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I went through a very similar situation about 3 years ago! I was also 66 and still working when I started looking into ex-spouse benefits. One thing that really helped me was requesting a "benefit verification letter" from SSA that shows what my projected benefits would be at different ages (62, FRA, and 70). This let me compare my own benefit projections against the estimated ex-spouse benefit without having to file anything yet. Also, since you mentioned your ex is 68, he's likely already collecting, which makes the process smoother. When I applied, I just needed his full name and Social Security number - SSA handled the rest of the verification internally without involving him at all. The waiting until August 2025 plan that others suggested really is smart. I wish I had been more patient instead of rushing into filing early. Those extra delayed retirement credits can add up to significant money over the long term, especially if you're in good health and expect to live a normal lifespan.
Thanks for sharing your experience! That's really helpful to know about the benefit verification letter - I had no idea that was something I could request to see projections without actually filing. That sounds like exactly what I need to make an informed decision. And it's reassuring to hear that the process was smooth when your ex was already collecting. I do have his SSN from our old tax records, so that shouldn't be a problem. You're absolutely right about being patient - with retirement so close anyway, it makes sense to wait and do this right rather than rush into something I might regret later.
I'm in a somewhat similar boat - I'm 65 and will hit my FRA next year while still working. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly educational! I had no idea about the exact FRA timing (66 and 6 months for someone born in 1957) or that benefits could be retroactive to your FRA date. One question I haven't seen addressed - for those of us who have been divorced multiple times, does SSA automatically check all ex-spouses to see which would give the highest benefit? I was married to my first husband for 12 years and my second for 15 years. Both are different ages and had different earning patterns. Do I need to provide information for both ex-husbands, or do they figure out which is better automatically? Also, Makayla, it sounds like you've gotten some really solid advice here about waiting until August 2025. That timeline makes so much sense given your situation!
I'm turning 65 in a couple of months and found myself in the exact same situation! This thread has been incredibly helpful - I had no idea that 65 wasn't actually the full retirement age anymore. Like so many others here, I was planning to just start Social Security at 65 because that's what I always thought was "normal." The advice about selecting the month AFTER your birthday (July for your June 28th birthday) is really clear now - you have to be 65 for the entire month to be eligible. But honestly, the bigger eye-opener has been learning about that permanent 13% reduction for taking benefits before Full Retirement Age of 67. That's a lot of money to give up over a lifetime! I'm so glad I learned about the Medicare/Social Security separation before making any decisions. Being able to handle Medicare enrollment at 65 while taking more time to consider Social Security timing gives me much more flexibility than I realized was possible. I'm definitely going to spend some serious time with that SSA retirement estimator tool everyone keeps mentioning. After reading all these expert insights and personal experiences, it's clear this decision is way more complex than I initially thought and deserves careful analysis rather than just assuming 65 is the right time. Thanks for posting this question - your confusion has helped educate so many of us who were in the same boat!
I'm approaching 65 myself and this entire discussion has been absolutely eye-opening! Like so many others here, I was completely unaware that the retirement rules had changed so dramatically since our parents' time. I was all set to start Social Security at 65 thinking it was just the standard thing to do. The consensus is clear about your June 28th birthday - you'll want to select July as your start month since you need to be 65 for the entire month to be eligible for benefits. But honestly, the more important revelation from all these expert responses is learning about that permanent 13% reduction for taking benefits before your Full Retirement Age of 67. When you calculate that over 20+ years of retirement, we're talking about potentially tens of thousands of dollars! What I find most valuable is understanding that Medicare and Social Security are completely independent decisions. You can enroll in Medicare at 65 (which you should do to avoid penalties) while taking more time to consider your Social Security timing. This separation gives you so much more flexibility than most people realize. I'm definitely going to use that SSA retirement estimator tool that everyone keeps mentioning before making any decisions. After reading through all these professional insights and personal experiences, it's clear this decision deserves much more careful analysis than just assuming 65 is the "right" time to start everything. Thanks for posting this question - your confusion has created one of the most educational discussions I've seen about retirement planning!
I'm dealing with this exact same situation right now! Just turned 66 last month and started my Social Security benefits in March. Sure enough, I got hit with the double Medicare Part B premium payment this month - $203 withdrawn from my bank AND deducted from my SS check. Reading through everyone's experiences here has been both incredibly helpful and absolutely maddening. What really gets me is that during my SSA application interview, the representative never once mentioned this coordination issue. They made it sound like everything would seamlessly transfer over automatically. If I hadn't stumbled across discussions like this, I probably would have let the double payments continue for months without realizing what was happening! I'm planning to call Medicare first thing tomorrow morning using the 1-800-MEDICARE number that everyone has recommended. Based on all the advice shared here, I'll have my Social Security number, Medicare number, and benefit start date ready, and I'll make sure to ask for confirmation numbers for both stopping the bank withdrawals and initiating the refund process. It's absolutely inexcusable that in 2025, two federal agencies can't coordinate something as basic as premium payments. The fact that this affects thousands of people every month according to the Medicare reps really shows this is a massive systemic failure, not just isolated incidents. Thank you all for sharing your real-world experiences - this thread has been infinitely more helpful than any official government website!
Sean, you're absolutely right to be frustrated about not being warned during your SSA interview - that seems to be a consistent theme throughout this thread! It's really concerning that SSA reps aren't properly preparing people for this coordination nightmare. When you call Medicare tomorrow, I'd suggest also asking them if there's any way they can expedite the refund process since you're calling so quickly after the duplicate payment. Some people in other forums have mentioned that calling within the first few days of the duplicate charge sometimes allows for faster processing. Also, based on what Isabella mentioned about documenting everything, you might want to take a screenshot of your bank statement showing the duplicate charge before you call, just in case there are any issues with the refund later. Good luck with your call tomorrow - hopefully they can get everything sorted out quickly! This thread really has become an invaluable resource for navigating what should be a simple transition but unfortunately isn't.
I'm currently 65 and just enrolled in Medicare Part B while still working, but I'm planning to start my Social Security benefits in about 8 months. This entire thread has been absolutely eye-opening - I had no idea this coordination nightmare between SSA and Medicare was so widespread! Reading through everyone's detailed experiences, it's clear that this isn't just an occasional glitch but a massive systemic failure affecting thousands of people every single month. The fact that Medicare reps immediately recognize these calls as "Social Security transition cases" really shows how routine this problem has become. What's particularly frustrating is learning that SSA representatives consistently fail to warn people about this during application interviews, leaving retirees completely blindsided by double payments. It's 2025 - how is it acceptable that two federal agencies still can't coordinate basic premium payments automatically? Based on all the invaluable advice shared here, I'm already preparing my action plan: call Medicare immediately the day my SS benefits start, have all my account numbers ready (SS, Medicare, bank), request confirmation numbers for both stopping withdrawals and any refund requests, ask for written documentation, take screenshots of bank statements, and monitor everything closely during the transition. Thank you all for sharing your real-world experiences and creating what's essentially become a survival guide for navigating this bureaucratic mess. This community provides far more practical guidance than any official government resource that somehow completely ignores this widespread coordination failure!
As someone who's been following this incredibly informative discussion, I wanted to add my voice to the overwhelming consensus here - Emma, please wait until November for your full retirement age! Reading through all these personal stories from community members who are permanently losing $85-$137+ every month because they filed just a few months early has been both eye-opening and heartbreaking. The fact that this reduction is truly permanent and affects even your future COLA increases (since they're calculated as a percentage of your already-reduced base) makes the long-term financial impact enormous. In your situation, you have several factors working in your favor for waiting: - You're still earning $24K from part-time work, so you're not in desperate need of the SS income - You only have to wait 10 months, which will pass quickly - Your current earnings might even boost your benefit calculation if they're higher than some earlier low-earning years - You'll avoid that 5.6% permanent reduction that could cost you $25,000-$30,000+ over your retirement The wisdom shared in this thread is invaluable. So many members wish someone had explained these consequences to them before they filed early. You're incredibly fortunate to have found this community and gotten this advice BEFORE making an irreversible decision rather than discovering the reduction after the fact. Those 10 months until November will fly by, but that higher monthly benefit will last for the rest of your life. Future you will definitely thank present you for being patient!
This entire thread has been such an amazing resource! As someone completely new to Social Security planning, I had no idea that filing even a few months before your exact FRA could have such massive long-term consequences. The personal stories shared here about people losing $100+ per month FOREVER really drive home just how important getting the timing right is. Emma, you're in such a fortunate position - you found this community and got this incredible advice before making what could have been a very costly mistake. The math is so clear: wait those 10 months until November and avoid losing potentially $30,000+ over your retirement years. What really struck me is how the reduction affects everything going forward, including your COLA increases. That means the gap between what you'd get filing now versus waiting just keeps growing wider each year. Since you're still working part-time and don't seem to urgently need the Social Security income, those 10 months will pass in no time. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences, especially the difficult ones. This kind of community wisdom is absolutely invaluable for helping people avoid life-changing financial mistakes!
As a newcomer to this community, I have to say this discussion has been absolutely invaluable! Reading through everyone's experiences really highlights how critical timing is with Social Security benefits. Emma, the advice here is overwhelmingly clear - wait until November for your FRA! The personal stories from members who are permanently losing $85-137+ per month because they filed just a few months early really put the long-term impact in perspective. That 5.6% reduction might seem small initially, but over 20-25 years of retirement, it could easily cost you $25,000-30,000+ in total benefits. Since you're still working part-time and earning $24K annually, you have the financial cushion to wait those 10 months. Plus, your continued earnings might actually increase your benefit calculation if they're replacing lower-earning years from your past. What really struck me from this thread is how the reduction is truly permanent and even affects your COLA increases going forward, since they're calculated as a percentage of your already-reduced base amount. The compounding effect makes the total impact even more significant. You're so fortunate to have found this community and gotten this advice BEFORE making the decision rather than discovering the consequences afterward like some other members shared. Those 10 months will pass quickly, but that higher monthly benefit will last for the rest of your life!
Welcome to the community! As another newcomer who's been following this incredible discussion, I'm amazed by how much wisdom has been shared here. Emma's question has really generated a masterclass in Social Security timing decisions. What strikes me most is how unanimous the advice has been - literally every single person who shared their experience about filing early expressed regret about the permanent reduction. The stories about losing $85-137+ per month forever really drive home the stakes involved. Emma, you're in such an ideal situation to make the smart choice here. You're still working, you don't desperately need the Social Security income right now, and you only have to wait 10 months. When you consider that this decision could affect your finances for the next 20-30 years, those 10 months are nothing! The point about COLA increases being calculated on your already-reduced amount is particularly eye-opening - it means that early filing penalty gets worse over time, not better. Thank you to everyone who took the time to share their experiences and help educate those of us who are new to navigating these complex decisions!
Julian Paolo
New member here but I've been following this thread closely - what an incredibly helpful discussion! I'm dealing with the exact same "being processed" issue for about 4 weeks now. My SSN ends in 28, so based on @Mateo Hernandez's fantastic batch processing breakdown, I should have been in the 20-29 group that was likely processed a couple weeks ago. Since mine still hasn't appeared, I'm thinking there might be an account-specific issue like some others have mentioned. I'm planning to call during that 8-10am window everyone's recommended and ask for the Earnings and Benefits department. This thread has been more informative than hours of searching the SSA website - thank you all for sharing your experiences and especially the detailed technical insights! I'll update everyone on how my call goes in case it helps others in similar situations.
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Atticus Domingo
•Welcome to the community @Julian Paolo! Your situation sounds very similar to mine - SSN ending in the 20s range that should have been processed already but still stuck after weeks. When you call, definitely mention that you've been waiting 4 weeks and should have been in an earlier batch. I'd also suggest having your 2023-2024 tax documents ready just in case there's an earnings mismatch causing the delay, like what @Carmen Lopez and others have experienced. The 8-10am calling window seems to be the sweet spot based on everyone s'feedback. Really hope you get it resolved quickly - please do update us on how it goes! This thread has become such a valuable resource for everyone dealing with these SSA delays.
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Elizabeth Humpherys
could you replace my ss 2025 year end benefit
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