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i think my mom had someting like this and they made her pay a penalty or something??? just make sure you ask if theres any downside to applying late
There's no penalty for applying for divorced spouse benefits at any age after your full retirement age. Your mom may have experienced a different situation, perhaps related to Medicare enrollment penalties or something else entirely. For divorced spouse benefits, the only potential downside to applying late is missing out on back payments, since they only go back 6 months maximum.
Just want to add that when you DO get through to SSA, INSIST they explain exactly how they calculate everything. I've had agents give me completely different answers about the same question. And get the agent's name and ID number too, because if they give you wrong info, you'll need to reference who told you what.
I tried calling SS about this exact issue last month and spent TWO HOURS on hold only to be disconnected! The whole system is broken. Why can't they hire more people to answer the phones??!!
That's exactly why I recommended Claimyr earlier. I was skeptical at first but it saved me hours of frustration. My call got through in about 15 minutes instead of the usual 2+ hour wait. For someone juggling caregiving responsibilities, those hours make a huge difference.
my aunt retired at 65 and she said the monthly thing worked great for her. but she had to be really careful about tracking her hours at her part time job. good luck with everything!
I called SSA today and wanted to update everyone. The representative confirmed that I could receive a combination of my own benefit plus a partial spousal benefit to bring me up to 50% of my husband's PIA (what he would have received at full retirement age). In my case, it amounts to an extra $218 per month, which definitely helps! They're processing my application now. Thank you all for your helpful advice!
They said it would take about 30 days to process, and the payments would start the following month. They also mentioned I might get a small retroactive payment since I was eligible as of last month when I reached FRA. Every bit helps with these inflation rates!
One important point nobody has mentioned: for your father's application, make sure he specifically lists all conditions, but especially document the falling asleep episodes in detail. This could indicate several possible conditions: 1. Sleep apnea (common with COPD) 2. Medication side effects from treatments for depression/anxiety 3. Narcolepsy or idiopathic hypersomnia 4. Potential neurological issues He should keep a daily log of these episodes - when they occur, duration, circumstances, etc. This kind of specific documentation significantly strengthens disability claims, especially for symptoms that don't show up well on standard medical tests. Also, since he's 55, check if he qualifies for early retirement as a backup plan while pursuing SSDI. Though benefits would be reduced, it might provide some income during the potentially lengthy disability determination process.
The daily log is such a great idea! I'll set something up on his phone to make it easy for him to track. I hadn't thought about early retirement as a backup - I'll look into that too. I think he's really struggling with the idea of not being able to work after supporting himself his whole life, but his health has to come first.
my mom went thru appeals for her fibro too. they kept saying it wasnt real even tho she couldnt even hold a cup somedays. make sure u have a GOOD lawyer, made all the difference for her
Everett Tutum
My aunt had almost identical situation. They reduced her survivors benefit because of some county job she had in the 90s. She fought it and eventually won, but it took multiple appeals. The key was proving she paid SS taxes during that job, which sounds like you did if your SS statement shows earnings. Don't let them get away with this!
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Tobias Lancaster
•Yes! This is why I suggested Claimyr to get through to someone who actually knows the rules. Regular SSA reps often don't understand these special situations.
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Aria Khan
I want to add something important: there's a 60-day deadline to request reconsideration from the date on your notice. If you're close to that deadline, file the request immediately, even if you haven't gathered all your evidence yet. You can always submit additional documentation later during the reconsideration process. Based on everything shared here, you have a strong case for having the GPO removed completely. Good luck, and please come back to let us know the outcome!
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Sophia Gabriel
•The notice is dated about 3 weeks ago, so I still have time, but I'll definitely file the reconsideration request this week. Thank you for the reminder about the deadline! I'll update once I have some news.
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