Social Security survivor benefits - will I get topped up to deceased husband's higher benefit amount?
I've been trying to understand how survivor benefits work with Social Security. My husband and I are both approaching retirement age (I'm 59, he's 62). We recently looked at our estimated benefits on the SSA website, and there's a significant difference between our amounts. His estimated benefit at full retirement age is $3440, while mine is only $2239. I've been worried about what would happen financially if he passed away before me. Would I be eligible to receive some kind of "top up" to his higher benefit amount? Also, does he need to have already started collecting his Social Security benefits if he were to pass away for me to get survivor benefits? Or would I be eligible even if he hadn't started collecting yet? This whole system seems so complicated! Thanks in advance for any help!
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Ava Kim
Yes, you would receive his full benefit amount as a survivor benefit. The good news is that your husband does NOT need to have started collecting Social Security for you to receive survivor benefits based on his record. If he passes away before claiming benefits, you would be eligible for his full benefit amount at your full retirement age (which I believe is 67 for you at age 59). If he had started receiving reduced benefits early, your survivor benefit would be based on that reduced amount with some adjustments. That's why some financial advisors suggest the higher-earning spouse delay claiming as long as possible - it essentially creates a higher survivor benefit for the remaining spouse.
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Emma Garcia
•Thank you so much! That's a relief to hear. Do you know if I would get his exact $3440 amount, or would it be reduced somehow? And if I'm already receiving my own retirement benefits when he passes, do I have to do anything special to switch to the survivor benefits?
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Ethan Anderson
my husband died in 2022 and i get his full benefit now insted of mine. you have to provide death certificate and marriage stuff when you apply. but be careful they never told me I couldnt get both!!! you only get the higher one not both added together
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Emma Garcia
•I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your experience - that's helpful to know that I'd only get the higher amount, not both. I appreciate the tip about the documentation too.
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Layla Mendes
Anyone know how long it takes for survivor benefits to start after applying? My neighbor's been waiting almost 3 months and still nothing.
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Lucas Notre-Dame
•It typically takes about 2-3 months for survivor benefits to start after application, but it can definitely take longer depending on workload at SSA and if they need additional verification. Your neighbor should call and check on the status of their application, especially if it's been over 90 days. Sometimes applications get delayed if they're missing information or documentation.
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Aria Park
The previous responses are correct - you'd receive your husband's full benefit amount as a survivor benefit (assuming you're at full retirement age when you claim), and he doesn't need to have started collecting for you to receive it. One thing to consider: If you're still working when he passes, you might want to take your own reduced benefit early (as early as 60 for survivor benefits), and then switch to your own retirement benefit later if it would be higher. Or you could take your own retirement benefit at 62 and later switch to the survivor benefit at your full retirement age to get the maximum amount. Planning for these scenarios is complicated because there are so many variables based on your ages, when you claim, and whether you're still working. I'd recommend talking to someone at SSA directly to map out your specific options.
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Emma Garcia
•Thank you for these details! I didn't realize I could potentially switch between benefits. That's definitely something I need to learn more about. It sounds like there might be some strategy involved in the timing.
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Noah Ali
I spent WEEKS trying to get through to Social Security about my husband's survivor benefits last year. Constant busy signals and disconnects. Finally tried using Claimyr.com to get through - it actually worked and got me connected to a live agent within about 15 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Saved me so much frustration when I was already dealing with grief. Just wanted to share since planning for these scenarios is important but you'll eventually need to talk to SSA directly.
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Emma Garcia
•Thanks for the recommendation. I've heard the wait times can be terrible when trying to call SSA. I'll bookmark that site in case I need it in the future.
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Layla Mendes
Does anyone know if they count your husband's delayed retirement credits if he dies after 67 but was waiting to claim at 70? My dad is planning to wait but my mom is worried.
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Ava Kim
•Yes, if your father passes away after his full retirement age but before claiming benefits, your mother would get the benefit amount including all delayed retirement credits he had earned up to the point of his death. So if he passed at 68, she'd get his FRA amount plus one year of delayed credits (about 8% more).
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Chloe Boulanger
Be aware that you WILL be subjet to the earnings test if you claim survivor benefits before your full retirement age AND are still working!!! Social Security will withhold $1 for every $2 you earn above the annual exempt amount ($19,560 in 2023, probably higher in 2025). I learned this the hard way!!
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Emma Garcia
•That's really important information - thank you! I'm still working and planning to continue for several more years, so I'll need to consider how the earnings test might affect any survivor benefits if something happened to my husband before I reach full retirement age.
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Ethan Anderson
whats full retirement age anyway? isnt it different for everybody?
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Lucas Notre-Dame
•Yes, full retirement age varies depending on your birth year. For people born 1960 or later, it's 67. For those born 1943-1954, it's 66. For birth years in between, it adds 2 months per year (66 and 2 months, 66 and 4 months, etc). The SSA website has a calculator where you can check your specific FRA.
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Aria Park
One other important thing to know: If you're eligible for survivor benefits before your own retirement (say your husband passed when you were 60), you could claim REDUCED survivor benefits at 60, let your own retirement benefit continue growing, and then switch to your own benefit at 70 if it would be higher than the survivor benefit. Or the reverse: You could take your own reduced retirement benefit at 62 and then switch to the full survivor benefit at your full retirement age. This is one of the few scenarios where you can still switch between benefit types after the rules changed in 2015. The key is comparing the two amounts and understanding how claiming early reduces benefits permanently. These calculations get complicated, which is why discussing your specific situation with SSA is so important.
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Emma Garcia
•This is extremely helpful information! I had no idea there were these strategic options available. It sounds like I should definitely talk to someone at SSA to figure out what approach would maximize my benefits under different scenarios. Thank you!
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