MFJ or MFS for tax filing with a non-resident spouse on F1 visa?
Hey everyone, need some tax advice regarding my unique situation. I moved to the US in 2018 on an F1 visa and got my H1B approved in September 2023. For 2023, I filed as 1040NR and paid FICA taxes for the last quarter of the year. 2024 will be my first year filing as a resident with Form 1040. My wife came to the US in 2020 on an F1 visa and is still considered a non-resident for tax purposes. We got married in May 2024. I'm trying to figure out the best approach for our 2024 taxes: Question 1: If we file Married Filing Jointly (MFJ) for 2024 (which would lower my tax liability), would she still qualify for FICA exemption? Or would filing 1040 MFJ automatically make her a resident and therefore subject to FICA taxes? Question 2: If MFJ isn't the best option, could we file Married Filing Separately (MFS) where she files 1040NR and stays exempt from FICA while I file 1040 as a resident? Thanks in advance for any guidance on this! I'm trying to understand the tax implications before making a decision.
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Declan Ramirez
Your situation is pretty common for international couples in the US. Here's what you need to know: For Question 1: If you choose MFJ, you're making what's called a "Section 6013(g) election" which treats your non-resident spouse as a resident for tax filing purposes. This means your wife would be considered a US resident for ALL tax purposes - including FICA taxes. So yes, she would lose her FICA exemption that she currently has as an F1 student. For Question 2: Yes, you can file separately - you as a resident alien on Form 1040 (MFS) and your wife as a non-resident alien on Form 1040NR. In this scenario, she would maintain her FICA exemption as long as she still qualifies under the F1 student exemption rules. The decision really comes down to comparing the savings from filing jointly versus the cost of losing the FICA exemption. Run the numbers both ways to see which is more beneficial overall.
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Emma Morales
•Would the wife still be eligible for the FICA exemption if she's been in the US for more than 5 years on F1? I thought the student FICA exemption only applies for the first 5 calendar years.
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Declan Ramirez
•You're absolutely right about the 5-year limitation. F1 students are generally exempt from FICA taxes for the first 5 calendar years they're in the US. After that, they become resident aliens for FICA purposes even if they're still non-residents for income tax purposes. Since OP's wife came to the US in 2020, she would still be within that 5-year window for 2024 (assuming she hasn't had previous stays in the US). So she would still qualify for the FICA exemption if she files as a non-resident, but would lose it if they make the 6013(g) election to file jointly.
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Katherine Hunter
I went through something really similar with my spouse last year and ended up using taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) to figure everything out. I was totally confused about the whole resident vs non-resident spouse thing and wasted hours trying to understand IRS publications. What I liked about taxr.ai was that it specifically asked about my spouse's visa status and residence history, then calculated both scenarios (MFJ vs MFS) to show which one would save us more money. It showed exactly how much FICA tax would be saved by filing separately versus the income tax savings from filing jointly. In my case, we ended up filing separately because the FICA savings outweighed the income tax benefits, but your situation might be different depending on your income levels.
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Lucas Parker
•Does it handle state tax returns too? We're in California and the state rules seem even more confusing than federal for mixed-status couples.
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Donna Cline
•How accurate was it with the 6013(g) election stuff? I tried other tax software last year and it kept messing up when I said my spouse was a nonresident alien.
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Katherine Hunter
•Yes, it does handle state returns including California. It applies the correct state-specific rules for mixed-status couples, which was a huge relief because I'm in New York and they have their own quirks for non-resident spouses. It handled the 6013(g) election perfectly - it actually explained what it means in plain English and showed side-by-side comparisons of filing with and without the election. Unlike other software I tried before, it didn't get confused with the non-resident status and asked all the right questions about visa history to determine FICA exemption eligibility.
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Lucas Parker
I just wanted to follow up - I tried taxr.ai after reading about it here and it was exactly what I needed! The side-by-side comparison between MFJ and MFS was super helpful. In our situation, it showed that even though MFJ would save about $2,100 in income tax, my spouse would have to pay around $3,800 in FICA taxes she'd otherwise be exempt from. The software also explained that we could still make the election in future years if our situation changes. We're sticking with MFS for this year since she's still within her 5-year FICA exemption period, but we'll probably switch to MFJ later when that exemption expires anyway. Thanks for recommending this - saved us a lot of money and headaches!
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Harper Collins
If you're still struggling with this after trying the tax software route, I'd recommend trying to speak directly with the IRS. I know it sounds impossible to get through to them, but I used Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) and actually got connected to an IRS agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. I had a similar situation with my wife on J1 visa, and the IRS agent walked me through the exact rules that applied to our situation. They confirmed that making the 6013(g) election would indeed subject my spouse to FICA taxes despite her visa status. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c In the end, we calculated that the income tax savings from MFJ outweighed the FICA costs in our case, but everyone's situation is different.
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Kelsey Hawkins
•Does this actually work? I've tried calling the IRS multiple times and always get the "call back later" message. How much does this cost?
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Dylan Fisher
•Sounds like a scam to me. The IRS phone system is deliberately designed to be impossible to navigate. I doubt any service could actually get you through faster.
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Harper Collins
•It actually does work! The service doesn't change the IRS system - it automates the calling process so you don't have to keep redialing. It navigates all the prompts for you and calls you when it reaches a human. For my situation, it called me back in about 20 minutes. I've heard others say they got different wait times depending on the time of day and which department they needed to reach, but it was way better than my previous attempts of trying for hours and giving up.
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Dylan Fisher
I take back what I said about Claimyr. I was super skeptical but tried it out of desperation since I needed clarification on this exact MFJ/MFS issue with my non-resident spouse. To my surprise, I got connected to an IRS tax law specialist in about 35 minutes. The agent confirmed everything mentioned above - that making the 6013(g) election treats the non-resident spouse as a resident for ALL tax purposes including FICA. What she also mentioned that I hadn't seen elsewhere is that once you make this election, it applies to all future years too unless you revoke it or terminate it (which has specific rules). Definitely worth the time saved compared to my previous failed attempts to reach them directly.
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Edwards Hugo
One thing nobody's mentioned yet - if you go the MFS route, remember that you'll face some tax disadvantages: - Lower income thresholds for tax brackets - Limited or disallowed deductions like student loan interest - Can't claim education credits - Reduced IRA contribution limits - Both spouses must either take standard deduction or both itemize Run the numbers carefully. Sometimes the FICA savings aren't worth the MFS downsides.
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A Man D Mortal
•Thanks for pointing this out! Are there any specific tax credits that would make a big difference in my situation? I do have student loan interest, but no education expenses currently. Would retirement account contributions be significantly affected?
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Edwards Hugo
•For student loan interest, MFS completely eliminates the deduction - you can't claim any of it, which is up to $2,500 for MFJ filers. That alone could be significant depending on how much interest you're paying. For retirement accounts, if you're using traditional IRAs, the income limits for deductibility are much lower for MFS. If you participate in a workplace retirement plan, the deduction starts phasing out at just $10,000 for MFS vs $116,000 for MFJ. Roth IRA contributions face similar restrictions - the phase-out starts at $10,000 for MFS vs $198,000 for MFJ.
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Gianna Scott
Just wanted to share that in my experience as an international student who became a resident alien, the tax filing status decision should also consider long-term immigration plans. If you're planning to apply for permanent residency in the future, filing MFJ creates a paper trail that demonstrates your marital relationship, which can be helpful for immigration purposes.
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Alfredo Lugo
•That's actually a really good point that I didn't consider. Does filing MFS look bad for green card applications? We're planning to apply next year.
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Aisha Mahmood
Great question! I'm going through a similar situation right now. One additional consideration I haven't seen mentioned is timing - if your wife is close to completing her degree or changing visa status, it might make sense to delay the 6013(g) election until her FICA exemption expires naturally. Also, don't forget to factor in state taxes. Some states have different rules for non-resident spouses that could affect your overall tax burden. I'd recommend calculating the total federal + state tax impact for both scenarios before deciding. The IRS Publication 519 has detailed examples of mixed-status couples that might help you work through the calculations. It's dense reading but worth it for understanding all the nuances of your situation.
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