Will my wife get my full $3100 Social Security benefit as a survivor if I die after reaching FRA?
My wife started collecting Social Security at 62 (she's now 68). I'm turning 65 next month and planning to wait until my full retirement age of 66 and 10 months to claim my benefits, which will be about $3,100 per month. We're trying to plan for the future and I keep wondering - if I pass away after I've reached my FRA and started collecting, would my wife automatically receive my full $3,100 monthly benefit as a survivor benefit? Or would she get some reduced amount because she started her own benefits early? I've read conflicting information online and want to make sure we understand what she'd actually receive if something happened to me.
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QuantumQueen
If you pass away after claiming your retirement benefits, your wife would be eligible for survivor benefits equal to 100% of what you were receiving at the time of your death. Since she's already over her FRA (which would be 66 for her birth year), she'd get your full $3,100 benefit IF that amount is higher than what she's currently receiving on her own record. She would NOT receive both benefits - just the higher of the two amounts.
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Mateo Martinez
•Thank you for clarifying! So she would basically switch from her current benefit to my higher amount. That's a relief to know.
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Aisha Rahman
I WENT THROUGH THIS EXACT SITUATION! My husband passed last year and I had taken my SS at 62 (BIG MISTAKE in hindsight). The SSA office told me I'd get a reduced survivor benefit because I took early retirement!!! Had to fight with them for THREE MONTHS before a supervisor finally corrected it. Print out the rules from their website and TAKE IT WITH YOU when you go!! They get this wrong all the time!!!
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Mateo Martinez
•Oh my gosh, that's awful! I'm so sorry you had to deal with that while grieving. Thank you for the warning - I'll definitely make sure we have documentation ready if that time comes.
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Ethan Wilson
To add some more technical details: When your wife reaches her full retirement age (which she already has at 68), she becomes eligible for unreduced survivor benefits regardless of when she started her own retirement benefits. The early filing reduction only applies if someone claims survivor benefits before their own FRA. Since she'd be applying for survivor benefits after her FRA, she would receive 100% of your benefit amount. Something else to consider - if you can afford to delay claiming beyond your FRA to age 70, your benefit would increase by about 8% per year (so potentially up to around $4,050/month). This increased amount would then become her survivor benefit if you predecease her.
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Mateo Martinez
•That's really helpful information. I hadn't considered delaying past my FRA to 70, but that's something to think about given the survivor benefit implications. We'll need to look at our overall financial situation to see if that's feasible.
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Yuki Sato
•my dad did this! waited till 70 so mom would get more when he died. she got an extra $800/month for 15 years after he passed. smart planning
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Carmen Flores
Don't forget she'll also get a one-time death benefit of $255 when you pass away. Not much but it's something. Also make sure you both have your direct deposit information up to date with SSA and that she has online access to her MySocialSecurity account. Makes the whole survivor benefit transition process much easier.
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Mateo Martinez
•Good point about the MySocialSecurity account. My wife doesn't have one set up yet - we'll take care of that right away.
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Andre Dubois
I tried calling SSA about a similar question last month and spent THREE HOURS on hold only to get disconnected! Then tried again next day and waited another hour. So frustrating when you're trying to plan for something this important!
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CyberSamurai
•I had the same issue trying to get survivor benefit info! After multiple disconnected calls, I finally used this service called Claimyr that got me through to a real SSA agent in under 10 minutes. Saved me hours of frustration. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU if you want to check it out. Their website is claimyr.com - totally worth it for important benefit questions that really need a real agent's answer.
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Mateo Martinez
•Thanks for the suggestion. I might try that service if I can't get through. The phone wait times are ridiculous these days.
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Yuki Sato
my husband died 3 yrs ago i was already 67 when he died i got his full benefit no problem but had to bring death certificate marriage certificate and my ID to the office they dont do it automatically u have to apply
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Mateo Martinez
•That's good to know - thank you for sharing your experience. I'll make sure my wife knows what documents she would need.
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QuantumQueen
One additional point: When planning for survivor benefits, remember that your wife will need to actually apply for them - they don't automatically switch over. She would need to contact Social Security within 30 days of your passing to avoid any gaps in payment. And as someone else mentioned, she'll need your death certificate, marriage certificate, and her ID to complete the application. Also, your current benefit estimates from SSA might change slightly before you actually retire, so keep that in mind when planning.
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Mateo Martinez
•Thank you for this additional information. I'll make sure we keep our SS statements updated so we have the most accurate estimates.
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Aisha Rahman
ALSO!!! Please keep copies of your annual Social Security statements somewhere your wife can find them!!! My husband's final benefit amount was $75 less per month than what he told me it would be and I had no way to verify because I couldn't find his statements anywhere. SSA just told me to accept what they calculated!!!
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Ethan Wilson
•This is excellent advice. I recommend creating a dedicated folder (physical or digital) with all important Social Security documents, benefit statements, and even screenshots of your MySocialSecurity account information. Label it clearly and ensure your spouse knows where to find it.
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Mateo Martinez
•That's a great suggestion - I'll create a folder this weekend with all our SS statements and benefit information. Better to be organized now than leave my wife struggling to find documents later.
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Zara Shah
I'm new to this community but wanted to share something I learned when helping my parents with their Social Security planning. Make sure to also consider that if your wife is still working when you pass away, there are earnings limits that could affect her survivor benefits if she's under her full retirement age at that time. Since she's already 68, this won't be an issue for her, but it's something others in similar situations should be aware of. Also, I'd recommend getting a written estimate from Social Security about what her survivor benefit would be - sometimes the online calculators don't account for all the nuances of your specific situation.
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Sadie Benitez
•Welcome to the community! That's really valuable information about the earnings limits - even though it doesn't apply to my wife's situation, I'm sure others reading this will find it helpful. Getting a written estimate is a great idea too. I've been relying on the online tools but you're right that they might not capture all the specifics. Did you find that the SSA office was able to provide a detailed written projection, or did you have to request it through their website?
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Yara Nassar
•Welcome to the community, Zara! Thanks for bringing up the earnings limits - that's definitely something people need to know about. For the written estimate, I actually had to go to the local SSA office in person. The online tools gave me general numbers, but when I sat down with an agent, they were able to pull up the exact benefit calculations and print out a detailed projection that showed exactly what my wife would receive as a survivor benefit. It took about 45 minutes but was totally worth it for the peace of mind. The agent also caught a small error in my earnings record that could have affected the final benefit amount.
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Amara Okonkwo
As someone who recently went through Social Security planning with my elderly parents, I wanted to add that it's also worth considering the tax implications of survivor benefits. Your wife's survivor benefit would be subject to the same federal income tax rules as regular Social Security benefits - so if her total income (including the survivor benefit) exceeds certain thresholds, up to 85% of the benefit could be taxable. Since she'd be receiving a higher monthly amount ($3,100 vs whatever she's getting now), this might push her into a higher tax bracket. It's something to factor into your overall financial planning. Also, make sure she knows that Medicare premiums are typically deducted directly from Social Security payments, so the actual amount she receives might be slightly less than the gross benefit amount.
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Dmitry Petrov
•That's a really important point about taxes that I hadn't fully considered! You're absolutely right that jumping from her current benefit to my $3,100 could have significant tax implications. We'll definitely need to factor that into our planning and maybe talk to our tax preparer about strategies to minimize the impact. The Medicare premium deduction is also good to know - I always forget that those come out automatically. Thanks for thinking through all these practical details that can make a real difference in the actual amount she'd receive each month.
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Sunny Wang
As a newcomer to this community, I wanted to share something I learned recently that might be helpful for your situation. When my aunt was dealing with survivor benefits, she discovered that Social Security has a "deemed filing" rule that can be confusing. Since your wife has already filed for her own retirement benefits, when she becomes eligible for survivor benefits, she'll automatically be deemed to have filed for both - but she'll only receive the higher amount, not both. The good news is that since she's already past her FRA, there won't be any reduction to the survivor benefit due to early filing. One thing that really helped my aunt was creating a timeline document showing when each benefit started and what the projected survivor benefit would be, which made it much easier when she had to meet with SSA later. Also, don't forget that if you have any delayed retirement credits by waiting past your FRA, those will increase the survivor benefit amount too!
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Yuki Tanaka
•Welcome to the community, Sunny! That's really helpful information about the deemed filing rule - I hadn't heard that term before but it makes sense. Creating a timeline document is a brilliant idea. I think I'll put together something similar that shows our current benefits, projected survivor benefits, and all the key dates and requirements. It would definitely make things easier for my wife if she ever needs to reference everything quickly. The point about delayed retirement credits is also good to remember - if I do decide to wait until 70, those credits would make the survivor benefit even more valuable for her long-term security.
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