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Social Security spousal benefits application - worried about sending original marriage certificate

I'm planning to apply for Social Security spousal benefits next month since my husband started collecting his retirement last year. I've been looking at the online application process, but I'm really concerned about the documentation requirements. Do I have to mail my original marriage certificate to the SSA when applying online? We only have one official copy from 1988, and I'm terrified of sending it through the mail and never seeing it again! Is it better to just make an appointment and apply in person at my local office? If I go that route, do they keep the original documents or just make copies while I'm there? Has anyone gone through this process recently who can share their experience? I'm worried about long wait times at the office, but also don't want to risk losing our only marriage certificate.

Melissa Lin

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You definitely don't need to mail original documents when applying for spousal benefits online! The SSA website allows you to start the application online, but you'll need to either upload digital copies of your documents or take the originals to your local office. They'll make certified copies and return the originals to you right away. I applied for spousal benefits last year and started online, then brought my documents to the local office. They scanned everything while I waited and gave the originals back immediately. Just make sure to bring your birth certificate, marriage certificate, and your husband's SSN.

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Effie Alexander

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Oh thank goodness! That makes me feel so much better. Did you have to wait long at the office, or did you make an appointment first? I've heard horror stories about the wait times.

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Lydia Santiago

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i did mine totally online last yr! u dont mail anything they tell u to keep ur originals and just bring them to office after u submit online form. they look at them and give right back no problem

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Effie Alexander

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Thank you for sharing your experience! That's reassuring to hear they don't keep the originals.

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Romeo Quest

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DO NOT MAIL ORIGINALS!!! I did that with my birth certificate in 2019 and NEVER got it back despite calling 50+ times!!! Social Security is a DISASTER with documents. Either upload scans or take to local office IN PERSON. Don't trust the mail system with anything valuable!!! Also make COPIES of EVERYTHING before you give them ANYTHING. The people working there are nice but the system loses things constantly.

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Effie Alexander

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Oh no, that's exactly what I was afraid of! I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'll definitely make copies of everything before I go.

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Val Rossi

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My wife just went through this last month. Just take your original marriage certificate to the local office - they'll scan it while you wait and give it right back. No need to worry! They don't keep original documents anymore.

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Eve Freeman

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I had the same concern when I applied for spousal benefits! The best approach is to use the online application to start the process but don't submit any original documents by mail. After you submit the online application, you'll get a confirmation with a list of documents needed. The challenge is getting an actual appointment at your local SSA office - they're still backlogged in many areas. When I tried calling for an appointment, I spent hours on hold only to get disconnected multiple times. So frustrating! I ended up using a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an actual SSA agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a good video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. The agent set up my in-person appointment where I brought my documents, they scanned them while I waited, and handed them right back. Definitely worth it to avoid the endless hold times when you're trying to schedule your appointment.

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Effie Alexander

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Thank you for the suggestion! I've never heard of that service. Getting through to someone on the phone has been impossible - I'll check out that link.

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Clarissa Flair

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I'm an SSA claims specialist and want to provide some clarity on this common concern: 1. Never mail original documents unless specifically requested to do so by an SSA employee (which is rare). 2. For spousal benefits applications, here's the process: - Start your application online at ssa.gov - You'll see a list of required documents (typically marriage certificate, birth certificate, ID) - You have three options for submitting documents: a) Upload secure digital copies through the online portal b) Take originals to your local office (they scan while you wait) c) In some cases, mail copies (not originals) if specifically instructed 3. The most efficient method is to complete the online application and then schedule an in-person appointment to present your original documents. We scan them while you wait and immediately return them. 4. If you're concerned about appointment availability, call your local office early in the morning (first 30 minutes they're open) for the best chance of getting through. Hope this helps clarify the process!

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Effie Alexander

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Thank you so much for such clear information! I really appreciate it. I'll start my application online and then try to get an appointment. It's so reassuring to know they'll scan and return the documents while I wait.

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Caden Turner

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I just wanted to say I'm going through this exact thing right now! The stress is real! My husband started taking his SS retirement in January and I'm doing the spousal benefit thing too. I was also worried about my marriage certificate since we got married in another state in 1992 and it would be a huge hassle to get another copy. I started my application online last week but haven't finished it yet because I'm confused about some of the questions. Especially the one about "when do you want benefits to begin" - doesn't it just start when I apply? Why do they ask that?

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Clarissa Flair

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Regarding your question about "when do you want benefits to begin" - this is actually an important choice. You can choose to have benefits start: 1. As soon as you're eligible (usually the month you apply) 2. At a specific future date 3. Retroactively for up to 6 months before your application date (if you were already eligible during that time) Many people don't realize they can sometimes get up to 6 months of retroactive spousal benefits if they were already eligible (usually meaning they were already at full retirement age or caring for a child under 16). This retroactive option isn't available for retirement benefits, but it is for spousal benefits in many cases.

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Lydia Santiago

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btw make sure ur husband knows ur applying for spousal benefits cuz they might contact him to verify some info

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Melissa Lin

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One more thing to consider - if you're eligible for both your own retirement benefits and spousal benefits, be aware that the SSA will pay you whichever amount is higher, not both. A lot of people don't realize that. If your own work record would provide a higher benefit than the spousal benefit (which is maximum 50% of your husband's FRA benefit), then applying for spousal benefits won't increase your payment.

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Effie Alexander

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That's good to know! My own benefit would be much smaller since I stayed home with our kids for many years, so the spousal benefit should be higher. I just want to make sure I do everything right with the application process.

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