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Social Security survivor benefits in limbo during 18th birthday month - check or direct deposit?

My son is receiving survivor benefits and turning 18 next week during his last semester of high school. SSA just extended his benefits until graduation in June (thank goodness). But we've hit this weird limbo period that's causing payment confusion. Here's the issue: When I called SSA about changing the payment method, they told me they won't accept his bank account info until AFTER he turns 18, but they also said they won't deposit his May payment into my account anymore since he's about to be 18. When I checked the MySocialSecurity portal, I noticed they've already removed him from my custodial account even though he can't create his own account yet since he's still 17. So what happens to his May payment? Will they mail a paper check? Has anyone dealt with this bizarre transition month situation? I'm worried his payment might get delayed or lost in this bureaucratic black hole.

Yes, they'll send a paper check for that transition month. The same thing happened with my nephew last year. SSA has this weird gap where they treat the child as no longer under the parent's financial control but not yet able to manage their own benefits. The check should arrive around the same time the direct deposit would have, addressed to your son. Make sure your mailing address is current in the system!

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Thank you! That's a relief to hear. Did your nephew have any issues depositing the check once it arrived? Our address is current, so hopefully there won't be any problems with delivery.

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they will prolly send a check but when my daughter turned 18 last yr they just stopped paying for 2 months!!! had to go to the office and spend 3 hours fixing it. make sure u call them the day after his bday to confirm everything is set up right

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Oh no, that sounds stressful! I'll definitely call them right after his birthday. Did they eventually pay the missing months or was it a battle to get that resolved?

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This is a common issue with survivor benefits during the transition to age 18 while still in school. Here's what typically happens: 1. For the month of the 18th birthday, SSA will issue a paper check made out to your son. 2. The day after his 18th birthday, he should create his own my Social Security account and set up direct deposit for his own bank account. 3. If he doesn't have a bank account yet, he should open one before his birthday so the information is ready. 4. The benefits will continue uninterrupted until graduation as long as he's still attending school full-time. Make sure he brings his ID when depositing the check, as some banks have policies about depositing government checks for new 18-year-olds.

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This is extremely helpful - thank you! He does have his own bank account already, so that's fortunate. Should he contact SSA himself after his birthday, or should I still be the one making that call since the extension is tied to my original account?

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I went through this EXACT situation with my daughter last year! So frustrated with how SSA handles this transition. We ended up getting a paper check that sat at the post office for 2 weeks because it was sent certified mail and nobody told us! Then when my daughter tried to deposit it, the bank gave her a hard time because she had just turned 18 and they weren't familiar with survivor benefit checks. Have your son call SSA himself the day after his birthday. I found a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that helped us actually get through to a real person at SSA without waiting hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. After that nightmare month, everything went smoothly with direct deposit.

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Certified mail?! Good to know - I'll keep an eye out for that. And thanks for the Claimyr suggestion. Those hold times with SSA are absolutely brutal, so anything that helps get through to a real person would be worth it. I'll check out that video.

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when my kid turned 18 he just kept getting direct deposit no problems at all. but we had signed him up for his own account at 17 and they let us do it with no issues. maybe try again with a different agent??? sometimes they don't know there own rules lol

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Totally agree about the inconsistency between agents! I got 3 different answers about my survivor benefits from 3 different people at SSA. It's so confusing.

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Why are they extending benefits until graduation? I thought survivor benefits ALWAYS ended at 18 no matter what? My daughter's got cut off on her 18th birthday even though she was still in high school. Did the rules change?

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Survivor benefits can continue until age 19 if the child is still a full-time student in elementary or secondary education (high school). This has been the rule for many years. If your daughter was still in high school when she turned 18, you should have received Form SSA-1372 (Student's Statement Regarding School Attendance) to complete and return. If her benefits were terminated incorrectly, you may be able to get them reinstated retroactively by contacting SSA with proof of school attendance.

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Just wanted to say congrats on your son graduating soon! Managing these benefits is so stressful but it sounds like you're really on top of things. 👏

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Thank you! It's definitely been a journey navigating all of this. The graduation is exciting but bittersweet with everything we've been through.

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One more important thing - once your son turns 18, he'll need to complete Form SSA-1372 to verify his student status for the remaining benefits through graduation. Sometimes SSA sends this automatically, but often they don't. You can download it from the SSA website and have the school certify his enrollment status. This prevents any interruption for his May-June benefits.

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Oh! We already submitted that form back in March when they extended the benefits. Should he have to fill out another one after turning 18, or was that one submission sufficient for the extension through graduation?

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The March submission should be sufficient. The form is valid for the entire period certified by the school. Just keep a copy of the completed form in case there are any questions about his continuing eligibility.

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good luck with the check my son's took forever to come and we kept calling and they said be patient but then finally we had to go to the office and found out they had the wrong address even tho nothing changed!! make sure they have everything right in the system

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