Confused about survivor benefits now vs. my own Social Security at 70 - can I get both?
I just turned 66 (my FRA) and lost my husband of 44 years in May. I'm about to receive my first survivor benefit payment this month, but I'm planning to keep working until I'm 70 before claiming my own Social Security retirement. I'm really confused about what happens then - when I turn 70, can I switch from survivor benefits to my own retirement benefit? Will I be able to collect my own Social Security plus half of my husband's? I've gotten different answers from friends and I'm not sure what's right. The SSA website is so confusing and I can't get through on the phone!
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Anastasia Fedorov
First, I'm very sorry for your loss. You're making a smart decision by waiting until 70 to claim your own retirement benefits. To answer your question directly: at 70, you can switch from survivor benefits to your own retirement benefits IF your own benefit will be higher than what you're receiving as a survivor. However, you cannot receive both your own benefit AND half of your husband's - that's a common misconception. You'll receive whichever is higher: either your own benefit OR your survivor benefit (which is up to 100% of what your husband was receiving or would have received at his FRA, not half).
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Diego Vargas
AuthorThank you for explaining this. So I'll get the survivor benefits now, and then at 70 I can switch to my own SS if it's higher? But not both at the same time? That's disappointing, my neighbor said I could get both.
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StarStrider
ur neighbor is wrong, social security NEVER lets u collect both ur own AND survivor at same time. they give u whichever is bigger. thats it.
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Diego Vargas
AuthorOh I see. That makes sense but it's not what I was hoping for. Thanks for making it clear.
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Sean Doyle
I went through THE EXACT SAME THING last year!!! My husband passed after 38 years married and I started survivor benefits at my FRA (66 and 2 months). I was also told by my sister that I could collect BOTH benefits - my own retirement AND my husband's!! When I finally got through to SSA (took 3 days of calling!!!), they told me that's COMPLETELY WRONG. You get whichever is HIGHER - your survivor benefit OR your retirement benefit. NOT BOTH!!!!
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Zara Rashid
This happened to my mom too. There's so much misinformation out there about SS benefits.
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Luca Romano
You're absolutely making the right move by claiming survivor benefits at your FRA and then switching to your own retirement benefit at 70. This strategy allows you to receive 100% of your husband's benefit now while your own benefit grows by 8% per year from 66-70 (for a total of 32% increase). When you reach 70, SSA will automatically review both amounts and pay you the higher of the two. You won't need to make a special request. If your own benefit at 70 exceeds your survivor benefit, they'll switch you. If not, you'll continue receiving the survivor benefit. One important note: If you're working while receiving survivor benefits before your FRA, you would have been subject to the earnings test (where benefits are reduced if you earn above certain thresholds). But since you're at your FRA now, you can earn any amount without reduction of your survivor benefits.
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Diego Vargas
AuthorThis is very helpful, thank you! I didn't realize they'd automatically review and switch me to the higher benefit. Will they notify me when they do this review at age 70?
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Luca Romano
They should send you a notice if they're switching your benefit type, but honestly, the SSA isn't always consistent with their communications. I recommend calling them when you approach 70 to confirm they're reviewing your case for the potential switch. You can also check your MySocialSecurity account online, as it will show which benefit type you're receiving.
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Nia Jackson
I had to help my mom with this exact situation last year. We spent WEEKS trying to get through to someone at Social Security to confirm her benefits would switch correctly at 70. Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got us through to an agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours or getting disconnected. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent confirmed that yes, at 70, they'll automatically review and pay the higher benefit amount. In my mom's case, her own retirement benefit at 70 ended up being about $580 more monthly than her survivor benefit, so it was definitely worth the wait.
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Diego Vargas
AuthorThank you for sharing this! I've been trying to get through to SS for weeks with no luck. I'll check out that service. $580 more per month is significant - I hope my own benefit will be higher than the survivor benefit too.
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StarStrider
just remember that whatever benefit ur getting will have medicare Part B premium taken out when u turn 65. that surprised my aunt, her check went down by like $175 when that kicked in
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Mateo Hernandez
That's not exactly right. Medicare premiums are only automatically deducted if you're receiving Social Security benefits when you start Medicare. If you're delaying SS benefits until 70 but enroll in Medicare at 65, you'll get billed directly for the premiums until your SS benefits begin.
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Zara Rashid
My condolences on losing your husband. It's such a difficult time emotionally, and then having to figure out all this benefit stuff makes it even harder. When my dad passed, my mom was so confused about all of this too.
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Sean Doyle
WHATEVER YOU DO make sure you keep MULTIPLE COPIES of your husband's death certificate!!! SS needed one copy, then the pension people needed one, then insurance needed one, then the BANK needed one...I ended up having to order MORE certificates because everyone wanted an original copy and some places KEPT THEM instead of returning them to me!!! Get AT LEAST 10 copies!!!
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Diego Vargas
AuthorThat's good advice - I already ran into this problem with the bank and our investment company both wanting original copies. I ordered extras but I'm going through them quickly.
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Mateo Hernandez
I work with retirees, and I find many people confuse spousal benefits and survivor benefits. With spousal benefits (when both spouses are alive), you can get up to 50% of your spouse's FRA benefit. With survivor benefits (after a spouse dies), you can get up to 100% of what they were receiving. The strategy you're using - taking survivor benefits at your FRA and switching to your own at 70 - is optimal if your own benefit at 70 will exceed your survivor benefit. The SSA should automatically pay the higher amount, but definitely verify this is happening correctly when you reach 70.
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Diego Vargas
Thank you all for the helpful information. I think I understand now - I'll receive my survivor benefits until 70, and then either continue with those OR switch to my own retirement benefits, whichever is higher. I won't get both. I've been planning my retirement budget based on getting both, so I'll need to rethink some things. I appreciate all the advice about contacting SSA too - I'll try that Claimyr service since I still have some questions I'd like to ask an agent directly.
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Bruno Simmons
I'm so sorry for your loss, Diego. It sounds like you've gotten some great clarification here from the community. Just wanted to add one more piece of advice - when you do reach 70 and want to confirm everything is switching correctly, you might also consider visiting your local Social Security office in person if phone calls aren't working out. Sometimes face-to-face conversations can be more effective, and you can bring documents with you if needed. Also, keep records of all your communications with SSA (dates, times, names of representatives you speak with) in case there are any issues later. The strategy you're using is definitely the right one financially - you're maximizing your benefits by letting your own retirement benefit grow those extra 4 years while receiving the survivor benefits now.
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Sophia Carter
I'm so sorry for your loss, Diego. Losing your spouse after so many years together is incredibly difficult, and having to figure out Social Security benefits on top of everything else must feel overwhelming. You've received excellent advice from this community, and I want to reinforce that you're making the absolutely right financial decision. Your strategy of taking survivor benefits now while letting your own retirement benefit grow until 70 is textbook optimal planning. One thing I'd like to add that might help with your long-term planning: once you do switch to your own retirement benefit at 70 (if it's higher), that higher monthly amount will be your base for any future cost-of-living adjustments (COLAs). So not only will you get the maximum benefit from delayed retirement credits, but all future increases will be calculated on that higher amount too. Also, I know you mentioned the SSA website being confusing - you might find it helpful to use the retirement estimator tool on ssa.gov. It can give you a rough projection of what your benefit would be at 70, which will help you compare it to your current survivor benefit amount. Hang in there, and don't hesitate to ask if you have more questions as you approach 70. This community is really supportive and knowledgeable.
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Anastasia Romanov
That's a really excellent point about future COLAs being calculated on the higher benefit amount, Sophia! I hadn't thought about that long-term impact. It's encouraging to know that waiting until 70 not only maximizes my initial benefit but also means all future cost-of-living increases will be based on that higher amount. I'll definitely check out the retirement estimator tool on the SSA website - having a rough projection of my benefit at 70 would really help me compare it to my current survivor benefit and plan my budget better. Thank you for that suggestion and for the continued encouragement. This community has been such a source of both practical information and emotional support during this difficult transition.
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