i think im the only 1 that actually filed early n was happy with it lol. i took mine 3 months b4 FRA and just stopped working completely. got a smaller check but started enjoying retirement sooner. no regrets!! sometimes the $$ isnt everything, time is valuable 2!

As someone who went through a similar decision last year, I'd strongly recommend waiting until May. I initially considered filing early while still working, but after running the numbers and talking to SSA, it became clear that the earnings test would likely wipe out most or all of my benefits anyway. The key thing to remember is that with your income level ($5,800/month), you're significantly over the earnings limit. Not only would you face benefit withholding, but you'd also be permanently reducing your monthly payment by $139 - which as others have pointed out, adds up to a substantial amount over time. I ended up waiting until my FRA and it was definitely the right call. No hassle with earnings tests, no reduced benefits, and no confusing paperwork from SSA about overpayments. Sometimes the simpler path really is the better one!

One more important thing to note - when your husband passes away, you should not cash or deposit his final Social Security payment if it arrives after his death. That payment will need to be returned to SSA. They will then issue the correct payment based on the date of death. This is a common point of confusion that can lead to overpayment issues later.

As someone who has worked with many families going through this transition, I want to emphasize a few key points that haven't been mentioned yet. First, make sure you keep detailed records of all communications with SSA - dates, names of representatives you spoke with, and case numbers. This becomes invaluable if there are any delays or discrepancies. Second, consider having multiple copies of the death certificate ready, as you'll need certified copies for various agencies and financial institutions beyond just SSA. Finally, if you have any direct deposit information that needs updating or if you want payments sent to a different account, bring that banking information with you when you apply for survivor benefits. The last thing you want to worry about during a difficult time is payment logistics. Planning these details now while you have the mental bandwidth will make the process much smoother later.

You're doing the right thing by planning ahead! I work with SSA cases and see this situation frequently. Your wife absolutely should apply for SSDI now - not just for potential immediate benefits, but to establish her disability onset date in the system. This is crucial because if something happens to you, she'll need that official disability determination to qualify for disabled widow benefits before age 60. One thing I'd add to what others have mentioned: make sure she applies within the statute of limitations. Generally, you have 5 years from your disability onset date to file for SSDI. If her health issues started 12 years ago, she might need to be strategic about documenting when her condition became severe enough to prevent work. Also, even if she's initially denied (which happens to about 65% of first-time applicants), don't give up. The appeals process exists for a reason, and having that denial on record still helps establish when she first sought disability recognition, which could be important for future survivor claims.

This is such an important topic that more couples need to understand! I went through something similar with my parents. My dad was receiving SSDI and my mom had chronic conditions but never applied because his benefits covered their needs. When he passed away unexpectedly, we learned the hard way about these rules. What really helped us was understanding that there are actually two separate things happening here: your wife establishing her own disability status with SSA, and the future potential for survivor benefits. Even if her SSDI application results in $0 monthly payments (due to family maximum rules or other factors), having that official disability determination is what opens the door for early survivor benefits. One thing I'd strongly recommend is keeping detailed records of her medical appointments, treatments, and how her conditions affect daily activities. The SSA will want to see a clear picture of her functional limitations, not just diagnoses. Also, if she hasn't seen doctors recently for her conditions, it might be worth scheduling some appointments to get current medical evidence before applying. You're being really smart to think about this now rather than waiting. The peace of mind alone is worth going through the application process.

Based on what you've shared, here's what I recommend as your next steps: 1. Help your daughter create a my Social Security account at ssa.gov to check her work credits. 2. Gather comprehensive medical evidence: - Clinical records from therapists/doctors - Psychological evaluations if available - Prescription medication history - Treatment notes documenting symptoms and limitations - Any hospitalizations or intensive outpatient treatment 3. Document how her conditions affect daily functioning: - Failed work attempts with specific details - Difficulties with daily activities - Social functioning limitations - Episodes of decompensation (periods when symptoms worsen) 4. Apply for both SSDI and SSI simultaneously online or by calling SSA. 5. Consider getting a disability attorney if initially denied (most work on contingency). The combination of multiple mental health conditions plus asthma could strengthen her case, especially if you can document how they interact to further limit her functioning.

With SSDI, she would get Medicare after 24 months of receiving benefits. With SSI, she would likely get Medicaid immediately in most states. Either way, she would eventually have health coverage, which is important for maintaining the treatment she needs. One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet: make sure her doctors are specifically documenting how her conditions limit her ability to work. Many doctors focus on symptoms and treatment but don't explicitly address work capacity in their notes. You might want to ask her providers to complete a Medical Source Statement or Residual Functional Capacity form that specifically addresses work-related limitations. Also, if she's denied initially (which is common), don't give up! Request reconsideration within 60 days, and if denied again, request a hearing before an Administrative Law Judge. Success rates increase significantly at the hearing level, especially with proper representation.

I'm in a very similar situation with irregular commission income! One thing that really helped me was creating a simple tracking spreadsheet from the start. I track every payment date, amount, and type (regular salary vs commission) as soon as I receive it. When I applied for benefits, I brought printouts showing my payment history for the past 6 months and estimates for the rest of the year. The SSA rep was really appreciative that I had everything organized and it made the interview go much smoother. Also, don't stress too much about the earnings test calculations - once you get your first annual report form from SSA, it walks you through everything step by step. The key is just keeping good records from day one so you're not scrambling later to remember when you got paid what amount. Your brother sounds like he's in good shape if he's only looking at 2 months over the limit for 2025!

As someone who recently went through this process with quarterly bonuses, I can confirm what others have said - SSA definitely goes by payment date, not when the income was earned. One additional tip: when your brother applies, he should ask the SSA representative to put a note in his file about his quarterly commission structure. This way, when he does his annual earnings report, there's already a record that his income pattern was discussed upfront. It can help avoid questions or delays during the review process. Also, since he's starting benefits mid-year in July, he'll want to be extra careful about those September and December commission months. Even though it's only 2 months over the limit, make sure he reports those expected amounts during his application interview so there are no surprises. Good luck to your brother!