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Social Security survivor benefits at 60 vs. my own retirement - confused about widow options

I lost my husband of 32 years last December and I'm trying to figure out my Social Security options as I approach 60. I understand I can claim survivor benefits at 60, but I'm confused about whether I can choose between his benefits or my own at that age. Can I actually start collecting my own retirement at 60 instead of his? Or am I required to take the survivor benefits first? I've worked most of my life but took several years off to raise our children, so my earnings record isn't as strong as his was. Someone at church told me I have to wait until 62 for my own benefits no matter what. The SS website is so confusing on this point! Any clarity would be greatly appreciated!

Sara Unger

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You have it almost right, but there's an important distinction. At age 60, you ONLY qualify for survivor benefits (at a reduced rate). You cannot take your own retirement benefits until 62 at the earliest. However, the good news is that you can employ a strategy: take reduced survivor benefits at 60, then switch to your own retirement benefit later if it would be higher (at 62, FRA, or even age 70 if you want maximum growth). This is one of the few remaining 'switch' strategies in Social Security.

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Tyler Murphy

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Thank you! So I have no choice at 60 - it has to be the survivor benefit. That makes sense now. If I take his reduced benefit at 60, and then switch to my own at my full retirement age (which is 67), would my own benefit still grow to its full amount? Or would it also be reduced because I took his early?

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I went through this EXACT situation last year!!! When I turned 60, I could ONLY get my late husband's benefit (and at a reduced amount - about 71.5% of what he would've gotten). You absolutely CANNOT get your own SS until 62 minimum. And let me tell you, the SS phone lines are IMPOSSIBLE to get through - took me 9 calls and 3 weeks to finally talk to someone who could explain it all to me!

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Freya Ross

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Was the reduced survivor benefit still worth taking at 60? I'm in a similar boat and trying to decide if I should just wait until I reach my full retirement age for the full survivor amount.

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Leslie Parker

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Sergio Neal

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Did they charge you for that? Seems like something that should be free. The govt should fix their phone systems instead of making us pay extra just to talk to someone.

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Leslie Parker

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Yes, there is a fee, but considering I had already spent hours trying to get through and kept getting disconnected, it was worth it to me. I agree the system should work better, but when you need answers quickly about something as important as widow benefits, it's nice to have options.

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The church person was correct. Survivor benefits can begin at 60 (or 50 if disabled), but your OWN retirement benefits cannot start until 62 at the earliest. This is a common point of confusion. What's powerful about your situation is that unlike regular retirement benefits where you must choose one filing strategy, as a widow you have the unique ability to separate your survivor claim from your own retirement claim. This means you could: 1. Take reduced survivor benefits at 60 2. Allow your own retirement benefit to grow until 70 if you wish 3. Switch to your own benefit whenever it exceeds the survivor benefit Or alternatively: 1. Wait to file for survivor benefits until your FRA to get 100% of your husband's benefit 2. Take your own reduced benefit at 62 3. Switch to the survivor benefit at your FRA It depends entirely on the specific benefit amounts in your case.

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Tyler Murphy

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Thank you for breaking it down so clearly. I think I understand my options better now. Is there a way to find out what the actual dollar amounts would be under different scenarios? I'd like to see the numbers before deciding when to file.

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Yes! Create a my Social Security account at ssa.gov and you can see your own estimated benefit amounts at different ages. For survivor benefit estimates, you'll need to contact SSA directly since those don't show up in your online account. Have your husband's SSN ready when you call.

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Juan Moreno

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my sister made a big mistake with this!!! she took widows benifits at 60 not realizing how much it gets reduced. she only gets like $1,400 when she would have got $2,400 if she waited till her FRA!!! talk to a financial advisor before you do ANYTHING!!!

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Sara Unger

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While waiting until FRA does give you the maximum survivor benefit, taking it early isn't always a mistake. If she lives to average life expectancy, she'll likely collect more total dollars by taking reduced benefits for those extra years. Every situation is different - it depends on financial need, health/longevity expectations, and other income sources.

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Sergio Neal

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The whole system is deliberately confusing! I swear the SSA makes these rules complicated on purpose so people mess up and get less money. When my husband died, I got so many different answers from different SSA employees. One told me I could get my own at 60, another said I had to wait. It's ridiculous how poorly trained their staff is.

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Tyler Murphy

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I've definitely found the information contradictory at times! Did you eventually figure out the right path for your situation?

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Sergio Neal

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Yes, but only after talking to THREE different agents! The rules for widows are different than regular retirement and some agents don't even know the details. I ended up taking survivor benefits at 60 because I needed the income, but I'm planning to switch to my own at 67 since I worked enough years that my benefit will be higher by then.

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Sara Unger

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Another important detail: if you're still working at age 60 and claim survivor benefits, be aware of the earnings limit. In 2025, if you earn above approximately $22,750 (the exact amount gets adjusted annually), your survivor benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above that limit. This earnings test applies until you reach your FRA.

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Tyler Murphy

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Oh! I hadn't considered that. I do plan to keep working part-time. Is that earnings limit just for W-2 income or does it include things like rental property income and investments?

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Sara Unger

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The earnings test only applies to wages from employment or net earnings from self-employment. It does NOT count investment income, rental income, pensions, annuities, capital gains, or other government benefits. Only earnings from actually working count against you.

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Freya Ross

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widow benefits r so confusing i just turned 59 and trying to figure out what to do next year. good luck to you hope u figure it out

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Get ready for a ton of confusion! My best advice is to write down all your questions before calling SSA, and INSIST on talking to someone who specializes in survivor benefits. The regular agents sometimes don't know all the widow rules.

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