I'm really sorry you're going through this frustrating situation while dealing with the loss of your husband. Based on what you've described and the excellent advice others have shared here, it definitely sounds like there's an issue with your protective filing date that's costing you those September and October payments. As someone new to this community, I wanted to add that it might also be worth requesting a "reconsideration" in writing if your phone calls don't resolve this. Sometimes having a written request triggers a more thorough review of your case. You can submit a Form SSA-561 (Request for Reconsideration) if they won't correct the protective filing date issue over the phone. Also, when you do call, you might want to specifically mention that you're requesting an "escalation to a Claims Specialist" rather than just asking for a supervisor. Claims Specialists are specifically trained in these types of protective filing date issues and might be better equipped to review and correct your case. The $2,900 in missing backpay is absolutely worth pursuing, especially with medical bills pending. Don't let them discourage you - the protective filing date rules exist specifically to protect people in situations like yours where there are delays in completing paperwork after the initial contact. Keep fighting for what you're entitled to!

Welcome to the community! I'm sorry for your loss and the additional stress this benefits issue is causing. Your situation really highlights how important it is to understand protective filing dates - something I wish SSA explained better to applicants upfront. Based on everything shared here, you definitely have a strong case for those missing September and October payments. One small additional tip: when you call, if they try to tell you that your October 18th appointment was your "official" filing date, ask them specifically about SSA POMS (Program Operations Manual System) section GN 00204.010, which covers protective filing dates for survivor benefits. Sometimes referencing the specific policy manual section gets their attention and shows you know the rules. Also, consider asking for an "expedited review" of your protective filing date given that you have pending medical expenses. SSA sometimes prioritizes cases where there are documented financial hardships. The fact that you received approval during your October call but benefits only started in November really does suggest they incorrectly processed your filing date. Stay persistent - you're absolutely right to question this, and this community will be here to support you through the process!

Thank you everyone for all the great advice! I feel much better about trying to work now. I'm going to: 1. Look into the Ticket to Work program 2. Start with very part-time hours keeping well under the SGA limit 3. Report everything properly to SSA from the start 4. Keep good records of all my earnings and communications This has been so helpful. I was feeling really isolated and uncertain about my future, but knowing I can at least try working without immediately losing everything gives me hope. I appreciate all of you sharing your experiences and knowledge!

Great question Isabella! I'm 48 and have been on SSDI for 3 years due to chronic back issues. I started working part-time about 8 months ago at a local library doing data entry - very low physical demands. Here's what I've learned from experience: - The $1,550 SGA limit for 2025 is key, but remember it's GROSS income before any deductions - I work about 15-20 hours per week and make around $1,200/month, which keeps me safely under the limit - You absolutely MUST report your work to SSA immediately when you start - I called them on my first day and they opened a work case file - Keep meticulous records of everything - pay stubs, hours worked, dates, etc. The mental health benefits of working again have been huge for me. Having structure and purpose back in my life has helped with the depression that came with my disability. Just start slowly and be very transparent with SSA about everything. Good luck!

One more tip - when you apply, make sure you have these documents ready: your birth certificate, last year's W-2 or tax return, and bank account information for direct deposit. Having everything prepared will help your application process smoothly. Also, applying online is generally faster than calling or visiting an office.

I went through this exact same situation last year! Applied in September for January benefits and everything worked out perfectly. Just want to echo what Noah Irving said - the key is specifying January 2026 as your benefit start month on the application, regardless of when you reach FRA or stop working. I was worried about the same employer contact issue, but SSA never reached out to my job at all. The online application was straightforward and took about 45 minutes to complete. My advice: apply in September, keep copies of everything you submit, and don't stress too much about the timing - you're doing it right!

I'm really sorry for your loss, Isabella. I just went through this exact situation with my father-in-law last month. The SSA representative I spoke with explained that the $255 death benefit rule has been consistent since the 1990s - it's only for surviving spouses or dependent children, never the estate. What really helped me was keeping a detailed log of all the calls I made and reference numbers from SSA interactions. Also, if you haven't already, make sure to contact his bank about the direct deposit that came after his passing - sometimes they'll automatically return it to SSA, but it's worth confirming. The whole process is overwhelming when you're grieving, but it sounds like you're handling everything responsibly as executor.

I'm sorry for your loss, Isabella. This is such a common source of confusion! The $255 death benefit rules are definitely not intuitive. I work in estate planning and see this misconception frequently - families often assume it goes to the estate when there's no spouse or dependent children, but as others have confirmed, it simply isn't paid out at all in those situations. What's particularly frustrating is how little information SSA provides upfront about these limitations. It sounds like you've got everything handled properly now though. One small tip for future reference - if you ever need to call SSA again for estate matters, try calling right at 8am when they open or during lunch hours (12-2pm) when call volume tends to be slightly lower. The system is definitely broken, but those times have worked better for me in the past.

I'm experiencing the exact same delays! Filed my retirement application in early December and it's been stuck on "processing" for over a month now. Initially panicked when I passed the 30-day mark, but reading everyone's experiences here has been incredibly reassuring. What really stands out to me is how consistent everyone's timelines are - it seems like 60-90 days is genuinely the new normal, despite what SSA's website claims. I wish they would update their processing estimates to reflect reality instead of setting false expectations with that 30-day timeframe. The explanation about application date vs approval date protecting our benefits has been huge for my peace of mind. I'm requesting a March start date, so hopefully there's still plenty of time for processing. One question for those who've been through this - did any of you receive any kind of acknowledgment or interim communication from SSA during the processing period, or does it really just stay silent until suddenly switching to "approved"? Just trying to set my expectations for the next month or two of waiting!

I'm in almost the exact same situation! Filed my spouse's retirement application in mid-November and we're approaching the 8-week mark with just "processing" status showing online. Like everyone else here, I was initially told 30 days but clearly that's not happening. What's been most helpful from reading all these responses is understanding that this seems to be the unfortunate new normal - 60-90 days appears to be much more realistic than the outdated 30-day estimate on their website. I really wish SSA would update their processing timeframes to reflect current reality instead of setting false expectations. The clarification about application date vs approval date has been huge for my peace of mind too. Since we applied in November for a February start date, our benefits should still begin as requested even if the approval comes later. That takes so much pressure off the financial planning aspect! I attempted calling once but gave up after 75 minutes on hold. Based on everyone's experiences here, it sounds like the phone system is completely overwhelmed and not really worth the frustration unless there's an urgent issue. Thanks for posting this - it's so reassuring to know we're not alone in these delays, and this community has been way more informative than anything I could find on SSA's official channels!