Will I get my husband's age 70 increased Social Security amount or just his FRA benefit as survivor?
My question is about survivor benefits and I'm really confused by the conflicting information I've found online. My husband decided to delay claiming his Social Security until 70 to maximize his monthly check (smart move, right?). He's now getting about $3,750 per month. I started collecting my own retirement benefits when I hit my full retirement age of 66 and 8 months, and I receive $2,240 monthly. If my husband passes away before me (he's 5 years older), would I be entitled to his FULL age-70 benefit amount as my survivor benefit, or would I only receive what he would have gotten at his full retirement age? The difference is substantial - almost $1,000 per month! I've seen both answers when researching online and even got different answers from two friends who both claim to know. If it matters, we've been married for 32 years and I've never worked for any government agencies that didn't pay into Social Security. Thanks for clearing this up!
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Landon Morgan
I went through this exact same situation last year when my wife passed away. She had delayed until 70 and was getting a much larger check than me. When I contacted Social Security, they told me I would receive her FULL age 70 benefit amount as my survivor benefit, NOT just what she would have gotten at FRA. That's actually one of the main advantages of delaying - it protects the surviving spouse with a higher benefit. Make sure you keep all your husband's information organized and accessible. When the time comes (hopefully many years from now), you'll need his death certificate and your marriage certificate when you apply for survivor benefits. The SSA will compare your own benefit to what you'd get as a survivor and pay you the higher amount.
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Ellie Perry
•Oh thank you so much for this information! That's a huge relief to hear from someone who's been through it. My husband always said delaying was like buying extra insurance for me, and it sounds like he was right. Did you find the process of switching to survivor benefits straightforward when the time came?
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Teresa Boyd
u get the higher amount hes getting now at 70. thats why lots of ppl delay if they can afford to. its like insurance for the spouse with lower benefit.
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Lourdes Fox
•Actually it depends on when he filed. If he filed and suspended before the rule change in 2016, there are different rules that apply. But if he just naturally delayed until 70 like most people, then yes you get his age 70 amount. Call SSA directly to be 100% sure about YOUR specific situation.
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Lourdes Fox
Yes, you will receive his age 70 benefit amount as your survivor benefit, assuming it's higher than your own benefit (which in your case it is). This is one of the key reasons financial advisors often recommend that the higher-earning spouse delay benefits until 70, especially if there's a significant difference between the two spouses' benefit amounts. The technical explanation: Survivor benefits are based on the actual amount the deceased was receiving at death, including any delayed retirement credits (DRCs). Those DRCs your husband earned by waiting until 70 will transfer to you as the surviving spouse. I should note that there's a 2-3 month processing time for survivor benefits, so having emergency funds available is important. Also, you cannot apply for survivor benefits online - you must either call SSA or visit an office.
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Ellie Perry
•Thank you for the detailed explanation! The 2-3 month processing time is important to know - I'll make sure we have sufficient emergency savings. Is there anything I should do now to prepare for eventually applying for survivor benefits, or is this something I can only deal with when the time comes?
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Bruno Simmons
When my husband died last year, SSA told me I could only get what he would've gotten at his FRA, not his age 70 amount!!! I didn't know enough to question it and now I'm worried I'm getting shorted nearly $800/month!!!! This is WHY I HATE dealing with Social Security - nobody seems to know the correct information, even their own employees!!! I'm calling them tomorrow to demand an explanation!!!
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Landon Morgan
•That doesn't sound right at all. You should definitely call and speak to a different representative. If the next person tells you the same thing, ask to speak with a technical expert or supervisor. The rules are very clear that survivor benefits include delayed retirement credits. Don't give up until you get a proper explanation or correction!
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Aileen Rodriguez
You will receive his full age-70 benefit amount as your survivor benefit, which is one of the significant advantages of delaying Social Security. This strategy creates a higher survivor benefit that lasts for the rest of your life. One thing to be aware of: when your husband passes away (though I hope that's many years from now), you'll need to contact Social Security promptly. You cannot report a death or apply for survivor benefits online - you must call SSA or visit an office in person. I know from personal experience that reaching SSA by phone can be incredibly frustrating with wait times often exceeding 2 hours. I recently discovered a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to a live SSA agent in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. This can save a lot of frustration when you need to make changes to your benefits or apply for survivor benefits.
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Ellie Perry
•Thank you so much for the reassurance and the tip about Claimyr. I've spent hours on hold with Social Security before and it's exhausting. I'll definitely keep that service in mind for when I need to contact them in the future. Right now I'm just trying to understand what to expect and plan accordingly.
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Zane Gray
Be careful about some of these answers. The rules around survivor benefits have changed several times in the last decade. Your exact birth year, when your husband was born, and when he started claiming can all affect the calculation. While GENERALLY yes, you would receive his age 70 amount (including delayed retirement credits), you should get official confirmation from SSA based on your specific situation. There are exceptions and special cases. Also, don't forget about the one-time death benefit of $255. It's small, but people often forget to claim it.
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Ellie Perry
•You make a good point about the rule changes. My husband was born in 1950 and I was born in 1955, if that helps clarify. And yes, I knew about the $255 death benefit - it seems almost insulting how small it is considering funeral costs these days!
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Maggie Martinez
My mother-in-law just went through this last year. Her husband had waited until 70 to collect, and when he passed away, she did indeed get his full age-70 benefit amount. BUT she had to physically go to the Social Security office with a LOT of documentation. They wouldn't handle it over the phone or online, and the wait time at our local office was over 3 hours! Bring a book if you ever have to go there...
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Bruno Simmons
•Those office wait times are RIDICULOUS! My local office is ALWAYS packed and they treat you like you're bothering them when you finally get seen. I waited 4 HOURS last time only to be told I was missing a document and had to come back another day! The whole system needs to be overhauled!
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Teresa Boyd
my neighbor said she only got her husbands FRA amount not his age 70 amount when he died. maybe the rules changed?
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Lourdes Fox
•Your neighbor likely misunderstood what happened or was misinformed by an SSA representative. Unless this was many years ago under different rules, survivors are entitled to the deceased's actual benefit amount including delayed retirement credits. There's a lot of confusion about Social Security rules, even among their own employees sometimes.
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Landon Morgan
After reading through all these comments, I want to clarify something important: There's a difference between SPOUSAL benefits during your husband's lifetime (which are based on his FRA amount) and SURVIVOR benefits after he passes (which include his delayed retirement credits up to age 70). This confusion might explain why your friends gave you different answers - they might have been thinking about different benefits. But rest assured, as a widow, you would receive his full age-70 benefit amount as your survivor benefit, assuming it's higher than your own benefit. This is exactly why my financial advisor encouraged my wife to delay claiming until 70 - to protect me with a higher survivor benefit if she passes first (she had the higher earnings record).
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Ellie Perry
•Thank you for that clarification! That might explain some of the confusion I've encountered while researching this. I definitely understand the difference between spousal and survivor benefits now. I appreciate everyone who took the time to answer my question - this forum has been incredibly helpful.
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Gabrielle Dubois
I'm glad you asked this question because it's such an important topic that affects so many families! Based on everything I've learned about Social Security, you WILL receive your husband's full age-70 benefit amount ($3,750) as your survivor benefit, not just his FRA amount. This is one of the biggest advantages of delaying benefits - it creates a higher "insurance policy" for the surviving spouse. The key thing to remember is that survivor benefits include all delayed retirement credits (DRCs) that were earned by waiting past full retirement age. Since your husband's benefit is significantly higher than yours, you'd switch to receiving his amount when the time comes. I'd recommend calling SSA directly to get written confirmation of this for your specific situation, just for peace of mind. Also, make sure you keep important documents like your marriage certificate easily accessible for when you eventually need to apply. The process can't be done online, so you'll need to call or visit an office, and having everything ready will make it much smoother. Your husband made a smart financial decision that will benefit both of you!
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Ava Kim
•This is such valuable information, thank you! As someone new to understanding Social Security benefits, I really appreciate how clearly you explained the difference between FRA amounts and the full delayed retirement credits. It's reassuring to know that delaying benefits truly does provide that extra protection for surviving spouses. I'll definitely follow your advice about calling SSA for written confirmation - having that documentation would give me great peace of mind for planning purposes.
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AstroAce
This is exactly the kind of question I had when my husband and I were doing our Social Security planning! The good news is that yes, you will receive his full age-70 benefit amount as your survivor benefit. The delayed retirement credits he earned by waiting until 70 become part of your survivor benefit - that's the whole point of the delay strategy when there's a significant difference between spouses' benefits. I went through a similar decision process with my financial planner, and she emphasized that delaying benefits is essentially purchasing a higher survivor benefit that lasts for life. In your case, that's an extra $1,510 per month ($3,750 vs your current $2,240) - a substantial difference that will really matter for your financial security. One practical tip I learned: start organizing all your important documents now (marriage certificate, both of your Social Security statements, etc.) in one easily accessible place. When the time comes to apply for survivor benefits, you'll need these documents and the process will be much smoother if everything is ready. The application can't be done online, so you'll either need to call SSA or visit an office in person. Your husband really did make the right choice for both of you!
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Serene Snow
•Thank you for sharing your experience with Social Security planning! As someone who's relatively new to navigating all these benefit rules, it's really helpful to hear from people who have actually gone through the decision-making process with professional guidance. The way you explained it as "purchasing a higher survivor benefit" really makes the strategy click for me. I'm definitely going to start getting my documents organized now rather than waiting - that's such practical advice that I wouldn't have thought of on my own. It sounds like proper planning now can save a lot of stress and complications later when you're already dealing with grief.
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