bonuses count for December even if paid in January. Good news is that once you reach your Full Retirement Age, the earnings test no longer applies - you can earn any amount without reduction in benefits. For the year you reach FRA, there's a higher limit and a lower penalty rate for the months before your birthday month. Regarding application timing - I recommend applying approximately 2 months before you want benefits to begin. The SSA's processing times can vary dramatically depending on their workload and staffing.
That's really helpful, especially about how they count the income. I'll likely get a year-end bonus too, so I need to factor that in. Seems like my best bet would be to apply about 2 months before I want to start receiving benefits. Thanks for all the advice!
dose she get 50% of ur benifet or is it less? my wife only got like 35% and we dont understand why
The spousal benefit is up to 50% of the worker's full retirement age benefit amount, but it gets reduced if the spouse claims before their own full retirement age. Also, if your wife qualified for any benefits on her own record, that gets paid first, then they add enough spousal benefits to reach the higher amount. That might explain the difference you're seeing.
To answer your original question more definitively: You will NOT need to take the original marriage certificate to the office. SSA has been accepting digital submissions for proof of marriage since 2021 as part of their pandemic procedures, and they've kept those policies in place. During your phone appointment, they'll send you a secure link where you can upload the document, or they might have you upload it through your my Social Security account. Only in rare cases (like suspected fraud or extremely poor document quality) would they request in-person verification now.
Perfect! That's exactly what I needed to know. I'll scan it at high resolution before our appointment just to be safe. Really appreciate everyone's help here.
wait i just realized something... since they index earnings from past years, wouldn't that mean that $15,000 loss from the 1970s would actually be like a $60,000 loss in today's dollars? does that matter at all for the calculation? or is it still just treated as zero regardless of the year and inflation?
No, that's not how it works. Indexing only applies to positive earnings, not losses. A zero is always just zero in the calculation, regardless of when it occurred. The indexing factor is applied only to years where you had earnings and paid Social Security taxes.
I remember reading something about how self-employment losses could be carried forward for income tax purposes, but I'm pretty sure that has absolutely nothing to do with Social Security calculations. Like the others have said, for SS purposes, a loss year is just a zero - nothing more, nothing less. There are so many confusing details with Social Security. I've been retired for 2 years now and I'm still learning new things about how it all works!
Thanks everyone for the helpful responses! Sounds like the consensus is clear - my loss year is just a zero in the calculation, and since I have well over 35 years of work, it probably won't affect my benefit at all. Really appreciate all the insights.
I forgot to mention - I found it helped to keep a simple spreadsheet for each kid showing the deposits coming in and the major expenses going out. Makes doing the annual report WAY easier. Don't wait till the last minute like I did the first year, lol.
After reading through all these comments, I want to emphasize that while being a representative payee does come with responsibilities, thousands of parents manage this role successfully. The SSA has resources to help, including a Guide for Representative Payees you can download from their website. One final note: if your 15-year-old is approaching 16, be aware they may be required to have their own direct deposit account when they turn 16, as some states allow banking at that age without an adult co-owner. Check with your bank about their specific policies for teen accounts.
Jamal Harris
You're right to distinguish between WEP and GPO - they're often confused: - WEP (Windfall Elimination Provision) affects your own Social Security benefits if you receive a pension from work where you didn't pay SS taxes - GPO (Government Pension Offset) affects spousal or survivor benefits if you receive a pension from work where you didn't pay SS taxes And yes, GPO is generally more impactful since it reduces spousal/survivor benefits by 2/3 of your non-covered pension amount. As for the original question - if and when any WEP reform passes, SSA will absolutely send notification letters to affected beneficiaries. They're legally required to inform you of benefit changes. And yes, they would handle any retroactive adjustments automatically.
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Carmen Vega
Thanks everyone for clearing this up. Sounds like my brother-in-law might have been confused or maybe just hopeful about WEP reform. I'll keep an eye on those bills in Congress. The worst part for me is how complicated these calculations are. I worked my whole life, paid into the system for 22 years, and then find out I'm penalized because my fire department job had its own pension system. I understand preventing "double-dipping" but the current formula seems unfair to those of us in the middle who worked both types of jobs.
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Mei Chen
•exactly!! we're being punished for having multiple careers. my congressman said he supports repealing WEP but nothing ever happens. all talk no action as usual. hope something passes soon, that extra $$ would make a big difference for a lot of us.
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