Can my parent use my 1098-T form without claiming me as a dependent on taxes?
This year I'm filing my own taxes and claiming myself as independent. I'm 22, living on my own, paying all my rent and bills. I specifically told my mom not to claim me as a dependent like she usually does, and she agreed. Here's where things get weird - my mom is now saying she needs my 1098-T form for some kind of "reimbursement" related to my tuition. The thing is, she doesn't actually pay my tuition at all. She mentioned that back in 2021, she reported my income as below $6,700 and now needs my 1098-T to "keep my scholarships" or something? I'm confused - can she legally use my 1098-T form without claiming me as a dependent? She mentioned something about needing it for FAFSA purposes? I want to make sure everything is done legally and that I'm not missing something important here.
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Ravi Choudhury
The 1098-T form reports qualified education expenses paid to an eligible educational institution. It's primarily used for education tax benefits, and generally, the person who claims the student as a dependent is the one who can claim education tax benefits. Since you're claiming yourself as independent, you would be the one eligible to claim any education tax credits (like the American Opportunity Credit or Lifetime Learning Credit) based on your 1098-T. Your mother cannot claim these education tax benefits if she's not claiming you as a dependent. As for FAFSA, that's a separate process from taxes. While FAFSA does use tax information to determine financial aid eligibility, your mother doesn't need your 1098-T form for FAFSA purposes. FAFSA requires tax return information, not the specific 1098-T form. The explanation about "keeping your scholarships" doesn't make sense from a tax perspective. Scholarships are typically reported directly to the school and the IRS, not managed through a parent's tax return.
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CosmosCaptain
•Thanks for the clarification! So if I'm filing independently, she has no reason to need my 1098-T, right? Also, could she get in trouble if she somehow used my 1098-T on her taxes without claiming me as a dependent?
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Ravi Choudhury
•Correct, if you're filing independently and she's not claiming you as a dependent, she has no valid tax reason to need your 1098-T form. The education credits and deductions associated with the 1098-T can only be claimed by the person who claims the student (you) on their tax return. If she attempted to claim education credits or deductions using your 1098-T without claiming you as a dependent, it would be improper and potentially considered tax fraud. The IRS systems would likely flag this discrepancy since the 1098-T is reported to the IRS with your SSN, and you're filing as independent. This could trigger audits or other compliance actions.
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Sean Kelly
Something important no one has mentioned yet - your mom might be confused about Parent PLUS loans vs. actual tuition payment! My mom thought she could claim my education credits because she had taken out Parent PLUS loans for my schooling, but that's not how it works. If your mom has Parent PLUS loans in her name, she CAN deduct the interest payments on those loans on her tax return (up to $2,500) without claiming you as a dependent - but she CANNOT claim education credits from your 1098-T. Those are completely different things. The FAFSA comment makes me think she's mixing up these concepts. For FAFSA purposes, her tax information might be relevant depending on your dependency status, but that has nothing to do with who claims education credits.
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Isabella Silva
•This is really helpful! She does have some Parent PLUS loans from my first year, though I've been covering everything myself since then. Maybe that's what she's confused about? Is there any form other than the 1098-T that she would legitimately need from me for her taxes?
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Sean Kelly
•The only form she might legitimately need related to education expenses would be Form 1098-E, which shows student loan interest paid. However, that would only be relevant if the loans are in her name (like Parent PLUS loans) and she made payments on them during the tax year. For Parent PLUS loans specifically, she would receive her own 1098-E directly from the loan servicer since those loans are in her name, not yours. You wouldn't need to provide her with anything for that. She can deduct interest on Parent PLUS loans on her return (subject to income limitations) even if she doesn't claim you as a dependent.
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Zara Malik
Watch out for potential fraud here! My ex tried to claim our daughter's education credits without claiming her as a dependent and it triggered an IRS audit for BOTH of them. The IRS specifically looks for mismatches between 1098-T forms and dependent claims. Your mom might not understand tax law, but ignorance isn't an excuse to the IRS. If she uses your 1098-T without claiming you, and you claim yourself AND use the same 1098-T for education credits, it will create a red flag. Best approach: file your taxes first, claiming yourself and any education credits you're entitled to. Once your return is accepted, it'll block her from claiming the same benefits.
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Luca Greco
•Is the mismatch something that happens automatically or does someone have to report it? Asking because my parents tried something similar and I want to know if I need to do anything.
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NightOwl42
Your mom definitely cannot use your 1098-T form for education tax credits if she's not claiming you as a dependent. The IRS is very clear on this - only the person who claims the student as a dependent can claim education credits like the American Opportunity Credit or Lifetime Learning Credit. The "reimbursement" and "keeping scholarships" explanations don't make sense from a tax perspective. Scholarships are managed between you and your school, not through anyone's tax return. If she's talking about FAFSA, that's a completely separate financial aid process that doesn't require your 1098-T form. Here's what I'd recommend: File your taxes ASAP claiming yourself as independent and use your 1098-T to claim any education credits you're eligible for (like the American Opportunity Credit if you qualify). Once your return is processed, it will prevent anyone else from claiming those same benefits. Make sure you keep all documentation showing you paid qualified education expenses if you're claiming credits. And don't give her your 1098-T - there's no legitimate tax reason she needs it if she's not claiming you as a dependent.
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Andrew Pinnock
•This is solid advice! I'm in a similar situation where my parents were confused about who could claim what after I started filing independently. One thing to add - if your mom is still confused about the "reimbursement" she mentioned, it might help to explain that education tax credits are dollar-for-dollar reductions in tax owed, not actual reimbursements. The American Opportunity Credit can be up to $2,500 and is partially refundable, which might be what she's thinking of. But again, only you can claim it since you're filing independently and claiming yourself. Filing early is definitely the right move to lock in your claim to those credits!
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Butch Sledgehammer
I'm a tax professional and want to add some clarity about the specific situation you described with the 2021 income reporting. It sounds like your mom might be confusing several different tax concepts here. The mention of reporting your income as "below $6,700" in 2021 suggests she may have been trying to ensure you qualified as her dependent under the gross income test (which was $4,300 for 2021, actually). However, if you're now 22, living independently, and paying your own expenses, you likely don't meet the dependency tests regardless of income. The "keeping scholarships" comment is particularly concerning because it suggests a fundamental misunderstanding of how scholarships work. Scholarships are awarded and maintained based on academic performance, enrollment status, and the specific terms set by the scholarship provider - not by who claims what on their tax return. What your mom might actually be thinking about is maximizing education benefits across both your returns, but she's going about it the wrong way. If she has legitimate education-related expenses (like Parent PLUS loan interest), she can claim those deductions without needing your 1098-T. But the education credits associated with your 1098-T can only be claimed by whoever claims you as a dependent - which in this case would be you. My advice: Have a direct conversation with her about what specific tax benefit she thinks she's missing out on, then you can address the actual issue rather than this confusing 1098-T request.
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Isabella Martin
•This is really helpful context! The 2021 income reporting detail you mentioned makes me wonder if there's been an ongoing pattern of confusion about tax dependency rules. As someone new to this situation, I'm curious - if the mom has been incorrectly handling the dependency/education credit situation for multiple years, could that create problems down the road? And is there a way to correct previous years if mistakes were made, or should they just focus on getting this year right going forward?
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