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My brother applied for SS disability last year and they told him they lost his medical records too! He had to start his whole application over. Then they denied him anyway even with all his evidence! The whole system is broken. Good luck but don't get your hopes up.
I'm so sorry you're going through this stress! Document issues seem unfortunately common with SSA's system. A few suggestions that might help: First, during your callback tomorrow, ask them to read back the specific document titles/dates they have on file - not just page counts. This will help you identify what's actually missing. Second, if you have any particularly crucial records (like your neurologist reports you mentioned), consider having that doctor's office fax them directly to SSA with your claim number - sometimes this bypasses the portal issues entirely. Finally, keep detailed notes of every conversation including the representative's name and what they tell you. The anxiety around this process is real, but many people have gotten through similar document confusion and still been approved. You're being proactive by following up, which is exactly what you should be doing!
This is really helpful advice! I'm new to this whole disability process and reading everyone's experiences here is both scary and reassuring. The idea about having my neurologist fax records directly is smart - I didn't even know doctors could do that. @63c6ea634cad I hope your callback goes well tomorrow! It sounds like you're doing everything right by staying on top of this and keeping good records. The stress of not knowing if they have your evidence must be overwhelming on top of dealing with your health issues.
Thank you all for the helpful information! I've learned a lot. To summarize what I understand now: 1. My current wife gets 50% of my benefit at her FRA (if that's more than her own benefit) 2. She'd get 100% survivor benefits after I pass away 3. My ex-wife can't claim on my record since she remarried I'll try using that Claimyr service to confirm these details directly with SSA. It's frustrating how difficult it is to reach them by phone these days.
You've got it exactly right! Just one small clarification on point #1 - your wife will receive the higher of either her own Social Security benefit OR 50% of yours, but not both added together. So if her own benefit ends up being $1,200 and 50% of yours would be $1,500, she'd get the $1,500 spousal benefit. Also, since you mentioned you're delaying past your FRA until 69, those delayed retirement credits will increase your benefit amount, which means your wife's spousal benefit calculation (50% of your Primary Insurance Amount) and eventual survivor benefits will be based on your higher delayed amount. Good planning on your part! Hope the Claimyr service works out better for you than the regular SSA phone lines. Getting official confirmation is always wise with these complex situations.
This is really helpful information! I'm new to understanding Social Security benefits and this thread has been incredibly educational. Quick question - when you mention "Primary Insurance Amount" vs the delayed retirement credits, does that mean the spousal benefit stays at 50% of the original PIA even if the worker delays, but survivor benefits get the full delayed amount? Or do both get calculated from the higher delayed amount?
Thanks to everyone who's replied! I feel so much better knowing I don't have any immediate responsibilities. I was stressing about this for days thinking I might be neglecting some important duty. Sounds like this is just my husband planning ahead (which is very like him). I appreciate all the information and personal experiences shared here.
You're welcome! It's actually commendable that both of you are thinking about these things in advance. Many families find themselves in crisis when someone suddenly becomes unable to manage their benefits, with no plans in place. Having this designation already filed with SSA will make things much smoother if it ever becomes necessary.
Smart planning by your husband! Just to add one more reassuring point - you can even decline to serve as representative payee if/when the time comes and SSA contacts you. The Advanced Designation form expresses his preference, but it's not a legally binding commitment on your part. If circumstances change or you feel unable to take on those responsibilities in the future, you have the right to decline and SSA would then look for another suitable person or organization to serve as payee.
As someone who just turned 70 last month and successfully navigated this exact same process, I want to echo what everyone else has said - you're doing everything perfectly! The timing confusion is so real, but you've got it right. I applied in August for my December birthday (also after the 2nd), selected December as my benefit month, and received my first payment in January with all the delayed retirement credits included. The whole process went smoothly once I understood that distinction between benefit month vs payment month that several people have explained so well here. One additional tip I'd add: when you complete your application, take screenshots of every page, not just the final confirmation. I ended up needing to reference some of my application details later and was glad I had them saved. Also, if you haven't already, double-check that your direct deposit information is correct in your bank account - you don't want any delays once that first payment is ready to go! Congratulations on making it to 70 and maximizing your benefits. It's such a relief to finally start receiving those payments after years of planning and waiting. You're so close to the finish line now!
This is such great advice about taking screenshots of every page! I wouldn't have thought of that, but you're absolutely right that you might need to reference application details later. And the direct deposit tip is really important too - after waiting all these years for maximum benefits, the last thing anyone would want is a delay because of banking information issues. It's so encouraging to hear from someone who literally just completed this exact process last month. Did you get any kind of welcome packet or additional information after your first payment arrived, or was it pretty much just the payment showing up as expected? Thanks for sharing your recent experience - it gives me a lot of confidence going into this!
As a newcomer to this community, I just want to say how incredibly helpful this entire thread has been! I'm turning 70 in May 2025 and was completely lost about the application timing until I found this discussion. Reading through everyone's real experiences has cleared up so much confusion. The key points that really helped me understand: - Apply 3-4 months before your 70th birthday (which you're doing perfectly) - Select your birth month (March 2025) as the benefit start month, NOT the payment month - Since your birthday is after the 2nd, March is definitely your correct benefit month - Your first payment will arrive in April 2025 What I found most reassuring is how consistent everyone's advice is, and hearing from people who literally just went through this process in recent months with successful outcomes. The distinction between "benefit month" and "payment month" was the missing piece I needed to understand. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences - this community is such a valuable resource for navigating these confusing SSA processes! I feel so much more confident about applying for my own benefits in the coming weeks.
Welcome to the community! I'm also new here but have been following this thread closely as someone approaching 70. What really stands out to me is how this discussion has turned into such a comprehensive guide - from the basic timing rules to practical tips like saving screenshots and checking earnings records. It's amazing how one person's confusion has helped so many of us understand this process better. I especially appreciate that people shared their actual timelines and outcomes, not just theoretical advice. It gives me confidence that when I apply in a few months, I'll know exactly what to expect. This community really shows the value of people sharing their real experiences with these important financial decisions!
Jacob Smithson
I'm 62 and just started receiving SSDI benefits a few months ago, so I have about 5 years before I reach my FRA. This whole thread has been incredibly reassuring! I was already stressing about what would happen when I turn 67, thinking I might have to reapply or deal with a bunch of paperwork. It's such a relief to know the transition is automatic and the payment stays the same. The point about being able to work without earnings restrictions after FRA is really encouraging too - I've been worried that I'd never be able to do any kind of work again, but knowing that option opens up at 67 gives me some hope for the future. Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and knowledge!
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Amy Fleming
•You're so welcome! I'm glad this thread helped ease your worries. I was in a similar boat when I first started on SSDI - there's so much uncertainty about the future and it's natural to stress about what happens at different milestones. The fact that you have 5 years gives you plenty of time to plan and not worry about it. And yes, that work option at FRA is really something to look forward to! Even if you can't or don't want to work full-time, having the freedom to maybe do some consulting, part-time work, or even volunteer work that offers small stipends without worrying about benefit impacts is pretty liberating. Hang in there - you've got this!
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Angelina Farar
I'm 64 and have been on SSDI for about 8 years, so this conversation is incredibly helpful! One thing I wanted to add that might be useful - when I contacted my local SSA office last year to ask about this exact transition, they mentioned that while everything happens automatically, it's still a good idea to update your contact information and review your beneficiary information in your my Social Security account before you reach FRA. They said sometimes people forget they have outdated addresses or phone numbers on file, and if there are any rare issues with the automatic conversion, SSA needs to be able to reach you easily. It's probably overkill, but I figure it can't hurt to make sure everything is current in their system before the switch happens in a couple years!
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Diego Mendoza
•That's excellent advice about updating contact info and beneficiary details! I hadn't thought about that aspect at all. It makes perfect sense though - you definitely want SSA to be able to reach you easily if anything does go wrong with the automatic conversion, even if it's rare. I'm going to log into my account this week and double-check everything is current. Thanks for thinking of that detail - it's these kinds of practical tips that can save a lot of headaches later!
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