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I went through something similar a few years ago. Your lawyer is definitely on the right track with the subpoena approach - that's really the only legitimate way to get unemployment records for a legal case. In my experience, family court judges take potential fraud seriously when it affects child support, so they're usually willing to order the records if your attorney can show reasonable cause. Also, keep detailed notes of any suspicious activity - like if he seems to have money for things he claims he can't afford, or if neighbors mention seeing him working somewhere. That kind of documentation can help support your attorney's request for the official records.
This is really helpful advice, thank you! I've been keeping a log of some inconsistencies - like him claiming he can't afford child support but then posting on social media about expensive purchases. I'll make sure to document everything more systematically. Did you find that the court moved quickly once your attorney filed for the records? I'm hoping this doesn't drag on for months while he potentially continues collecting benefits fraudulently.
You're absolutely right to be suspicious if there are inconsistencies between his claims of being broke and his actual spending. I work in family law and see this situation frequently. A few things that might help: First, ask your attorney about requesting not just unemployment records but also bank statements and tax returns through discovery - this can reveal unreported income. Second, if he's posting about purchases on social media, screenshot everything with timestamps. Third, consider hiring a private investigator if your budget allows - they're experienced at documenting work activity without crossing legal lines. The subpoena process for unemployment records usually takes 2-4 weeks once filed, but having additional evidence strengthens your case significantly. NY courts don't mess around with parents who try to avoid child support through fraud.
This is excellent advice! I hadn't thought about requesting bank statements and tax returns alongside the unemployment records - that's really smart. The private investigator idea is interesting too, though I'm not sure about the cost. Do you know roughly what PI services cost for this type of documentation? And when you mention NY courts being tough on child support fraud, have you seen cases where they actually pursued criminal charges or is it usually just civil penalties? I want to understand what my ex could be facing if we do find evidence of fraud.
I understand the frustration with navigating all these different programs! To add some clarity - SUB plans are governed by specific IRS and Department of Labor regulations, so they're pretty structured when they exist. The key thing to remember is that SUB benefits must be reported to NYS DOL when you certify for your weekly benefits, since they count as income. If your employer does have a SUB plan, they're required to provide you with documentation about it. You might also want to check if your state has any other supplemental programs - some states offer additional weeks of benefits or emergency extensions during high unemployment periods, though these would come through the regular unemployment system, not from employers.
This is really helpful information! I had no idea that SUB benefits needed to be reported when certifying for weekly benefits. That's definitely something I would have missed. Quick question - if someone does have SUB from their employer, does that affect the total amount they can receive, or is it just additional money on top of the regular UI maximum?
The problem with ny unemployment is getting through to ask these kinds of specific questions. I spent TWO WEEKS calling and couldn't get through. Finally broke down and used claimyr.com which got me a callback in 2 hours. Best money I ever spent because I was able to ask all my questions and get my claim fixed.
How does this claimyr thing work? The unemployment phone lines are literally impossible
It basically calls for you and waits on hold, then calls your phone when it reaches a human. I was skeptical but it actually worked. claimyr.com
Hey AstroAce! I was in almost the exact same situation last year - went from 40 hours to about 12-15 hours at my part-time job. You absolutely can get partial unemployment benefits in NY! The key things to remember: - Report your GROSS wages (before taxes) when you certify each week - NY counts DAYS worked, not just hours - so try to get your manager to schedule your 15 hours on as few days as possible (ideally 1-2 days) - If you work 1 day = 75% of your benefit, 2 days = 50%, 3 days = 25%, 4+ days = 0% - If you earn over $504 in any week, you get nothing that week regardless of days Don't worry about your employer - they get notified but it doesn't cost them anything extra since you're still employed. Most managers understand that people need to survive when hours get cut. The hardest part honestly is just getting through the initial application process and reaching someone if you have questions. The phone lines are basically impossible, but once you get it set up, the weekly certifications are pretty straightforward. Good luck! With rent that high and only 15 hours, you definitely need and deserve this assistance.
tried logging into id.me today and my account was showing as "verified" but ny unemployment still says pending?? makes no sense
that's exactly what I was saying! they're two separate systems. id.me can show verified but unemployment still has to process it on their end
Dont waste ur time waiting. Srsly. I waited 6 weeks thinking it would just magically start working. Finally used claimyr.com to get an agent on the phone and they fixed it in 5 minutes. Turns out my ID verification was done but stuck in some queue on their end. Talking to an agent got my $ unlocked so fast, wish I'd done it weeks earlier.
awesome! glad it worked for you too. spread the word cause so many people are just waiting when they could get it fixed.
@Sophie Duck that s'amazing! So glad you got connected. How long did the agent say it would take to process once they expedite it? I m'dealing with the same issue and thinking about trying Claimyr too.
Marina Hendrix
Just went through this exact nightmare myself last month! After reading through all these suggestions, here's what finally worked for me: I combined the mobile site approach with the early morning timing (around 5 AM) and used Firefox in private mode with ALL extensions disabled. The key was having every single piece of information written down beforehand - employment dates, addresses, SSN, bank info, etc. - so I could fill everything out without any pauses or navigation. What really saved me though was realizing that the desktop site and mobile site are completely different systems. When the desktop version kept crashing at the identity verification step, the mobile version (m.ny.gov) actually let me upload my documents successfully. Also make sure you're on a stable wifi connection, not cellular data, especially for the file uploads. If you're still stuck after trying these technical fixes, honestly the callback services like Claimyr that people mentioned here do work. I was super skeptical but desperate, and they got me connected to an actual DOL agent who found a backend flag on my account that was causing all the crashes. Sometimes it's not the website itself but account-level issues that only a human can fix. Don't give up! This system is intentionally frustrating but beatable with the right strategy. You've earned these benefits and deserve them! 💪
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Miguel Diaz
•This is exactly the kind of comprehensive breakdown I needed to see! I've been banging my head against the wall with the desktop site for weeks, but I hadn't thought about the mobile and desktop versions being completely separate systems - that's a game changer. The fact that you got through the identity verification on mobile after it kept failing on desktop gives me real hope. I'm definitely going to try the 5 AM approach with everything pre-written and see if I can finally break through this nightmare. Really appreciate you taking the time to share the specific steps that worked instead of just saying "keep trying" like most advice out there. This community is a lifesaver when dealing with such a broken system!
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Natasha Orlova
I just went through this EXACT same ordeal a few weeks ago! After fighting the NY unemployment website for almost a month, I finally got through using a combination of strategies people have mentioned here. What worked for me was switching to the mobile site (m.ny.gov) at around 4 AM using Safari in private browsing mode with a VPN to get a fresh IP address. The key insight that saved me was realizing my account had some kind of backend flag that was causing the crashes - no amount of browser troubleshooting was going to fix it. I ended up using Claimyr after being skeptical for weeks, and they got me connected to a live DOL agent who cleared the flag in literally 5 minutes. Turned out my previous employer had submitted conflicting information that was causing the system to error out every time I tried to submit. My advice: try the technical fixes first (mobile site, off-peak hours, clean browser), but if you're still crashing after a week of attempts, there's probably an account-level issue that only a human can resolve. Don't waste months like I did thinking it was just the website being glitchy - sometimes you need that direct agent contact to get unstuck. Hang in there! The system is absolutely broken but it IS beatable with persistence and the right approach.
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