Can my younger husband claim spousal SS benefits at 57 while I'm on retirement at FRA?
Just trying to map out our retirement timeline and getting confused about spousal benefits rules. I'm 64 now and currently receiving survivor benefits from my first husband who passed away. I plan to switch to my own retirement benefits when I hit 70 to maximize what I'll get. Here's where it gets complicated - I remarried two years ago at 62 to a wonderful man who's significantly younger (10.5 years). We've been discussing our future, and he's interested in scaling back work or possibly retiring early when he's around 57 (I'll be at my full retirement age by then). We had pretty comparable earnings throughout our careers. My question is: once I switch to my own retirement benefits, can my current husband claim 50% spousal benefits based on my record when he's only 57? Or would he need to wait until he's at least 62? Also, if I were to pass away, would he be eligible for survivor benefits based on my record, or would he need to wait until a certain age? The SSA website is so confusing on these age gap situations!
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Freya Nielsen
your husband cant get spousal benefits at 57 no matter what, minimum age is 62 for that. and even then he'd get reduced benefits cuz hes not at his FRA. not sure bout the survivor part tho.
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Ravi Kapoor
•Thanks for the info! So no spousal benefits until 62 at minimum... that changes our planning a bit. Does anyone know about the survivor question?
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Omar Mahmoud
Let me clear up a few things about your situation: 1. Spousal benefits can ONLY begin at age 62 at the earliest (with a reduction). There is absolutely no way for your husband to claim at 57. 2. If he claims spousal benefits at 62, they will be significantly reduced (about 30% less than if he waited until his FRA). 3. For survivor benefits: If you pass away, your current husband could claim survivor benefits as early as age 60 (or age 50 if disabled), but again, with a reduction for early claiming. 4. Important note: Since you both had similar earnings, your husband's own retirement benefit at his FRA might actually be higher than what he'd get from 50% of your benefit. The SSA will pay him the higher of the two amounts. 5. You might want to have him create a my Social Security account to see his projected benefit amounts before making any decisions.
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Chloe Harris
•This is so confusin! So if her husband works less for the next 10 years, wouldn't that make his own benefit smaller? Then maybe the spousal would be better?
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Diego Vargas
I went through something similar with my wife being younger than me. The whole SS system is ridiculously complicated!!! The most important thing to understand is that NO ONE can get ANY Social Security benefits before 62 except for disability or if caring for a disabled person/child. The 50% spousal benefit rule has so many exceptions and weird calculations that even the SS reps get confused sometimes.
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Ravi Kapoor
•It is INCREDIBLY complicated! Thanks for sharing your experience. Did your wife end up taking spousal benefits or her own?
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Diego Vargas
She took her own at 62 because it was higher than half of mine. But we didn't have as big an age gap as you two.
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NeonNinja
One important consideration for your husband: if he reduces his hours or retires at 57, this will impact his future Social Security benefit amount. Benefits are calculated using your highest 35 years of earnings, so having several low-earning or zero-earning years from 57 onward could significantly reduce what he'll receive on his own record. Regarding survivor benefits: If you were to pass away, he could claim survivor benefits as early as age 60, receiving 71.5% of your full benefit. If he waited until his FRA, he would receive 100% of your benefit. You should both schedule an appointment with an SSA representative to discuss your specific situation and run calculations based on your actual earnings records. The age gap and early retirement create several important strategic considerations for maximizing your household benefits.
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Ravi Kapoor
•Thank you for the detailed response. I hadn't considered how reducing his work hours would affect his own benefit calculation. We'll definitely need to look at the numbers more carefully. Do you know how difficult it is to get an appointment with SSA currently?
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Anastasia Popov
When I needed to speak with a Social Security agent about a similar spousal benefit question last month, I was stuck in an endless phone loop for days! Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an agent in about 15 minutes instead of waiting for hours or days. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent was able to run calculations based on both our earnings records and explained all the age restrictions. Definitely worth getting the official information rather than trying to piece it together online.
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Chloe Harris
•does that really work? ive been trying to get through to talk about my widows benefits for WEEKS!
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Anastasia Popov
Yes! It saved me so much frustration. The SSA phone system is completely overwhelmed right now.
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Sean Murphy
I dont mean to hijack but your post got me thinking about my situation... My husband is 12 years older than me and already collecting his SS. I'm 52 now. The SSA lady told me years ago I could get half his benefit when I turn 62 BUT reading your responses now I'm wondering if that was WRONG advice!!!! Would I get half of what he gets now or half of what his benefit was at his FRA?? Or does it depend on my own earnings?? UGHHHH why is this system so COMPLICATED!!!
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Omar Mahmoud
•You would receive up to 50% of his Primary Insurance Amount (what he would receive at his FRA), not necessarily what he's currently receiving. But that's only if your own benefit is less than that amount. And if you claim at 62, you'd receive a reduced amount - about 70% of that 50% spousal benefit.
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Freya Nielsen
lol why would anyone think they could get ss benefits at 57? thats not retirement age anywhere in the U.S system
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Ravi Kapoor
•I wasn't sure if there were exceptions for spousal benefits with age gaps. The rules are complicated and not always intuitive.
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Omar Mahmoud
To summarize what's been discussed and add a bit more clarity: 1. The earliest your husband could receive spousal benefits is age 62, with a reduction (approximately 30-35% less than at his FRA). 2. If he significantly reduces his work or stops completely at 57, this could affect his own future benefit calculation since SSA uses the highest 35 years of earnings. Low-earning or zero years could reduce his personal benefit. 3. The spousal benefit would be up to 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount (your benefit at your FRA), but is reduced if claimed before his FRA. 4. He will always receive the higher of either his own benefit or the spousal benefit, not both. 5. For survivor benefits, he could claim as early as age 60 if you predeceased him, with a reduction. At his FRA, he would receive 100% of your benefit. 6. If your husband is considering reducing work significantly at 57, you might want to evaluate other retirement income sources to bridge the gap until he can claim Social Security benefits.
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Ravi Kapoor
•Thank you for this clear summary! I think our new plan will need to be a combination of his reduced work (but still some income) at 57 plus our savings to bridge until 62. I appreciate everyone's help sorting through this complicated system.
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