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Thank you all for the helpful responses! I feel much better prepared now. I'm going to make sure I stay under that $23,340 limit to avoid any reductions. I'll also make sure to be very clear about my expected earnings when I apply, and keep track of everything with a spreadsheet as suggested. The timing of payments is also good to know for my budget planning. Really appreciate all the advice!
One thing I'd add that hasn't been mentioned - if you're planning to work part-time specifically for health insurance, you might want to check if you qualify for any subsidies on the marketplace. Sometimes the cost of marketplace insurance plus the subsidy can be less than what you lose in reduced survivor benefits from working. I know someone who did the math and found they could actually come out ahead by not working and getting marketplace coverage instead. Worth running the numbers both ways before you commit to a work schedule!
That's a really smart point about comparing marketplace insurance costs! I hadn't thought about that option at all. Do you know if there are any specific resources or calculators that help compare the total costs? I'm wondering if the marketplace subsidies would be based on my survivor benefit income or just my work income. This could definitely change my whole approach to the situation.
Same issue here! I'm living in Germany and my March 3rd payment is also missing. This is really stressful since I budget everything around that monthly deposit. Reading through the comments, it sounds like this is related to the SSA system maintenance from last week and payments are starting to trickle through now. I'm going to wait until Friday (March 7th) before contacting anyone, based on the advice from folks who clearly know what they're talking about. It's reassuring to see that @Mei Zhang and @Jamal Brown got their payments yesterday, so hopefully mine will show up in the next day or two. For anyone still waiting - let's keep each other posted! This community has been super helpful in understanding what's going on.
Hey @Nia Thompson, I'm also in Germany and experiencing the same delay! Mine still hasn't arrived either. It's definitely nerve-wracking when you're counting on that payment for monthly expenses. Thanks for sharing the update - it's really helpful to know I'm not the only one still waiting. I'm also going to follow your plan and wait until Friday before taking any action. Fingers crossed we both see our payments in the next couple of days! Will definitely update here when mine comes through.
I'm in the same boat here in the UK! My March 3rd payment is missing too. This thread has been incredibly helpful - I was starting to panic thinking there was something wrong with my specific account or that SSA had somehow flagged me for living abroad. It's reassuring to see this is a widespread issue related to the system maintenance, and that payments are starting to come through for people. I'm going to follow the advice here and wait until Friday before contacting the embassy. The international calling situation to SSA really is a nightmare - I've been through that before and it's almost impossible to get through. Thanks to everyone sharing their experiences and especially to those with SSA background knowledge for explaining what's actually happening. This community is a lifesaver when dealing with these stressful situations!
I'm sorry for your loss, Grace. Your mom is absolutely entitled to divorced widow's benefits in this situation. The key requirements she meets are: • Marriage lasted 25+ years (well over the 10-year minimum) • She's over 60 and hasn't remarried before age 60 • Your dad's remarriage doesn't affect her eligibility at all At 62, she'll receive about 71.5% of his full benefit amount. Since her work history is limited, this will likely be much more than any retirement benefit on her own record. My suggestion: Don't wait. Call SSA immediately to schedule an appointment (phone or in-person). Benefits can be retroactive to the month of his death, but only if she applies. Documents to gather first: - Marriage certificate - Divorce decree - His death certificate - Her birth certificate - Her Social Security card The phone system is frustrating, but this is absolutely worth pursuing. Your mom contributed to his Social Security earnings during their 25-year marriage - these benefits are rightfully hers regardless of his later remarriage. Both she and his current widow can receive benefits simultaneously without reducing each other's amounts.
Thank you so much, Mia! This is exactly the kind of clear, actionable advice we needed. It's really helpful to see the requirements laid out so clearly - it confirms what others have said but in a way that's easy to understand and reference. I'm definitely convinced now that we shouldn't wait to get this process started. Mom has been hesitant because she wasn't sure if she was "entitled" to anything since they were divorced, but seeing multiple people explain that she contributed to his earnings during those 25 years really puts it in perspective. We're going to spend this weekend gathering all those documents you listed, then start calling SSA on Monday. The retroactive benefit to the month of his death is a big motivator to not delay this any further. Really appreciate you taking the time to break this down so thoroughly - it means a lot during this difficult time.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Grace. Your situation is actually pretty straightforward - your mom absolutely qualifies for divorced widow's benefits! The fact that she was married to your dad for 25 years (way more than the required 10), is over 60, and never remarried means she meets all the criteria. His remarriage doesn't impact her eligibility whatsoever - it's a common misconception that it would. A few practical tips from someone who's helped family members through this: 1. Call SSA first thing in the morning (around 8 AM) for shorter wait times 2. Have her Social Security number ready when you call 3. Be prepared for the agent to schedule a phone interview rather than handling everything on the first call 4. If you get disconnected, don't give up - keep calling back Also, make sure to ask about filing for both survivor benefits AND checking what her own retirement benefit might be. Sometimes there are strategic timing considerations, though given her limited work history, the survivor benefit is probably the better option. The process can be frustrating, but your mom earned these benefits through 25 years of marriage. Don't let bureaucratic hurdles discourage you from pursuing what she's entitled to. Hang in there!
I understand how scary this situation is - facing potential loss of your home while trying to navigate complex disability rules. Here are some additional options to consider beyond just working: 1. **Housing assistance programs**: Contact your local housing authority about emergency rental/mortgage assistance, especially programs for disabled individuals. Many areas have specific programs for people at risk of foreclosure. 2. **Utility assistance**: If you're behind on utilities too, programs like LIHEAP can help free up money for your mortgage. 3. **Food assistance**: Maximizing SNAP benefits and using food banks can free up more of your SSDI for housing costs. 4. **Disability advocacy organizations**: They often know about local emergency assistance funds specifically for people with disabilities facing housing crises. 5. **Credit counseling**: Non-profit housing counselors can sometimes negotiate with mortgage companies for modified payment plans or forbearance. The roommate suggestion is also excellent - rental income typically doesn't affect SSDI benefits as long as it's not considered "work activity." If you do decide to work, definitely get that WIPA counseling first. But explore these other options too - sometimes there are resources available that people don't know about.
This is incredibly helpful - thank you so much for taking the time to list all these options! I honestly hadn't thought about most of these resources. I'm definitely going to look into housing assistance programs in my area first, and the credit counseling sounds like something I should do regardless. It's good to know that rental income from a roommate wouldn't count as work activity. I feel like I have some actual steps to take now instead of just panicking about losing everything. Really appreciate everyone's advice in this thread.
I'm new to this community and this situation hits close to home for me. I've been on SSDI for about 3 years now and have been too scared to even consider working because of all the conflicting information out there. Reading through everyone's responses here has been really eye-opening - especially learning that the Trial Work Period is actually designed to HELP us test our ability to work, not punish us for trying. @Amina Bah your list of housing assistance resources is amazing. I had no idea there were specific programs for disabled individuals facing housing crises. One thing I wanted to add - I recently discovered that some states have "Work Incentives Planning and Assistance" (WIPA) programs that will actually do a personalized benefits analysis for free. They can run scenarios showing exactly how different income levels would affect your specific situation. Might be worth looking into for your area, @Yara Nassar. Also, for anyone else reading this who's in a similar situation: the National Disability Rights Network website has a directory of local disability advocacy organizations that might know about emergency assistance funds in your area. Thanks to everyone for sharing their experiences - this is exactly the kind of practical advice people need when dealing with these complex systems.
Ethan Clark
I'm going through this exact same transition right now with my adult son! He just moved from SSI to DAC benefits last month and I got that same confusing packet of paperwork. Reading through everyone's experiences here has been so helpful - it sounds like this is just how SSA handles these transitions and the paperwork is more confusing than it needs to be. I think I'm going to follow the advice about calling to confirm everything is processed correctly, especially after hearing about those overpayment situations. Better to spend a few minutes on the phone now than deal with months of headaches later. Thanks everyone for sharing your stories!
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Diego Fernández
•I'm glad this thread has been helpful for you too! It's reassuring to know so many of us are going through the same confusing process. I was feeling really overwhelmed by all that paperwork, but hearing everyone's experiences - both the success stories and the cautionary tales - has given me a much clearer picture of what to expect. I think you're absolutely right about making that confirmation call. Even though most people seem to have had the transition go smoothly automatically, those stories about overpayments months later are definitely concerning. The peace of mind from a quick call seems worth it, especially with services like Claimyr to avoid those terrible hold times. Good luck with your son's transition - sounds like we're both in good company dealing with SSA's confusing paperwork!
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Daniel Rogers
I'm dealing with this exact situation right now too! My adult daughter just transitioned from SSI to DAC benefits this month and I received the same confusing paperwork. It's so reassuring to read everyone's experiences here. From what I'm gathering, the key points are: 1) The transition is actually a good thing with higher, more stable benefits, 2) SSA's systems should handle the SSI termination automatically, but 3) it's worth making a confirmation call to avoid potential overpayment issues later. I was really stressed about all those forms, but it sounds like they're just part of SSA's standard (though confusing) process. I think I'll follow the advice about using Claimyr to actually get through to someone - those horror stories about multi-hour hold times are exactly why I've been putting off calling. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences, especially the detailed explanations from Dmitry and Paolo. This community is so valuable for navigating these complex SSA situations!
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Eli Wang
•Welcome to the club of confused parents dealing with SSA's transition paperwork! I just went through this whole process with my daughter about 6 months ago and I remember feeling exactly the same way - completely overwhelmed by all those forms and notices. The good news is that everyone here is absolutely right - the DAC benefits are so much better than SSI in the long run. Higher payments, no asset limits, and the benefits grow with cost-of-living adjustments. I definitely recommend making that confirmation call like others suggested. I used a different callback service (not Claimyr but similar concept) and it saved me hours of sitting on hold. Even though most transitions go smoothly, I've heard too many stories about surprise overpayment notices months later to just assume everything is perfect. One tip that helped me: when you do call, have all those confusing papers in front of you and ask the rep to walk through each notice and explain what it means. Sometimes they can spot issues that might not be obvious. Good luck with your daughter's transition - sounds like she's in for much better benefits going forward!
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