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Help! Mom struggling with ID.me for NY unemployment - any alternatives?

My mom got laid off from her administrative job in November and filed for unemployment benefits in early December. Everything was going smoothly until last week when she received an email saying she needs to verify her identity through ID.me before her payments can continue. The problem is she's 68 years old and really struggling with the technology. She doesn't have a smartphone with a good camera for the selfie verification, and she can't find her original social security card (only has a photocopy). She tried using her passport but it expired 8 months ago. I've been trying to help her remotely since I live in another state. We've been on the phone for hours trying to figure this out, and she's getting really stressed because her rent is due next week. Has anyone found a way around using ID.me? Or know if there's a phone number where she can verify her identity with a real person? This whole system seems designed to prevent older people from getting their benefits.

Freya Pedersen

u gotta do the ID.me thing. theres no way around it. my uncle had same problem, hes 72 and not tech savvy at all. i had to drive over to his house and help him. took like 3 attempts but we got it done.

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GalacticGuru

Thanks for the reply. Wish I could go to her place but I'm literally across the country 😓 Did your uncle have all the required documents?

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Freya Pedersen

yeah he had passport and social. but the video selfie part kept failing cuz his hands shake alot. had to hold the phone for him. maybe ur mom has a neighbor that could help?

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Omar Fawaz

thats the thing that pisses me off. why do old ppl need to jump thru these hoops? they should have an alternative for seniors!

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Chloe Anderson

I was in a similar situation last month but found a solution that worked! I was stuck in an endless loop with ID.me and getting desperate. Found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected directly to an agent who helped me verify my identity over the phone instead. Talking to a real person got my benefits unlocked in like 48 hours. They have a YouTube video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Rdqa1gKtxuE

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Diego Vargas

Is this for real? Sounds too good to be true tbh. How does it actually work?

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Chloe Anderson

Yeah its real! Basically they have this system that keeps calling the unemployment office until they get through, then they connect the call to your phone. I tried calling myself for DAYS with no luck before using this.

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Anastasia Fedorov

hmm another 'solution' that probably takes ur $$$ and gives nothing back 🙄 seen too many of these unemployment 'services'

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Chloe Anderson

No actually it worked! I was skeptical too but I was desperate after weeks of no benefits. Its a legit service - they just do the waiting on hold part for you. The agent I talked to helped me bypass the ID.me thing completely.

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StarStrider

yo I actually used this too when my claim got frozen. saved me from having another mental breakdown after being on hold for 5 hours lmao

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Sean Doyle

Try this trick that worked for me: When you start the ID.me process, select the option for a video call verification instead of uploading docs. You'll wait a bit but get a real person who can be more flexible about what ID they'll accept. My mom used an expired license + medicare card and they approved it.

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Zara Rashid

ID.me is THE WORST!!! 🤬 i spent 3 weeks trying to get verified and almost lost my apartment. the whole system is designed to make people give up. tried calling the ny unemployment office 47 times (yes i counted) and couldnt get thru to a human.

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Luca Romano

Same. I think that's literally their strategy... make it so complicated that people just stop trying to claim benefits. Saves the state money.

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Zara Rashid

exactly!! and its always us regular ppl who get screwed while the big corps get bailouts 💯

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Nia Jackson

For anyone struggling with verification issues or other unemployment problems, here's what worked for me: First, don't give up! The system is frustrating by design, but persistence pays off. If your mom is having trouble with ID.me specifically: 1) Try the video chat option instead of document upload - they're more flexible 2) Ask about alternative document combinations (utility bill + birth certificate sometimes works) 3) For seniors, mention accessibility issues directly during verification 4) If all else fails, contact your state representative's office - they can intervene What finally worked for me after 3 weeks of hell was using claimyr.com to get a direct line to an agent. They called and stayed on hold for me, then connected me when a live person answered. The agent was able to note special circumstances in my file and provide alternative verification methods. The unemployment system isn't designed for edge cases or people with limited tech access, but there are workarounds if you're persistent!

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Mateo Hernandez

This is really helpful advice, thanks for sharing! Did you need to provide any personal info to that claimyr service?

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Nia Jackson

Nope! They just need your phone number to connect the call to you when they get through to an agent. They don't ask for any of your unemployment info or anything like that.

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CosmicCruiser

ur mom can go to the public library! most libraries have staff that help seniors with tech stuff. my grandma did her ID.me there and the librarian helped her through the whole process. they have computers and webcams you can use.

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GalacticGuru

That's actually a great idea I hadn't thought of! Will definitely suggest this to her. Thanks!

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Aisha Khan

Does she have a birth certificate? I was able to use that + utility bill when my wallet was stolen. They made me do a video call verification but it worked eventually.

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GalacticGuru

She does have her birth certificate! Did you have to schedule the video call in advance or was it immediate?

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Aisha Khan

had to schedule it and wait about 2 days. but once i got on the call it only took like 15 mins to verify. way better than trying to upload pics that kept getting rejected

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Ethan Taylor

bro the whole ID.me thing is a scam to collect our biometric data. wake up sheeple!! 👀 they just want your face scan in their database

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Yuki Ito

Here we go with the conspiracy theories again 🙄 people need their benefits man, take that stuff elsewhere

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Ethan Taylor

Do ur research!! They literally had a data breach last year. Just saying people should know what they're signing up for 🤷‍♂️

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Carmen Lopez

Tin foil hat much? lol... but ngl that face scan thing did make me uncomfortable too

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Andre Dupont

Tell her to cal the ny unemployment senior helpline directly at 888-209-8124 and press 3 when it asks for why ur calling. sometimes they have special exemptions for seniors who struggle with the digital verification.

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QuantumQuasar

My aunt is 73 and went through this last month! We ended up calling her state representative's office and they helped push her case through without having to do the full ID.me process. Worth a shot!

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Zoe Papanikolaou

this is the best advice here ⬆️ local reps can actually get stuff done with unemployment when normal channels fail

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Jamal Wilson

After failing ID.me verification 4 times I got so mad I wrote an actual letter (yes with paper and stamp lol) to the head of NYSDOL explaining my situation. Shockingly, I got a call 2 weeks later from someone who helped me verify over the phone. Maybe worth trying?

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Mei Lin

check if there's a workforce center near her. they sometimes have staff who can help with id verification issues.

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GalacticGuru

I'll look into this. Anyone know if these centers typically require appointments or can you just walk in?

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Liam Fitzgerald

Most want appointments now since covid but some take walk-ins. Worth calling first

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Amara Nnamani

i tried for 2 months to get thru to someone at unemployment with no luck. finally used claimyr.com and got an agent on the phone within an hour who fixed my verification issues right away. best $$ i ever spent considering i was about to lose thousands in benefits.

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Giovanni Mancini

another ad for this claimyr thing? 🙄

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Amara Nnamani

not an ad, just sharing what worked after I went thru hell with NY unemployment. was desperate after not getting benefits for 7 weeks and this actually solved my problem

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NebulaNinja

I used it too, it's legit. When you're about to get evicted you'll try anything lol

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Fatima Al-Suwaidi

The system is rigged against older people and it's disgusting. My dad went through this in February. What finally worked was going to our local state assembly person's office. They have special contacts at unemployment and got his issue resolved in like 3 days.

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Dylan Mitchell

wait does she have a Medicare card? They sometimes accept that as verification!

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GalacticGuru

She does! I didn't realize that could work as ID. Will definitely have her try that, thanks!

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