SSA system is completely broken anyway. Friend of mine tried to do what ur talking about, waited till 70, then the govt changed how they calculate COLA and he barely got more than if hed taken it at normal time. Just take the money now!!!!

Thank you all for the thoughtful responses! After considering everything, I think I'm going to wait until 70 to start my benefits since I'm still earning good income and don't need the SS money right now. The guaranteed 8% annual increase is appealing, and given my family history, I'm likely to live past the break-even point. I appreciate everyone sharing their experiences and knowledge!

update us on what you decide! im curious what youll choose

I appreciate you sharing such a personal and complex decision with the community. Your situation really highlights how Social Security planning isn't just about the math - it's about your unique circumstances, family history, and goals. Based on everything you've shared, it sounds like taking benefits at 65 makes sense for your situation. You've identified some key factors: your family longevity concerns, your desire to ensure something passes to your children, and your wife's need for survivor benefits. The hybrid approach Donna suggested about setting aside part of your early benefits to supplement your wife's future survivor benefits is brilliant. One additional thought: since you mentioned having rental properties, you might want to consider gradually shifting some of that active management to reduce your earned income if it's triggering the earnings test. This could help you keep more of your early SS benefits while still maintaining your passive income stream. Wishing you the best with whatever decision you make. You've clearly done your homework and are thinking through all the angles!

Just wanted to update everyone who's been so helpful. I talked to my SIL yesterday about all this. We're going to help her apply for both SSDI through the Compassionate Allowance program AND Medicaid through her state's emergency provision. She's also going to talk to HR about using sick leave/FMLA to stay technically employed while reducing her hours below the SGA limit. The oncology social worker at her hospital has been AMAZING - connected us with a patient advocate who's helping navigate everything. They also told us about special cancer assistance programs that might help with costs while we're waiting for government benefits to kick in. I'm still terrified about the timing of everything, but at least now we have a plan. Thank you all so much for sharing your experiences and knowledge. It's made such a difference knowing what to ask for and where to start.

I'm a case worker who has helped many families navigate this exact situation. A few additional tips that might help: 1. When applying for SSDI, make sure to check the "Terminal Illness" box if available on the application - this helps flag it for Compassionate Allowance processing immediately. 2. For Medicaid, ask specifically about "Presumptive Eligibility" - many states can provide temporary coverage while your full application is being processed. This can bridge the gap until regular Medicaid kicks in. 3. Contact your state's SHIP (State Health Insurance Assistance Program) counselor - they're free and can help navigate both Medicare and Medicaid options. Every state has them. 4. If your SIL has any 401k or retirement savings, she may want to consult with a benefits attorney about asset protection strategies before applying for means-tested programs. The fact that you're helping her navigate this system makes such a difference. Many people in her situation try to handle it alone and get overwhelmed. Keep advocating for her - the squeaky wheel really does get the grease with government agencies.

Update: We tried using Firefox instead of Chrome and going through the password reset process rather than trying to create a new login, but we're still getting stuck. I think we're going to have to try scheduling an in-person appointment. Does anyone know if I would be able to go with her to help explain things to the SSA representative? She can communicate fine in person when she can see someone's face, but sometimes misses details.

I work with accessibility services and wanted to mention a few additional options that might help your sister. The SSA has a specific accommodation request process - she can call 1-800-772-1213 and ask to speak with someone about ADA accommodations for her hearing impairment. They can sometimes waive certain verification steps or provide alternative methods. Also, some local libraries have assistive technology centers that include TTY equipment or video relay services that might help with phone calls if needed. The reference librarians are usually great at helping people navigate government websites too. One more thing - if the in-person visit doesn't work out, you might also try contacting your congressional representative's office. They often have staff who specialize in helping constituents with federal agency issues like this.

My friend said u can also reduce ur WEP if u keep working after u start getting SS??? Is that true? I'm so confused with all these rules!

Here's a helpful resource for finding the substantial earnings amounts by year - you can check the SSA's official publication "Social Security & Medicare Tax Rates" or search for "substantial earnings WEP" on ssa.gov. They have a table showing the amounts going back decades. For example, 1985 was $5,850, 1995 was $11,325, 2005 was $16,725, etc. It's definitely worth checking all your years because even part-time work might have qualified! Also, don't forget that if you're still working in covered employment, every dollar you earn now in 2025 that gets you over $31,275 will count as another year of substantial earnings and potentially reduce your WEP penalty by 5%.