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Just wanted to add that while your girlfriend doesn't qualify you for HOH, if you ever have a child together, you could potentially qualify even without being married. The child would be your qualifying person, not your girlfriend. Something to keep in mind for future tax planning if you're thinking about starting a family.
Thanks for this info! We're actually thinking about having kids in the next year or two, so that's really good to know. If we have a child, would I automatically qualify for HOH or are there other requirements I'd need to meet?
You'd still need to meet the other HOH requirements - paying more than half the cost of keeping up the home where your child lives for more than half the year, and being unmarried or considered unmarried. But yes, your child would be a qualifying person, allowing you to file as HOH which would give you better tax rates and a higher standard deduction compared to filing as single. If both you and your girlfriend are the child's parents, only one of you can claim HOH, typically the parent who has the higher adjusted gross income if the child lives with both of you equally.
you might wanna also look into claiming your girlfriend as a dependent if she made less than $4,400 in 2024 and you provided more than half her support. won't get you HOH status but could still give you a tax break!
This is right! I claim my brother as a dependent because he's in college and I support him. Saved me about $500 on my taxes last year. The key is they can't have much income and you have to provide more than half their total support for the year.
Oh wow, I didn't even think about this! She only worked part-time last year and made around $3,500 total. I definitely provided way more than half her support. Does she need to be related to me to claim her as a dependent?
I actually work in payroll and see this situation fairly often. Here's what's happening: The IRS has systems that flag unusual patterns in W2 reporting. Two simultaneous full-time jobs (80+ hours weekly) looks statistically unlikely, so the system flags it as potential identity theft. Some additional advice: Your friend should keep ALL documentation from both employers proving he works at both places (offer letters, paystubs, etc). Also, there's nothing illegal about working two full-time jobs (unless one employer specifically prohibits it in their contract), but it's worth checking both employee handbooks to make sure he's not violating any company policies.
Would this still happen if the two jobs are in different states? I'm considering taking a remote position while keeping my current job, but they're in different states and I'm worried about triggering something like this.
Yes, it would still likely trigger a flag even with jobs in different states. The IRS systems look at the total reported income under your SSN regardless of which states the W2s come from. In fact, having W2s from multiple states might make it even more likely to trigger their identity theft algorithms. For your remote position situation, just be prepared to potentially deal with this verification process. It's not a huge problem, just an extra step. Also be aware you'll need to file state tax returns for both states in most cases, which adds some complexity to your tax situation.
This happened to me last year! Two full-time remote jobs and got that identity theft letter. Just follow the instructions on the letter exactly. Mine was a 5071C and I had to verify through the ID.me process on the IRS website and answer questions about both jobs. Took about 10 minutes to verify online and my return was processed about 6 weeks later. No big deal but definitely respond asap!!
Something no one mentioned - check if your nursing school expenses might qualify for any other credits or deductions beyond education credits! Depending on your situation, some of those expenses might qualify as either medical expenses (if you itemize) or potentially job-related expenses if you're already working in healthcare. I'm not a tax pro, but when I was getting my respiratory therapy certification while working as a medical assistant, I found that some expenses could be classified in multiple ways. Might be worth exploring all angles!
Thanks for bringing this up! I am actually already working as a CNA at a hospital that's helping with some tuition reimbursement once I start. Would that change anything about how I should be looking at these expenses? The hospital benefits coordinator mentioned something about "work-related education" but I wasn't sure what she meant.
That definitely opens up more possibilities! Since you're already working in healthcare as a CNA, some of your nursing education expenses might qualify as work-related education expenses if they maintain or improve skills needed in your current employment. The downside is that after the tax law changes in 2018, work-related education expenses are much harder to deduct for employees. However, your tuition reimbursement situation is really important to consider. If your employer is providing tuition assistance, up to $5,250 per year can be excluded from your income if it's part of a qualified educational assistance program. Any amount over that would be taxable unless it qualifies as a working condition fringe benefit.
I literally just went through this exact situation with my surgical tech program last year. One thing that saved me - I called my school's financial aid office and explained I needed a 1098-T for the expenses paid in 2024. Even though classes hadn't started, they issued me a 1098-T for the "prepayments" which allowed me to claim them on my 2024 taxes. Not all schools will do this, but mine did after I explained the situation. Worth a phone call to see if they can help!
Kinda suprised nobody mentioned this but filing ur taxes with just paystubs is technically not allowed. The IRS requires you to use the ACTUAL W-2 form your employer provides. If u file with paystub info and it matches the W-2 exactly, you might get away with it, but if theres ANY difference, ur looking at having to file an amended return which takes forever to process. Also alot of employers have early W-2 access online thru their payroll systems (ADP, Workday, etc). Check if u can get ur W-2 electronically before paper copies come out. My company has them online by Jan 15 usually, way before the paper copies arrive.
Thanks for mentioning this! I didn't even think to check if our employers offer early online access to W-2s. I'll definitely look into that right away. Is there any difference between the electronic version and the paper one that gets mailed out?
The electronic and paper W-2s contain exactly the same information - they're just delivered differently. The electronic version is official and can be used to file your taxes just like the paper copy. The advantage is you typically get access to it 1-2 weeks earlier than waiting for mail delivery. Just log into your company's HR portal or payroll system and look for a tax documents section. Some employers require you to specifically opt-in for electronic W-2 delivery, so check that setting too. If you can't find it, ask your HR department - they'll point you in the right direction.
One thing to be super careful about - your last paystub of the year often doesnt include taxable fringe benefits. My company gives us a holiday gift card every year ($100) and it shows up on W-2 as taxable income but never appears on paystubs. Also had a work anniversary gift that was taxable. Would have been wrong if I'd filed with just paystubs. Also my health insurance has a "imputed income" thing for covering my partner that only shows on W-2. Worth waiting the extra couple weeks imo.
Ryan Kim
Have you tried looking at the state-specific forum on H&R Block's website? Sometimes there are known issues with specific states that they post about there. Last year there was a glitch with New York state returns that was causing random rejections. Also, might be worth calling H&R Block support directly. Their free version does include support for state filing issues - most people don't realize this. The number should be in your account under "Help" or "Contact Us".
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Zoe Walker
ā¢H&R Block's support isn't great in my experience. I called them last year with a similar issue and waited 1.5 hours just to have them tell me to "try again tomorrow" which didn't solve anything. They just read from scripts and don't have access to the actual state rejection reasons.
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Ryan Kim
ā¢That's surprising to hear. I've had decent experiences with their phone support, but I guess it depends on who you get and maybe the time of year. You're right that early April is probably their busiest time so support quality might drop. An alternative is to try their live chat support instead of phone. The wait times are usually much shorter and you can get a transcript of the conversation which is helpful when following their instructions.
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Elijah Brown
Have you tried using a different tax software? Sometimes the issue is with how one particular tax program formats the submission. I switched from H&R Block to FreeTaxUSA after having similar problems and my return went through fine. Most tax programs will let you import your info from a PDF of your H&R Block return, so you don't have to start completely from scratch. Might be worth trying if nothing else works!
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Maria Gonzalez
ā¢I second FreeTaxUSA! Had the exact same issue with H&R Block last year. Their state returns have weird formatting issues sometimes. FreeTaxUSA is super cheap for state returns too (like $15 I think?).
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