Will our age gap reduce my Social Security survivor benefits when taking reduced retirement at 62?
I'm trying to figure out the best Social Security strategy for our situation with a significant age difference. I'm 62 and my husband is 74 - he delayed claiming his SS benefits until 70 to maximize his monthly amount (smart move on his part!). I'm still working part-time but considering taking my own reduced retirement benefits soon. My thinking is that I could claim my own reduced benefit now, then if my husband passes away before me, I'd switch to survivor benefits when I reach my full retirement age of 67. His monthly benefit is about $3,750 while mine would only be around $1,450 if I claim now. My question is: Will our 12-year age difference impact the survivor benefit amount I'd receive? Does Social Security reduce survivor benefits based on age differences between spouses? I've heard conflicting information about this from friends and want to make sure I understand before making any decisions. Thanks for any insight!
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Megan D'Acosta
Good news - Social Security does NOT reduce survivor benefits based on the age difference between spouses. The age gap between you and your husband won't affect your survivor benefit amount at all. What WILL affect your survivor benefit is when YOU claim it. If you take survivor benefits before your full retirement age (FRA), they'll be reduced. But if you wait until your FRA (67 in your case), you'll get 100% of what your husband was receiving. Your strategy sounds solid: claim your own reduced benefit now, then switch to the higher survivor benefit if/when that unfortunate time comes. Just keep in mind that your own benefit will be permanently reduced by claiming at 62, but that doesn't impact your eventual survivor benefit amount. One thing to consider: make sure your current earnings won't cause benefits withholding due to the earnings test if you're still working. In 2025, you can only earn up to $22,750 before they start withholding $1 for every $2 you earn above that threshold.
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Samantha Howard
•Thank you so much for the clarification! That's a huge relief to know the age difference won't impact my survivor benefits. I was worried there might be some complicated reduction formula. About the earnings test - that's something I need to look into more carefully. My part-time job pays about $31,000/year, so I would be over that threshold. Might be worth waiting until I fully retire in about 18 months before claiming my own benefit. Do you know if the earnings test still applies after I reach my FRA?
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Sarah Ali
hi there im in almost same boat as u. husband 8 yrs older than me and he got the big SS check lol. i talked to SSA last yr and they told me what the other person said is right - no reduction for age diff between spouses. but be careful about working while collecting!! they will take back some of ur money and its a big hassle. happened to my sister
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Ryan Vasquez
I'm a retired financial advisor who specialized in Social Security claiming strategies. The previous responses are correct that age difference doesn't affect survivor benefits. However, I want to highlight something important about your strategy: If you claim your own benefits at 62 (25-30% reduction), and then your husband passes away while you're between 62-67, you would have a choice: 1. Take the survivor benefit immediately (but reduced because you're under FRA) 2. Wait until 67 to get the full survivor benefit (100% of his amount) During that waiting period (if you choose option 2), you'd still receive your own reduced benefit. Another consideration: the earnings test won't apply once you reach your FRA. At that point, SSA will recalculate your benefit to credit back some of what was withheld during the years you were subject to the earnings test. With your specific numbers, waiting 18 months until you fully retire might be the most financially optimal approach. The permanent reduction at 62 is significant.
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Avery Saint
•This is why I love this forum! Such detailed answers. Quick question though - does the recalculation at FRA fully make up for all the money withheld during the earnings test years? I've heard different things about this.
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Ryan Vasquez
•Great question. The recalculation at FRA doesn't give you back the withheld money in a lump sum. Instead, they adjust your monthly benefit upward to account for the months your benefits were completely withheld due to work. For example, if you claimed at 62 but had benefits completely withheld for 12 months due to high earnings, when you reach FRA, they'll recalculate your benefit as if you claimed at 63 instead of 62. This results in a higher monthly amount going forward, but you don't get back all the money that was withheld during those years. It's more like getting credit for a later claiming age.
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Taylor Chen
WAIT!!! Be very careful here! I went through this exact situation and the SSA representatives gave me WRONG information THREE TIMES!!! They kept telling me different things about survivor benefits and it cost me thousands!! The rules about switching from your own benefit to survivor benefits are VERY complicated. When my husband died, I was told I could switch to his higher amount but then they denied it saying I had to wait!! DON'T trust what they tell you on the phone. Go IN PERSON to your local office with ALL your documents and get everything in writing!!! The whole system is designed to CONFUSE us and make us lose money!!
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Samantha Howard
•Oh no, that sounds like a nightmare! I'm so sorry you went through that. This is exactly why I'm trying to research everything carefully now. Did you ever get it resolved correctly? Was there something specific they were wrong about regarding the survivor benefits?
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Taylor Chen
•Yes, eventually I got it fixed but it took MONTHS of fighting with them! The biggest mistake was they didn't tell me I could take the LOWER benefit first and then switch to the higher one later. They just automatically gave me the higher one which wasn't the best strategy in my case because of other income I had. And they never explained about the restricted application rules for widow(er)s which are DIFFERENT than for regular retirement benefits! The rules change depending on when you were born too!
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Keith Davidson
I don't mean to hijack the thread, but has anyone had experience with calling the SSA lately? I've been trying for WEEKS to reach someone about my survivor benefits and can't get through. Either wait times of 2+ hours or it just disconnects me. Really frustrated as I have a deadline coming up to respond to them.
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Ezra Bates
•I was in the same boat last month - couldn't get through to SSA after trying for days. I found this service called Claimyr that got me connected to an agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. You can see how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU or go to claimyr.com. Totally worth it for me because I was about to miss a deadline for appealing a decision. The SSA phone system is completely broken right now with all the retirement applications coming in.
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Samantha Howard
Thank you all for the extremely helpful responses! I've learned so much. Based on your advice, I'm going to: 1. Wait until I fully retire in 18 months before claiming any benefits to avoid the earnings test complications 2. Schedule an in-person appointment at my local SSA office to verify all this information 3. Get the details in writing about how survivor benefits would work in my specific situation It's such a relief to know the age gap won't reduce my survivor benefits. That was my biggest concern. And the warning about getting conflicting information from SSA reps is definitely noted - I'll make sure to document everything carefully.
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Megan D'Acosta
•That sounds like an excellent plan! One more tip: when you go to your in-person appointment, ask them to run calculations for different claiming scenarios. They have software that can show you the lifetime difference between claiming at different ages. It's very helpful for seeing the long-term impact of your decisions.
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Sarah Ali
just remebered something else - my neighbor said she had to provide marriage certificate when applying for survivor benifits. make sure u know where yours is! they are super strict about documentation
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