One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet is that you might want to consider having your tax preparer or accountant help you calculate the right withholding percentage before you submit the W-4V form. Since you mentioned your accountant already flagged the underpayment issue, they probably have all your income details and can run scenarios to see which percentage (7%, 10%, 12%, or 22%) gets you closest to breaking even. It might be worth the consultation fee to avoid another big surprise next year. Also, keep in mind that if your pension or other income changes during the year, you may need to adjust your withholding accordingly.

As someone new to this community, I want to thank everyone for such detailed and helpful responses! I'm in a similar situation - just started receiving SS benefits and completely overlooked the tax withholding aspect. Reading through all these comments has been incredibly educational. A few things I'm taking away: 1) The W-4V form with only 4 percentage options (7%, 10%, 12%, 22%), 2) The 1-2 month processing delay, 3) The importance of considering your total income picture, and 4) That certified mail or hand delivery might be the safest way to submit. I'm definitely going to use the IRS Withholding Estimator tool and possibly consult with a tax professional before choosing my percentage. This thread should honestly be pinned as a resource for new SS recipients!

I'm really sorry you're going through such a difficult situation after 32 years of marriage. Based on all the helpful responses here, it sounds like you have a much clearer picture now about the Social Security aspects of your situation. Just to summarize what I'm understanding: since your husband is already collecting his retirement benefits, you won't need to wait 2 years after your divorce is finalized to claim divorced spouse benefits. The main timing factor for you is reaching age 62, which gives you time to get the divorce completed without worrying about that waiting period. One thing I'd suggest is keeping a written record of all this information you've gathered here, along with the key points to discuss when you do speak with SSA directly. It might also be worth checking if your local Social Security office offers any informational sessions about retirement planning - sometimes hearing this information in person can help clarify any remaining questions. You're handling a lot right now, but it's clear you're approaching this thoughtfully and asking the right questions. That preparation will really help you make the best decisions for your financial future. Take things one step at a time, and don't hesitate to reach out for professional guidance when you need it.

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this difficult situation after such a long marriage. Reading through all the responses here, it's clear you've gotten excellent advice about the Social Security timing rules. I wanted to add one practical tip that might help with your planning process. Since you have about 2 years before you turn 62, this could be a good time to create a "Social Security file" where you keep all the relevant documents and information in one place. Include things like your Social Security Statement (which you can get online at ssa.gov), your marriage certificate, and eventually your divorce decree. Also consider keeping notes about your ex-husband's work history and when he started collecting benefits - SSA may ask about these details when you apply. You might also want to set a reminder for yourself to check back on any rule changes as you get closer to 62. While the fundamentals are unlikely to change, sometimes there are updates to the application process or documentation requirements. The fact that you're thinking through all these details now shows you're really on top of your planning. After 32 years of marriage, you deserve to feel confident about your financial security going forward. Hang in there - you're asking all the right questions and gathering the information you need to make good decisions for your future.

I wanted to add something that might be helpful for your planning - make sure you understand how your reduced Social Security benefits will be calculated at 63. Since your full retirement age is 67, taking benefits at 63 means you'll receive about 75% of your full benefit amount (roughly a 25% reduction). This reduction is permanent, but as others mentioned, any money withheld due to exceeding the earnings limit will be recredited to you after you reach FRA. Also, I'd suggest running some scenarios with the SSA's online calculators or speaking with a financial planner who understands military survivor benefits. The combination of guaranteed DIC income plus reduced early SS benefits might actually work out better for your situation than waiting, especially considering your family health history concerns. Just make sure you factor in healthcare costs too - Medicare doesn't start until 65, so you'll need coverage for those two years between retiring at 63 and Medicare eligibility.

Just wanted to add my experience as someone who went through this exact situation two years ago. I'm a military widow receiving DIC ($1,800/month at the time) and started collecting Social Security at 62. The DIC absolutely does NOT count toward your earnings limit - I can confirm this from personal experience. What I found really helpful was calling SSA before I actually filed for benefits to discuss my specific situation. They walked me through exactly how the earnings test works and confirmed that only my potential part-time work income would count toward the $22,320 limit. One thing that surprised me was how straightforward the whole process was once I had all my documentation together. I brought my DIC award letter to my SSA appointment and they noted it in my file but explained it was completely separate from the earnings calculation. The peace of mind of having that guaranteed DIC income really did make taking early SS at a reduced rate feel like the right choice for me. I hope your planning goes smoothly - this community is great for getting real experiences from people who've actually navigated these waters!

I went through this exact situation about 18 months ago when I switched from my deceased wife's survivor benefits to my own retirement benefits at age 66. My payment date stayed exactly the same (4th Wednesday), which was a huge relief since I had all my bills set up around that schedule. However, I did experience the processing gap that several others have mentioned - there was about a 6-week period between my last survivor payment and my first retirement payment. One thing I learned that might help: when I called to make the switch, the representative told me they could provide an estimated timeline for when my first retirement payment would be processed. This helped me plan financially for the gap. I also made sure to ask for email confirmation of my application, which included a note that my payment date would remain unchanged. The whole process took about 2 months from application to receiving my first retirement payment, but knowing what to expect made it much less stressful. My advice would be to definitely call them, get everything documented in writing, and make sure you have enough savings to cover 6-8 weeks of expenses just in case there are any processing delays.

Based on all these experiences shared here, it sounds like the official SSA policy is that your payment date should remain the same when switching from survivor to retirement benefits, but there's definitely a risk of administrative errors during the transition. The most consistent advice seems to be: 1) Specifically ask the SSA representative to document that your payment date will stay the 3rd Wednesday, 2) Get written confirmation of this in your approval letter, and 3) Budget for a potential 6-8 week gap between your last survivor payment and first retirement payment. It's frustrating that SSA doesn't seem to clearly communicate these potential delays upfront, but at least knowing what to expect helps with planning. Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences - this kind of practical advice is so much more valuable than just the official policy statements!

As a newcomer to this community, I want to add my voice to the chorus of gratitude for this incredibly comprehensive discussion! I'm 68 and have been collecting Social Security for a couple of years, but I've been turning down consulting opportunities because I was convinced they would somehow reduce my benefits. After reading through everyone's detailed explanations, I now realize I've been leaving money on the table for no reason! The distinction between the earnings test (which stops at FRA) and benefit taxation (which is income-based) was the key insight I was missing. Like so many others here, I had been conflating these two completely separate issues. What really sealed my understanding was seeing multiple people confirm from their own real-world experiences that you can truly earn unlimited amounts after FRA without any benefit reduction. The clarification about the "2025 changes" being routine threshold adjustments for people under FRA also explains why I kept hearing conflicting information from friends. I'm particularly grateful for the practical tips about record-keeping and the heads-up about Medicare IRMAA - these are considerations I hadn't even thought about. This community's willingness to share both official knowledge and personal experiences creates such a valuable learning environment. I'm already reaching out to some former clients about potential projects. Thank you all for helping me realize I can pursue these opportunities with confidence!

As a newcomer to this community, I want to thank everyone for this incredibly helpful and detailed discussion! I'm 65 and just reached my FRA a couple of months ago, and I've been hesitant to accept some freelance writing opportunities because I was worried they might impact my Social Security benefits. Reading through all of these explanations has been such a relief - it's now completely clear that there's no earnings limit whatsoever once you reach your Full Retirement Age! What I found most valuable was how everyone carefully separated the earnings test (which ends at FRA) from the taxation of benefits (which is a different issue based on total income). I had been mixing these up completely! The explanation about the "2025 changes" confusion being related to routine annual threshold adjustments for people under FRA also makes perfect sense - that's probably what I heard at my local senior center that got me worried. I'm also really grateful for the practical advice about keeping good records for tax purposes and the warning about Medicare IRMAA implications. These are things I never would have considered on my own. The personal stories from people who have actually worked after reaching FRA are so much more reassuring than trying to decipher government websites alone. This discussion has given me the confidence to move forward with those freelance opportunities. Thank you all for creating such a supportive and knowledgeable community - I'm so glad I found this resource!