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Lorenzo McCormick

What are the requirements for claiming an adult child as a dependent for tax purposes?

My mom is insisting she needs copies of my tax returns to give to her accountant as proof she can still claim me as a dependent. I'm 22 and graduated college last May, lived at home for 8 months in 2024 while job hunting, and finally got a full-time position in September. Made about $28,000 total for the year between my part-time gig and new job. When I asked her what specific forms she needed, she got super vague and just said "all of them." Something feels off about this. Shouldn't her CPA know exactly what documentation is required? And why would she need my complete tax return instead of just certain info? I'm planning to file my own taxes this year since I'm financially independent now, but I don't want to mess things up for either of us. Does anyone know what the actual requirements are for claiming an adult child as a dependent? And what specific tax forms or information would actually be needed to prove this? Thanks for any clarity!

Your mom doesn't need your entire tax return to claim you as a dependent. The CPA just needs to verify you meet the qualifying criteria, which includes: 1) Relationship test (you're her child, so that's covered) 2) Age test (under 19, or under 24 if a full-time student for at least 5 months of the tax year) 3) Residency test (lived with her for more than half the year) 4) Support test (you didn't provide more than half of your own support) 5) Joint return test (you're not filing jointly with someone else) Based on what you shared, the main question is whether you provided more than half your own support during 2024. The $28,000 you earned might push you over that threshold, especially since you only lived at home for 8 months. What she really needs is just your total income information, not your complete tax forms. You could provide a summary of your income or just the income portion of your return if you want to help her CPA make the determination.

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So if OP made $28k but only $16k of that was while living at home, would the CPA only count the $16k toward the support test? And what exactly counts as "support" - just housing or other things too?

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The support test looks at the entire year's finances, regardless of when you lived at home. Support includes housing, food, utilities, medical expenses, education, clothing, and transportation. To determine if you provided more than half your own support, you would calculate the total cost of your support for the entire year (all expenses) and then determine how much of that you paid yourself versus how much others paid. If you paid more than 50% of your total support costs from your own income, then you fail the support test and your mom can't claim you.

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Does this tool explain how to calculate the support test exactly? Like if I paid $1400/month in rent when I lived alone but would have paid $600/month for my room at my parents' place, how does that factor in?

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Xan Dae

My CPA specifically told me that parents NEVER need their kid's entire tax return to claim them as a dependent. Sounds like your mom's accountant is being lazy or doesn't know what they're doing. All they should need is: 1. Your total income for the year 2. How much you spent on your own support (rent, food, tuition, etc.) 3. Whether you were a full-time student for at least 5 months That's it. Don't give her your entire tax forms - there's sensitive info in there she doesn't need. Just write down those key numbers for her.

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What if the kid doesn't know exactly how much they spent on food, utilities, etc.? Is there some standard calculation or estimate that can be used?

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Xan Dae

There's no official standard calculation from the IRS, but most tax professionals use reasonable estimates. For example, the monthly cost of food might be estimated at $300-400 for a young adult, utilities might be $100-150 per person in a shared household, etc. The key is making a good faith effort to be accurate. Keep in mind that for the support test, you need to include the fair market value of housing even if you weren't paying rent to your parents. So if a room in a comparable shared house would cost $600/month in your area, that counts as $7,200 of annual support, even if you weren't actually paying your parents.

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Honestly this sounds like your mom is fishing for information she doesn't need. My mom tried the same thing last year saying her "accountant needed it" but turns out she just wanted to see how much money I was making at my new job lol. When I offered to just give her the specific numbers her CPA actually needed, she got all weird about it. Stand your ground and only provide the specific information required. You're an adult now and entitled to your financial privacy!

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100% this. Parents get used to knowing everything about our finances and sometimes have trouble adjusting when we become independent. My dad pulled the same move and I later found out he was trying to figure out if I could "afford" to contribute to family vacation costs.

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Based on your income and living situation, you're likely right to be suspicious. With $28k income for the year, you probably provided more than half of your own support, which means your mom can't claim you as a dependent anyway. Here's a quick reality check: if you earned $28k and only lived at home for 8 months, you were likely financially independent for a significant portion of the year. The support test considers your entire year's expenses - housing, food, transportation, etc. - not just the time you lived at home. Your mom's CPA only needs three pieces of information: your total income ($28k), an estimate of your total annual support costs, and how much of those costs you paid yourself. That's it. No tax forms required. I'd suggest calculating your own support test first. Add up what you spent on rent, food, transportation, etc. for the full year, then see what percentage you covered yourself. If it's over 50%, she can't claim you regardless of what paperwork she has. Don't hand over your entire tax return when a simple income summary would suffice for any legitimate tax professional.

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This is really helpful advice! I'm actually in a similar situation with my parents and didn't realize I could calculate the support test myself first. Do you happen to know if there are any online calculators or worksheets that help break down all the different expense categories? I'm worried I might miss something important when trying to figure out my total annual support costs.

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Your instinct is absolutely correct - something is off here. A legitimate CPA would never need your entire tax return to determine dependent eligibility. They need exactly three pieces of information: 1. Your total income for 2024 ($28,000) 2. Your total support costs for the year (housing, food, utilities, transportation, etc.) 3. How much of those costs you paid yourself vs. what your parents paid That's it. No forms, no detailed breakdowns, just those numbers. Given your situation - $28K income with only 8 months at home - you very likely provided more than half your own support anyway, which means she CAN'T claim you as a dependent regardless. When you were living independently for 4 months, you were paying your own rent, food, utilities, etc. Add that to whatever you contributed while at home, and you're probably well over the 50% threshold. My advice: Calculate your own support test first using reasonable estimates. If you supported yourself for more than half the year's total costs, tell your mom she can't claim you and save everyone the hassle. If it's close, then provide just the three numbers above - not your tax forms. Protecting your financial privacy as an adult is completely reasonable and appropriate.

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This is exactly the reality check I needed! I've been feeling guilty about not just handing over my tax return, but you're absolutely right that I probably can't even be claimed as a dependent anyway. When I think about it, those 4 months of living independently (rent, groceries, utilities, car payments) plus what I earned while at home probably does put me over 50% self-support. I'm going to sit down this weekend and actually calculate it out before having another conversation with my mom. If the numbers show I'm independent, that should end the whole discussion about needing my tax forms. Thanks for the clear breakdown - it really helps to know I'm not being unreasonable about protecting my financial privacy!

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