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My aunt was just denied Social Security survivor benefits which has us all confused. She's 65, was married for 12 years to my late uncle before they divorced in 2001, and she never remarried. Uncle passed away in 2019 after working almost his entire adult life. She currently receives SSI (about $950/month), but we thought she'd qualify for survivor benefits since the marriage lasted over 10 years. The denial letter was vague - just said she "didn't qualify" with no specific explanation. I assumed survivor benefits for divorced spouses was pretty straightforward if you met the 10-year marriage rule? Could it be related to her current SSI? Or maybe because my uncle had periods of unemployment during their marriage? Any insight would be helpful - she's wondering if she should file an appeal or if there's something we're missing about divorced widow benefits. Has anyone else faced a similar situation?
My husband passed away in 2022 at age 71. He started collecting his Social Security at 62, so he was getting reduced benefits. I just turned 76 and finally applied for survivor benefits after managing on my own retirement for a while. I'm confused about how much I'll actually receive as a widow. Will I get the exact amount he was receiving when he died in 2022? Or is there some adjustment because he took early retirement? Also, does it matter that I'm applying now rather than right after he passed? The SSA representative wasn't very clear when I called, and I've been getting different answers from friends who've been through this. Any help sorting this out would be appreciated!
Thank you all for the helpful responses. I've learned a lot, especially about the widow's limit provision that I need to specifically ask about. I'm going to try to reach SSA again with these specific questions. And if I have trouble getting through, I might try that Claimyr service someone mentioned. I'll update here if I find out anything that might help others in my situation.
I'm glad you found the information helpful! The widow's limit provision is definitely something worth asking about specifically - it's one of those complex rules that can make a real difference in your benefit amount but isn't always clearly explained. When you call SSA, I'd suggest having a list of specific questions ready: 1) Ask about the RIB-LIM/widow's limit provision and whether it applies to your case, 2) Get the exact monthly amount you'll receive including any COLA adjustments since 2022, and 3) Confirm whether you'll receive any retroactive payments and for what time period. It's frustrating how confusing the system can be, especially when you're dealing with the loss of a spouse. Don't hesitate to ask for clarification if anything doesn't make sense - you deserve clear answers about your benefits. Good luck with your call, and please do update us with what you learn!
I'm turning 60 in December and just submitted my application for widow's benefits to start in January 2025. When the SSA claims specialist calculated my estimated payment amount, I wasn't sure if that figure already had the cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) included for 2025. The amount they quoted me was $1,874 monthly. Do new widow's beneficiaries qualify for the annual COLA in their first year? Or does that only kick in after you've been receiving benefits for a full year? Also, if the COLA isn't included in that estimate, when would I see the increase? Would it be automatic or do I need to contact SSA about it? Sorry for all the questions, but this is really important for my budget planning next year.
listen the SSA people dont even know half the time when you call they told me one thing and then my actual benefit was different so dont stress about the exact number now just know itll have whatever COLA they approve
While frontline SSA representatives do their best, benefit calculations can be complex, especially for survivors. If you receive inconsistent information, consider requesting to speak with a Technical Expert who specializes in benefit computations. They can often provide more detailed and accurate information about how your specific benefit was calculated.
I appreciate everyone's responses! I'm going to wait until after the COLA announcement in October and then call the SSA to get an updated estimate. It sounds like I'll definitely get the COLA increase included in my January payment, which is reassuring. I'm still a bit confused about how they calculate widow's benefits though. Is the $1,874 they quoted me based on my deceased husband's record alone, or does it also factor in my own work history somehow?
That's an excellent question about the calculation. The $1,874 is based on your deceased husband's earnings record, not yours. As a widow, you're entitled to between 71.5% and 100% of your deceased husband's primary insurance amount (PIA), depending on your age when you begin receiving benefits. At 60, you'd receive 71.5% of his PIA. Your own work history becomes relevant if you're eligible for retirement benefits on your own record. In that case, you would ultimately receive the higher of either your own retirement benefit or the widow's benefit. You can actually switch between benefits at different times to maximize your payments - many widows take reduced widow's benefits early and then switch to their own (unreduced) retirement benefits at full retirement age if that amount is higher.
@Tobias Lancaster explained it perfectly! Just to add a bit more context - since you re'applying at 60, you re'getting the earliest possible widow s'benefit which is why it s'reduced to 71.5% of your husband s'PIA. If you have your own work record and think you might qualify for a higher retirement benefit later, you could potentially do what s'called a restricted "application strategy." You d'take the reduced widow s'benefit now and then switch to your own retirement benefit at your full retirement age probably (67 if) it s'higher. This way you get some income now while letting your own benefit potentially grow with delayed retirement credits if you wait past full retirement age. Definitely worth asking SSA about both scenarios when you call for that updated estimate!
Hello everyone, I'm planning to take early retirement at age 64 on December 31, 2025. My employer has me scheduled to work through December 25, 2025 as my final day. I'm trying to figure out the optimal timing to apply for my Social Security benefits so I can start receiving my payments at the beginning of 2026. I know I'll be taking a reduced benefit since my FRA isn't until 66 and 8 months, but I've run the numbers and it makes sense for my situation. My main questions are: 1. When is the best time to submit my application to make sure there's no gap between my last paycheck and first SS payment? 2. What month should I select as my benefit start date to get my first payment in January 2026? 3. Will the earnings limit be an issue if I work right up until December 25th? I've heard different things about applying 3-4 months in advance, but I don't want to mess this up. Any advice from those who've been through this process would be greatly appreciated!
One more thing to consider - since you're retiring at 64, have you thought about health insurance coverage? Medicare doesn't start until 65, so you'll need to bridge that gap somehow. Some options: 1. COBRA from your employer (expensive but straightforward) 2. ACA marketplace plan (might qualify for subsidies) 3. Spouse's insurance if applicable This isn't directly related to your Social Security application timing, but it's a critical piece of early retirement planning that catches many people by surprise.
That's such an important point that I hadn't included in my original post! I've arranged to stay on my employer's health plan through COBRA until Medicare kicks in. It is expensive, as you mentioned, but I've budgeted for it and felt it was the most straightforward option in my case. Thanks for bringing this up - it's definitely a crucial consideration for anyone retiring before 65.
I went through this exact process two years ago when I retired at 64! Here's what I learned from my experience: Apply in September 2025 (4 months early) rather than October. I applied exactly 3 months early and it was cutting it close - any small delay could have pushed my first payment back a month. The extra month buffer gave me peace of mind. When you apply online, you'll see a question asking when you want benefits to start. Select January 2026. The system will automatically calculate your reduced benefit amount based on taking it 32 months before your FRA. Regarding the earnings test - since you're making $72k annually, you'll definitely exceed the 2025 limit. But the good news is that the "special rule" for your first year of retirement will apply. As long as you don't perform any substantial work in January 2026 (and beyond), you'll get your full monthly benefit starting then, regardless of what you earned earlier in 2025. One tip: when you submit your application, screenshot every page and keep confirmation numbers. Also, set up your my.ssa.gov account if you haven't already - you'll be checking it frequently to track your application status. The gap between your last paycheck and first SS payment is unavoidable, but at least you know to budget for it. Good luck!
I've been planning my retirement carefully and have a target monthly Social Security benefit of about $4,000 when I reach my age of 67 and 8 months (which is past my Full Retirement Age). I understand the application process can take around 3 months to be fully processed and approved. My question is: if I file 3 months BEFORE I reach 67 and 8 months, will my benefit amount be calculated based on the date I submitted my application, or the date when my application is finally approved (which would hopefully coincide with when I turn 67 and 8 months)? I don't want to accidentally lock in a lower benefit amount by filing early, but I also don't want to delay getting my first payment. Does anyone know how this works? Thanks!
wait a minute my uncle always told me that the computer system automsticly calculates your amount when u turn exact age?? so maybe im wrong about what I said before??
Your uncle might be confusing a couple of different things. The SSA computer system does automatically calculate your benefit amount based on your age when benefits begin, but YOU choose when benefits begin by specifying a start month on your application. The application itself can be filed up to 4 months before that start date.
As someone who just went through this process myself, I can confirm what others have said - you absolutely can file 3 months early and specify your benefit start date as when you turn 67 and 8 months. I filed online in January for benefits to begin in April, and my benefit amount was calculated based on my April age, not my January filing age. One thing that helped me was creating a my Social Security account online first to see my estimated benefit amounts at different ages. That way I could verify the math before filing. The online application is pretty straightforward and clearly asks you to specify your desired benefit start month. Just make sure you don't accidentally select an earlier start month when filling out the form - double-check that section since it directly affects your benefit calculation!
Zara Ahmed
Update: I asked my sister who works for a retirement planning company about this. She says it's DEFINITELY because of the SSI offset. If your aunt's potential survivor benefit is less than her SSI payment, she won't receive an additional payment. However, being entitled to survivor benefits might make her eligible for Medicare before 65, which would be a huge advantage over just SSI/Medicaid. So even if there's no immediate financial gain, there could be healthcare benefits worth pursuing. Definitely worth appealing just for that reason!
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Anastasia Sokolov
AuthorOh! That's really helpful about the Medicare eligibility. She just turned 65 last month so she's already eligible for Medicare now, but that's good to know for others in similar situations. I think we're going to help her appeal and specifically request a breakdown of the calculation. Thanks everyone for all this helpful information!
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Leo Simmons
I work as a benefits counselor and see this situation frequently. The key issue here is likely the SSI offset calculation. When someone receives SSI and becomes eligible for Social Security benefits, SSI acts as a "floor" - you get whichever benefit is higher, not both. If your aunt's potential survivor benefit is $800 and her SSI is $950, she'd continue receiving $950 in SSI with no additional payment. The denial might seem confusing because technically she IS eligible for survivor benefits, but there's no financial advantage. I'd strongly recommend she call SSA at 1-800-772-1213 and ask for a "benefit estimate comparison" showing her current SSI amount versus her potential survivor benefit amount. This will clarify whether it's worth appealing. Also, make sure she mentions she's a divorced widow (not divorced spouse) when calling - the terminology matters for getting routed to the right department.
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