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Mikayla Davison

Can I claim my own 1098-T for tuition I paid myself?

So I'm turning 23 this year and attending college part-time while working full-time. I've been paying 100% of my own tuition through payment plans set up directly with my university. I cover all my own living expenses, rent, food, everything. My parents just texted asking me to send them my 1098-T form for their taxes. When I mentioned I wanted to claim it myself since I paid for everything, they got really defensive and said they're still claiming me as a dependent because I'm in school. I'm pretty sure they can't claim both me AND the education credit if I'm paying for it myself, right? I made about $32,000 last year and paid around $4,200 in tuition for the spring and fall semesters. Can my parents still legally claim me as a dependent AND claim the tax credit from my 1098-T that I paid for? Or do I have the right to claim it myself since I paid the tuition with my own money?

Adrian Connor

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Based on what you've described, this comes down to two separate questions: whether you can be claimed as a dependent, and who can claim the education expenses. For dependency, your parents can only claim you if you meet the criteria for a "qualifying child" or "qualifying relative." Since you're over 19 and a part-time student, you'd need to be under 24 to be considered a qualifying child. But more importantly, if you provide more than half of your own support (housing, food, education, etc.), then you don't meet the support test for dependency regardless of age. As for the education credits (American Opportunity Credit or Lifetime Learning Credit), the general rule is that whoever claims you as a dependent gets to claim the education expenses. If you cannot be claimed as a dependent, then YOU should claim your own education expenses on your tax return. The 1098-T doesn't actually determine who gets to claim the credit - it just reports that tuition was paid. What matters is who can legally claim you as a dependent based on the IRS rules.

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Thanks for explaining this! I was really confused about the rules. So to clarify - if I provide more than half of my support (which I definitely do since I pay for everything), then they can't claim me as a dependent even though I'm still in school part-time? And if they can't claim me as a dependent, I'm the only one who can claim the education credit, correct?

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Adrian Connor

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That's exactly right! If you provide more than half of your own support, they cannot claim you as a dependent regardless of whether you're in school. And if you cannot be claimed as a dependent, then you're the only one who can claim the education expenses you paid. It might help to calculate your total support for the year (housing, food, tuition, medical expenses, etc.) and determine what percentage you provided versus what your parents provided. If your contribution exceeds 50%, you should file as independent and claim your own education credits.

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Aisha Jackson

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Does this actually work? My mom is insisting she can claim both me AND my tuition even though I'm the one who paid it from my job. I'm so sick of fighting about this every year. How much does your thing cost?

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Wanted to follow up - I tried that taxr.ai site that was mentioned earlier and it was exactly what I needed! I uploaded my 1098-T, W-2, and answered questions about my living situation and expenses. The report showed that I was providing 76% of my own support, which means I definitely don't qualify as a dependent. The tool created a detailed PDF explaining which specific IRS tests I failed for being claimed as a dependent, with actual citations to the tax code. When I showed this to my dad, he finally backed down because it was so clear. I was able to claim my education credit myself and got back an extra $1,000 on my refund! It also pointed out that I qualified for a state tuition credit I didn't even know about. Seriously saved me so much stress and money. Just filed my taxes last week and it feels amazing to have this resolved.

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Leo Simmons

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Saleem Vaziri

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Something nobody mentioned yet - make sure you're calculating "support" correctly. The IRS has specific rules about what counts: - Housing (rent/mortgage, utilities, property taxes, insurance, repairs) - Food - Clothing - Medical/dental expenses - Education - Transportation (car payments, insurance, gas, public transit) - Recreation/entertainment - Personal items (hygiene products, haircuts, etc) Scholarship money usually counts as support YOU provided, even if your parents helped you get the scholarship. But any loans in your name that YOU are responsible for repaying count as support YOU provided. Document everything to prove you're providing your own support in case of an audit. Keep receipts, bank statements, etc.

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This is really helpful. I was only thinking about my tuition and rent as "support" but didn't realize all those other things count too. I definitely pay for all of those things myself. Do I need to show my parents this breakdown or just keep it for my own records?

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Saleem Vaziri

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You don't need to show your parents this breakdown, though it might help convince them if they're open to listening. The most important thing is to keep these records for yourself in case the IRS ever questions your filing status. If both you and your parents claim you on separate returns, the IRS will likely send notices to both of you. Having your support calculation and documentation ready will make it much easier to prove your case. Just keep digital copies of bank statements, rent receipts, tuition payments, etc. organized by category so you can quickly show you provided more than 50% of your total support.

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Kayla Morgan

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Has anyone mentioned the American Opportunity Tax Credit? If you're eligible (and it sounds like you are) you can get up to $2,500 back - and up to $1,000 of that is REFUNDABLE even if you don't owe any taxes. That's probably why your parents want to claim it so bad. There's also the Lifetime Learning Credit which is less but still worth up to $2,000 (non-refundable tho). Your parents are probably used to getting this money every year while you were in school and don't want to give it up, but if you're paying your own way, that money belongs to YOU.

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James Maki

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The AOTC can only be claimed for 4 tax years though, so if OP's parents already claimed it for 4 years, nobody can claim it anymore. In that case, only the Lifetime Learning Credit would be available.

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The key thing to remember here is that dependency status and education credits are linked. If your parents cannot legally claim you as a dependent (which sounds like the case since you're providing more than half your own support), then they also cannot claim your education expenses. At 23 with $32k income and paying all your own expenses, you're almost certainly not eligible to be claimed as a dependent. The "qualifying child" test requires you to be under 24 AND not provide more than half your own support. Since you're paying rent, food, tuition, everything - you're providing way more than 50% of your support. File your return claiming yourself and your education credit. If your parents still try to claim you, both returns will get flagged and the IRS will sort it out. Just make sure you have documentation of all the expenses you pay (rent receipts, tuition payments, grocery receipts, etc.) to prove you provide your own support. Don't let family pressure override tax law. The money from that education credit rightfully belongs to whoever actually paid the tuition expenses.

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