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If you absolutely need to speak with someone sooner, check out Claimyr.com - it's a service that helps you get through to a real SSA agent much faster than calling yourself. I used it when I needed to sort out a complicated retirement filing issue last month. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU that shows how it works. Saved me hours of frustration with the SSA phone system, especially since so many SSA offices are still dealing with staffing shortages.
I was skeptical about these types of services but my daughter used Claimyr when she needed to straighten out an issue with her deceased husband's survivor benefits. She said it worked exactly as advertised and got her through to someone in about 20 minutes when she'd been trying for DAYS on her own. Might be worth it if you have questions about your application that the online system can't answer.
Thank you all for the fantastic advice! I just finished submitting my application online and it was so much easier than I expected. I was able to specify February 2025 as my benefit start month, and the whole process took about 30 minutes (would have been faster but I had to hunt down some documents). The confirmation page says I should receive a decision within 30 days, which is such a relief compared to waiting for that December appointment! I did have one question pop up that wasn't covered in the application - if I continue to work part-time after starting benefits in February (just a few hours a week at my current job), do I need to notify SSA about that income? Since I'm past FRA, I know there's no earnings limit, but I wasn't sure about reporting requirements.
Great news that you got your application submitted! Regarding your work question - since you're past Full Retirement Age, you're correct that there's no earnings limit, so your benefits won't be reduced regardless of how much you earn. You don't need to proactively report your work activity to SSA at this point. However, your earnings will still be reported to the IRS through normal tax filing, and up to 85% of your Social Security benefits may be taxable depending on your combined income. SSA and IRS share this information automatically, so there's no additional reporting you need to do with SSA directly about your ongoing work. Just be aware of the potential tax implications when planning your finances for 2025.
Just wondering but do u have to pay tax on the backpay if they owe you? my mom got a lump sum and it messed up her taxes that yr
I want to thank everyone for your helpful responses. I was able to get through to SSA (used that Claimyr service that someone suggested - worked great) and found out my own benefit would actually be about $370 more per month than my widow's benefit! They're processing the change now and said I'll get 6 months of backpay. I'm disappointed I missed out on years of higher payments, but I'm grateful for the increase going forward. For anyone else in a similar situation, definitely check if you're receiving the highest benefit you're entitled to!
my friend says if u were married less than 10 years u get less. but i think thats for divorce not death???
Your friend is confusing different benefits. The 10-year marriage requirement is for divorced spouse benefits (both regular and survivor). For widow/widower benefits after a death, there's only a 9-month marriage requirement in most cases. For the original poster: Since you were married for 15 months before your husband passed away, you satisfy the duration requirement for full widow benefits at your FRA.
I called SSA again this morning and spoke with a different representative. They confirmed what most of you said - I'm eligible for 100% of my husband's benefit at my FRA regardless of what his ex-wife may receive. They explained the first representative confused spousal and survivor benefits rules. They also confirmed our 15-month marriage satisfies the 9-month requirement. I'll be able to choose between my own retirement benefit or the survivor benefit, whichever is higher. I'm so relieved and grateful for everyone's help here! It's frustrating to get incorrect information that caused me unnecessary worry.
Glad you got it sorted out! One more tip: when you approach your FRA, consider whether you want to: 1. Take your own retirement benefit now and switch to the survivor benefit at your FRA OR 2. Take the survivor benefit now and switch to your own retirement benefit later (up to age 70) if your own benefit would grow to be larger Unlike regular retirement benefits where you must take both benefits at once, with survivor benefits you can switch between your own and the survivor benefit to maximize your lifetime payout. This is one of the few remaining "claiming strategies" still available after the 2015 law changes.
Dylan Mitchell
if your husbands abusive why wait til december? the 2 year mark only matters for certain benefits but not worth staying in danger
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
It's complicated. Without income of my own and with my health issues, I don't have many options. I'm trying to understand what benefits I might qualify for if I leave versus what I might lose by leaving before certain time thresholds. It's literally about survival at this point.
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