Can I claim Social Security survivor benefits at 60 if husband died before reaching his FRA?
My husband passed away 2 years ago at age 58 before he started collecting Social Security. I'm currently 53 and trying to plan ahead for my financial future. I understand there are survivor benefits available, but I'm confused about whether I'll be eligible to collect them based on his record when I turn 60 if I remain unmarried. He worked his entire adult life, so he had way more than the required 40 credits. I've heard conflicting information about whether I'd get his full retirement amount or if it would be reduced because he died before reaching his full retirement age (which I think would have been 67 for him). Also, would taking survivor benefits at 60 reduce what I could get on my own record later? I earn a decent salary now but honestly have no idea what's the best strategy for maximizing my benefits. This whole situation is overwhelming, and the SSA website gives me a headache trying to figure it out. Has anyone been through something similar? Any advice would be appreciated!
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Yara Nassar
I'm sorry for your loss. Yes, you would be eligible for survivor benefits as early as age 60 if you don't remarry before then. However, there are a few important things to understand: 1. Since your husband died before reaching his FRA, your survivor benefit would be based on what he would have received at his FRA (his Primary Insurance Amount or PIA). 2. If you claim at exactly age 60, your benefit would be reduced to about 71.5% of his PIA because you'd be claiming early. The reduction is about 0.396% for each month before your FRA. 3. This is separate from your own retirement benefit. You can actually switch between benefits - many people take the reduced survivor benefit at 60, then switch to their own benefit at their FRA or age 70 if their own benefit would be higher at that point. I'd recommend requesting his earnings record from SSA to get a better estimate of what your survivor benefit might be. This will help with your financial planning.
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Connor O'Neill
•Thank you so much for this detailed explanation! I didn't realize I could potentially switch between benefits later. That's really helpful information. So if I understand correctly, even though he died before reaching his FRA, I would still receive benefits based on what he would have gotten at his FRA, just reduced if I claim early at 60? How do I go about requesting his earnings record? Do I need to make an appointment with my local office or can I do this online somehow?
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Keisha Robinson
my mom went thru same thing when my dad passed. she started taking survivor benifits at 60 and it helped alot with bills, then switched to her own SS when she hit 67. they reduce the amount if u take it at 60 but she said it was worth it cuz she needed the money then not later. just dont get married again b4 60 or u lose it!!
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Connor O'Neill
•Thanks for sharing your mom's experience! That's helpful to hear from someone who's been through it. It's good to know she found it worthwhile even with the reduction. Did she have any trouble with the process of switching from survivor benefits to her own benefits when she turned 67?
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GalaxyGuardian
You need to be very strategic with this decision as it can mean tens of thousands of dollars difference over your lifetime. Here's what I suggest: 1. Request a benefit verification from SSA for both yourself and your deceased husband's record. 2. Consider your health and expected longevity - if you anticipate living into your 80s, it might be worth delaying your own retirement benefit to age 70 to maximize it, while taking the reduced survivor benefit at 60. 3. If your own benefit at FRA will be significantly higher than the survivor benefit, then taking the survivor benefit early and switching later makes mathematical sense. For proper planning, you should really compare these three scenarios: a) Take survivor benefits at 60, switch to your own at your FRA b) Take survivor benefits at 60, switch to your own at 70 c) Take your own reduced retirement at 62, switch to survivors at your FRA The optimal strategy depends on the specific benefit amounts and your life expectancy.
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Paolo Ricci
•This is EXACTLY why no one can figure out social security!!! Why does it have to be so complicated??? The average person can't understand all these rules and strategies. And then if you call them, good luck getting through to talk to someone who knows what they're talking about!! The whole system is designed to confuse people so they get less money. 😡
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Amina Toure
I went through this exact situation last year. Trying to get through to the SSA was a NIGHTMARE - I called for weeks and either got disconnected or was on hold for hours only to be told I needed to call back with different documents. Finally, I used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an actual SSA representative in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU Once I actually spoke with someone, they confirmed I was eligible starting at 60 since I hadn't remarried. The rep went through all my options and helped me understand the different amounts I'd receive depending on when I claimed. Totally worth it to actually speak with someone who knows the rules.
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Connor O'Neill
•Thank you for the recommendation! I've been dreading the phone call process with SSA. I'll definitely check out that service when I'm ready to apply. Did they help explain the different claiming strategies to you, or did you already know what you wanted to do when you called?
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Amina Toure
•The SSA rep I spoke with explained the basic options, but honestly, I had done my research beforehand (similar to what the helpful people in this thread have shared). The rep confirmed what I already suspected - that in my case, taking the survivor benefits at 60 and then switching to my own retirement benefit at 70 would give me the most money long-term. But everyone's situation is different based on your work history and your spouse's earnings record.
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Oliver Zimmermann
Wait I'm confused about something. I thought survivor benefits were only for if your spouse was ALREADY collecting SS when they died?? My neighbor told me that his wife couldn't get anything because he hadn't filed yet when he passed. Is that wrong?
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Yara Nassar
•Your neighbor received incorrect information. Survivor benefits are available if the deceased worked long enough to qualify for Social Security, regardless of whether they had started collecting benefits before they died. As long as the deceased spouse earned enough credits (generally 40 credits, or about 10 years of work), the surviving spouse can be eligible for survivor benefits. The amount is based on what the deceased would have received at their full retirement age, not on whether they had actually started collecting benefits.
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Natasha Volkova
The SSA is DELIBERATELY making this complicated to save money!!! I had to fight for months to get my survivor benefits after my husband died. They kept claiming papers were missing or information was incorrect. Then they calculated my benefit wrong and I had to prove it to them! My advice: document EVERYTHING. Record dates, names of who you speak with, take screenshots of online submissions. Don't trust that they're giving you the correct information the first time. And definitely don't remarry before 60 if survivor benefits are important to your financial plan. And yes, you can claim survivor benefits at 60 and then switch to your own retirement later if it's higher. That's what I'm doing.
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Connor O'Neill
•I'm so sorry you had such a difficult experience. That sounds incredibly frustrating, especially during such a difficult time. Your advice about documenting everything is really good - I'll definitely keep detailed records when I start the process. Did you eventually get everything resolved correctly?
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Natasha Volkova
•Yes, finally! But only after I printed out their own regulations and brought them to an in-person appointment. The worst part was that every person I spoke with gave me different information. Stand your ground and don't let them intimidate you into accepting less than you're entitled to receive.
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Keisha Robinson
i thought u only get survivors if ur over 60? or is it different if u have kids?
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GalaxyGuardian
•You're partially right. For most situations, surviving spouses can claim at age 60 (or 50 if disabled). However, there are exceptions: 1. If you're caring for the deceased's child who is under 16 or disabled, you can claim at any age (called "mother's/father's benefits") 2. If you have your own minor or disabled children who would be eligible for benefits on the deceased's record, they can receive benefits until age 18 (19 if still in high school) or indefinitely if disabled before 22 3. Parents who were dependent on the deceased may qualify for parent's benefits So yes, having dependent children changes the eligibility age requirements.
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Yara Nassar
One thing I want to add that hasn't been mentioned: if you're still working when you claim survivor benefits before your FRA (between 60-67), be aware of the earnings limit. For 2025, if you earn more than $22,800 (approximately - this changes yearly), your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above that limit. The earnings limit no longer applies once you reach your full retirement age. This is important to factor into your decision about when to claim survivor benefits, especially if you plan to continue working full-time. Sometimes it makes more sense to wait until either you're no longer working or until your FRA to avoid this reduction.
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Connor O'Neill
•That's a really important point I hadn't considered! I'm still working full-time and making well above that amount, so it sounds like I might lose a significant portion of the survivor benefit if I claim at 60 while still working. Does this reduction in benefits continue permanently, or is it just while I'm working and under FRA?
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Yara Nassar
•Good news - the reduction is NOT permanent. The SSA essentially withholds benefits during the years you exceed the earnings limit, but once you reach your full retirement age, they recalculate and adjust your monthly payment to credit you for the months when benefits were withheld. However, this is different from the permanent reduction for claiming early (the 71.5% at age 60 I mentioned earlier). That reduction IS permanent. It gets complicated when both factors come into play, which is why it might be worth consulting with a financial advisor who specializes in Social Security claiming strategies for your specific situation.
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Paolo Ricci
In my experience the SSA makes so many mistakes!!! When my husband died, they told me I wasn't eligible for anything because I was only 48. Then years later my friend told me I should have been getting benefits for our teenage son who was still in high school! By then it was too late to claim the back payments we missed out on. I'd recommend reading everything you can and maybe even talk to a financial advisor who specializes in social security before making any decisions. Don't just rely on what one SSA rep tells you.
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