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Just wanted to share my experience as someone who went through this exact situation two years ago. My ex-husband was also on SSDI when I applied for ex-spouse benefits at 62. The process took about 6 weeks from application to first payment, and you're right that his SSDI counts the same as retirement benefits for your calculation. One thing I wish someone had told me - even though you can't contact your ex directly, SSA can tell you during your appointment approximately what your benefit would be before you commit to filing. They won't tell you his exact amount, but they can give you a good estimate of what you'd receive. This helped me decide whether to file immediately or wait. Also, definitely try visiting your local SSA office in person if the phones aren't working. I had much better luck just walking in with all my documents. They were able to answer all my questions and process my application the same day. Good luck with your decision!
This is really helpful to hear from someone who's been through it! I didn't know they could give me an estimate during the appointment without me having to commit right away. That would definitely help me make a more informed decision. I think I'll try visiting the local office in person like you suggested - dealing with the phone system has been so frustrating. Did you need to bring anything specific beyond the marriage certificate and divorce decree when you went in person?
I'm new to this community but wanted to chime in since I'm dealing with a very similar situation. My ex-husband is also on SSDI and I'm trying to figure out the best timing for filing. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful - especially learning about the difference between his PIA and what he actually receives, and that the reduction for filing at 62 is permanent. One thing I'm curious about that I haven't seen mentioned - does anyone know if there are any differences in how quickly ex-spouse benefits based on SSDI get processed versus regular retirement benefits? I've heard disability cases can sometimes take longer to verify, but I'm not sure if that applies to derivative benefits like ex-spouse claims. Also, for those who have gone through this process, did you need to provide any medical documentation about your ex's disability, or does SSA already have all that information in their system? I want to make sure I'm prepared with the right paperwork when I apply.
As a newcomer to this community, I want to say how incredibly helpful this entire discussion has been! I'm currently navigating a similar situation where I've been on SSDI for several years and recently became eligible for survivor benefits, so Katherine's original questions and everyone's detailed responses have been invaluable. What really strikes me is how much more clearly this community explains these complex scenarios compared to the official SSA materials. The way everyone has broken down the difference between continuing SSDI status and the separate medical evaluation for survivor benefits finally makes sense to me. I was similarly confused about whether I would still be "officially disabled" after adding survivor benefits. I also appreciate all the practical advice shared here - from keeping detailed records of SSA conversations to understanding the earnings limits and remarriage rules. It's clear that many of us are dealing with similar complex benefit situations that SSA doesn't explain well in their standard communications. Thank you to Katherine for asking such thoughtful questions and to all the experienced members who took the time to provide such comprehensive answers. This thread will definitely be a valuable resource for others facing similar circumstances!
Welcome to the community, Dmitry! I completely agree with your observations about how much more helpful this discussion has been compared to official SSA materials. As someone who's also new here, I've been amazed at the level of detail and real-world experience that community members have shared. Your point about the confusion around remaining "officially disabled" really resonates with me - that seems to be such a common concern when people start receiving multiple types of benefits. The way Harper Collins and others explained how the SSDI status continues while the survivor benefit just supplements it was a real lightbulb moment for me too. I'm also impressed by how this thread demonstrates the importance of community knowledge sharing. It's clear that many of us are navigating these complex scenarios with limited guidance from official channels, so having a place where people can share their actual experiences is incredibly valuable. Thanks for adding your perspective, and I hope your survivor benefits application process goes smoothly!
As a newcomer to this community, I'm incredibly grateful to have found this discussion! I'm currently dealing with a very similar situation - I've been receiving SSDI for about 4 years and just started the application process for survivor benefits after my former spouse passed away last month. Reading through everyone's responses has been so much more helpful than anything I've been able to get from SSA directly. The explanation about how you remain on SSDI while the survivor benefit acts as a supplement really clarifies things for me. I was worried that applying for survivor benefits might somehow jeopardize my existing SSDI status. Katherine, thank you for asking such comprehensive questions, especially about the remarriage scenarios. Even though that's not on my immediate radar, it's reassuring to understand how those rules work for the future. The complexity of Social Security benefits is really overwhelming when you're trying to navigate it alone. I'm particularly appreciative of the practical advice shared here about keeping detailed records of SSA conversations and understanding the medical review process. It sounds like I should prepare for a separate disability evaluation for the survivor benefits portion, which is good to know going in. This community seems like such a valuable resource for people dealing with these complicated benefit situations. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and experiences!
One important clarification: The COLA being announced this week will be effective for payments received in January 2025. Since Social Security pays benefits in the month following the month for which they are due, your February 2025 payment (which is for January 2025) will indeed include the COLA increase. You should receive a notice called "Your New Benefit Amount" in December that will show: 1. Your current benefit amount 2. The new benefit amount after COLA 3. The date the new amount takes effect This is sent automatically to all beneficiaries - no need to request it.
Wait I'm confused now. If benefits are paid the month AFTER they're due, and my first check is coming February 2025, does that mean it's actually for January 2025? And would include COLA?
Exactly right! Your February 2025 payment is actually for the month of January 2025, so it WILL include the COLA increase. Social Security always pays benefits one month behind - so January benefits are paid in February, February benefits are paid in March, etc. Since the COLA takes effect for January 2025 benefits and beyond, your very first payment in February will have the increased amount. You should definitely contact SSA to review your previous payments if you didn't receive COLA adjustments when you started in 2023 - that doesn't sound right.
As a newcomer to this community, I want to add my thanks to everyone who has contributed to this incredibly informative discussion! I'm 62 and have been agonizing over this exact question for months. My husband is 68 and already collecting his full Social Security benefits while still working part-time as a contractor, earning about $30,000 annually. I was convinced that his continued earnings would somehow impact my benefits when I decide to file. Reading through all these detailed explanations has been such a huge relief! It's now crystal clear that the earnings test applies only to the individual earning the income, not their spouse. I can't believe I spent so much time worrying about this when the answer is actually straightforward once it's properly explained. What really impressed me is how patient and thorough everyone has been in addressing not just the original question, but all the follow-up concerns and misconceptions that came up in the thread. The clarification about business structure not mattering (sole proprietorship vs LLC) and the distinction between the earnings test and benefit taxation were particularly helpful. I'm definitely going to explore that my.ssa.gov account suggestion and maybe even look into that Claimyr service if I need to speak with SSA directly. Thank you all for creating such a supportive environment for people trying to navigate these complex Social Security rules!
Welcome to the community, Isabella! Your relief is so understandable - I think many of us have been in that exact same position of worrying unnecessarily about spousal income impacts. It really shows how these Social Security rules can seem intimidating until you get clear explanations from people who've been through it. I'm glad this thread helped put your mind at ease about your husband's contractor income not affecting your future benefits. The my.ssa.gov account is definitely worth setting up - being able to see your projected benefits at different filing ages really helps with planning. Welcome aboard, and don't hesitate to ask if you have other questions as you navigate your filing decision!
As a newcomer to this community, I want to express my gratitude for this incredibly thorough and reassuring discussion! I'm 63 and my husband is 69, already collecting his full Social Security benefits while continuing to earn income from his small accounting practice. Like so many others here, I was genuinely worried that his business earnings might somehow reduce my benefits when I file next year. This thread has been absolutely eye-opening! The consistent message from everyone that the earnings test applies individually to each spouse has completely put my fears to rest. I had no idea that married couples are treated as completely separate individuals for Social Security earnings purposes - I just assumed there would be some kind of household income consideration. I'm particularly grateful for the detailed explanation about how temporarily withheld benefits get recalculated at FRA rather than being permanently lost. That's such an important distinction that I hadn't understood before. The recommendation to set up a my.ssa.gov account to review projected benefits is also incredibly practical advice that I'm going to act on immediately. What strikes me most is how patient and knowledgeable this community is. Every question and concern that came up was addressed with real-world experience and clear explanations. Thank you all for creating such a supportive environment for those of us trying to navigate these complex Social Security decisions!
Welcome to the community, Ravi! Your experience perfectly captures what so many of us have gone through - that initial worry and confusion followed by such relief once the rules are clearly explained. It's really striking how common this misconception is about spousal income affecting individual benefits. I think it speaks to how interconnected everything else in marriage feels (taxes, healthcare, etc.) that we naturally assume Social Security works the same way. But you're absolutely right that each person is treated completely independently for earnings test purposes. The my.ssa.gov account tip is golden - being able to see those projected benefit amounts at different filing ages really helps with decision-making. This community has been such a lifesaver for getting clear, practical answers from people who've actually walked this path. Welcome aboard!
Giovanni Moretti
I called my local SSA office today after getting advice here, and they confirmed that for an April 2025 start date, I should apply in January 2025. They also mentioned that since I'm turning 67 in May (my FRA), taking benefits just one month early in April will only reduce my monthly amount by less than 1%. I've decided to go ahead with that plan. Thanks everyone for your helpful advice!
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Fatima Al-Farsi
•Glad you got it confirmed! Best of luck with your application in January.
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Lorenzo McCormick
Great to hear you got official confirmation from SSA! Just wanted to add for anyone else reading this thread - make sure you have all your documents ready before you apply in January. You'll need your birth certificate, Social Security card, W-2 forms or tax returns from the previous year, and bank account information for direct deposit. Having everything organized beforehand will make the online application process much smoother. Good luck with your retirement!
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Oliver Zimmermann
•This is really helpful advice! I'm new to this community and planning to apply for Social Security in the next few years. I hadn't thought about gathering all those documents ahead of time - that's a great tip. Is there anything else people should know about the online application process? I've heard it can be pretty straightforward if you're prepared, but I want to make sure I don't miss anything important when my time comes.
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