MFJ or MFS with a non-resident spouse - Options for mixed residency couple for 2025 taxes

This is a good question about mixed-status couples! Let me help clarify. For Question 1: Filing MFJ by making the "election" to treat your non-resident spouse as a resident for tax purposes doesn't automatically make her subject to FICA taxes. The FICA exemption is based on her immigration status and visa type, not her tax filing status. Since she's on an F1 visa and presumably working under that status, she would maintain her FICA exemption even if you file jointly. For Question 2: Yes, you could file separately - you with Form 1040 and your wife with Form 1040NR. This is sometimes called a "dual-status" approach. Your wife would definitely maintain her FICA exemption this way, but you'd likely face higher tax rates and lose some tax benefits. Generally, MFJ will provide better overall tax advantages for most couples. The tax savings from filing jointly typically outweigh any potential FICA savings, especially since her FICA exemption should continue regardless.

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I tried taxr.ai after reading about it here, and it was actually really helpful for my situation. I was in a similar boat with my wife on F1 and me as a resident. The tool confirmed that we could file MFJ without affecting her FICA exemption, which saved us almost $2,800 in taxes compared to filing separately. The statement template they provided for making the Section 6013(g) election was accepted by the IRS without any issues. What surprised me was how they pointed out specific deductions and credits we qualified for with MFJ that I would have missed, like the full standard deduction for both of us and the ability to combine our qualified education expenses. Definitely going to use it again for 2025 taxes since our situation is getting more complex with some investment income.

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One important thing nobody mentioned yet - if you do make the election to treat your non-resident spouse as a resident by filing MFJ, remember that you'll need to report your spouse's WORLDWIDE income, not just US income. This includes any foreign accounts, investments, or income from her home country. If she has significant foreign income or assets, you'll also need to look into FBAR filing requirements and potential foreign tax credits. Sometimes this extra complexity can offset the tax savings from filing jointly.

Does anyone know if state tax filing follows the same rules? I'm in California with a similar situation (I'm resident, spouse is non-resident on F1) and I'm not sure if making the federal election to file jointly means we have to file jointly for state too?

Great discussion everyone! I wanted to add another perspective as someone who went through this exact situation last year. One thing to keep in mind is timing - since you got married in May 2025, you'll be considered married for the entire tax year for filing purposes. This means you can choose between MFJ or MFS for your 2025 return. I'd also suggest documenting everything carefully. When I made the Section 6013(g) election, I kept copies of all the paperwork including the statement attached to our return, my wife's I-94, and her I-20 showing her F1 status. The IRS never questioned it, but having that documentation ready gave me peace of mind. Another consideration: if your wife plans to change visa status in the future (like applying for a green card), filing jointly and making the election won't negatively impact that process. In fact, it can sometimes help establish the legitimacy of your marriage for immigration purposes. The tax savings from MFJ are usually substantial enough to outweigh the added complexity of reporting worldwide income, especially if her foreign income is minimal like most F1 students.