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Can I claim my late husband's Social Security at 60? Married 9 years before his death

Hi everyone, I'm trying to figure out my Social Security options as I approach 60. My husband passed away 13 years ago and we were married for 9 years before he died. I'm currently 57 and haven't remarried since his passing. I've heard different things about survivor benefits - some people say I can claim at 60, others say I needed to be married for 10 years. I'm confused about what rules apply to widow benefits versus spousal benefits from a divorce. Does anyone know if I'll qualify for his benefits when I turn 60? His benefit amount would be significantly higher than mine as I took several years off work to raise our children. I'm trying to plan ahead for retirement and this would make a huge difference in my monthly income. Thanks for any help!

Yes, you definitely qualify for widow's benefits at age 60. The 10-year marriage requirement only applies to divorced spouse benefits, not survivor benefits. For widow(er) benefits, you only need to have been married for 9 months before your spouse passed away (with some exceptions). Since you were married for 9 years, you easily meet this requirement. Just be aware that if you claim survivor benefits at exactly age 60, you'll get about 71.5% of your late husband's full retirement age benefit. If you wait until your own full retirement age (probably 67 for you), you'd get 100% of his benefit. You can also consider taking survivor benefits early and then switching to your own retirement benefit later if it would be higher (or vice versa). It's one of the few remaining options for claiming one benefit type and later switching to another.

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Diego Ramirez

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Thank you so much for clarifying! I've been so stressed about this because someone told me I missed qualifying by just 1 year of marriage. I'm relieved to hear I can actually get his benefits. I didn't know the percentage would be reduced if I take it at 60 though. Do you know if there's a chart somewhere that shows how much I'd get at different ages? I might wait longer if the difference is significant.

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Sean O'Connor

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my mom got widows benifits at 60 but she said it was WAY less money than waiting till full retirement age... like almost half i think? but she needed it cuz she lost her job. just something to think abt

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Diego Ramirez

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Thanks for sharing about your mom's experience. That's definitely something to consider. I'm still working so maybe I should try to wait longer if the difference is that big. Did your mom find it difficult to apply for the benefits?

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Zara Ahmed

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I went through this exact situation last year! Definitely eligible at 60, but I waited until 62 for a slightly higher amount. The SSA website has all the information, but GOOD LUCK actually getting through to anyone on the phone to ask questions. I spent THREE DAYS trying to reach someone to confirm my eligibility before giving up and just applying online. One thing to watch for - if you're still working when you claim survivor benefits before your FRA, you'll be subject to the earnings test. In 2025, if you earn more than $22,320, they'll withhold $1 in benefits for every $2 you earn above that limit. Just something to consider in your planning.

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Luca Conti

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Oh wow I had no idea about that earnings limit thing! I'm in the same situation but I'm still working full time making about $55k. Sounds like I should maybe wait until FRA? This system is so confusing.

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Nia Johnson

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Diego Ramirez

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Thank you for the recommendation! I'll definitely look into that service when I'm ready to apply. The hold times with SSA are notorious. And thanks for the percentage info too - that helps me understand how much I'd be giving up by claiming early.

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CyberNinja

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DONT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU READ HERE!!! My sister-in-law thought she qualified for her deceased husband's SS too but got DENIED because he wasn't fully insured or something like that. The 9 month marriage rule is true BUT they also look at work credits!!! Your husband needed enough work credits to be "fully insured" for you to claim!!! Did he work long enough to qualify for SS himself???

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You're raising an important point about work credits. The deceased spouse needs to have earned at least 40 work credits (or be fully insured) for standard survivor benefits. However, there are exceptions where fewer credits are needed if the person died young. But since the original poster mentioned her husband's benefit would be higher than hers, it sounds like he likely had enough work credits to qualify for retirement benefits, which means he would also qualify for survivor benefits.

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Mateo Lopez

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I was in your exact situation 3 years ago. Took my late husband's benefit at 60 and it was the right choice for me, but honestly it depends on your financial situation. The amount I receive at 60 is about $1,730 per month (his FRA benefit would have been about $2,420). I know I'm leaving money on the table by not waiting, but I needed to reduce my work hours for health reasons. One thing no one mentioned - you can apply up to 4 months before you turn 60. I'd recommend doing that to make sure everything is processed in time. You'll need his death certificate, your marriage certificate, and your birth certificate (or passport). Better to have everything ready early than scrambling at the last minute like I did!

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Diego Ramirez

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This is incredibly helpful - thank you for sharing your experience and the actual numbers. That gives me a much better idea of what to expect. And I had no idea I could apply 4 months early! That's excellent advice. I'll start gathering all my documents now so I'm prepared. Do you remember if they required original documents or if copies were acceptable?

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Luca Conti

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wait im confused about something... if u take widow benefits at 60 can u still get ur own SS later? or does taking widow benefits early reduce BOTH benefits? sorry if thats a dumb question lol

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Not a dumb question at all! Taking widow's benefits early only reduces the widow's benefit. It has no effect on your own retirement benefit. This is one of the few situations where you can still use a "claim now, claim more later" strategy. You could take reduced widow's benefits at 60, then switch to your own retirement benefit at 70 (when it reaches its maximum). Or take your reduced retirement benefit at 62 and switch to unreduced widow's benefits at your full retirement age. Which strategy works best depends on the relative amounts of the two benefits.

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Sean O'Connor

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my aunt tried to get this and they kept saying she didnt send the right paperwork but she did!!! took her like 5 months to actually start getting the money be prepared for a fight with them!!

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Diego Ramirez

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Oh no, that sounds frustrating! Thanks for the warning. I'll make sure to keep copies of everything I submit and follow up regularly.

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Zara Ahmed

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Another thing to consider - if you're eligible for both your own retirement benefit and a survivor benefit, you can choose which one to take first. This can be a powerful strategy. For example, you could take the survivor benefit at 60 (at a reduced rate) and let your own benefit grow until age 70, then switch. Or take your own reduced benefit at 62 and switch to the full survivor benefit at your FRA. Run the numbers on both scenarios to see which gives you more lifetime benefits. The best strategy depends on your own work record compared to your late husband's benefit amount.

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Mateo Lopez

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This is what I'm doing! Taking widow benefits now and letting my own benefit grow. My financial advisor ran the numbers and based on my earnings history and life expectancy, I'll come out ahead by switching to my own benefit at 70. Definitely worth talking to a financial advisor who specializes in Social Security claiming strategies if you can.

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