I'm so sorry for your loss, Yuki. Losing a parent is heartbreaking, and please don't feel guilty about not immediately handling government paperwork during such a traumatic time - that's completely normal and understandable. You've received excellent advice here, and I just wanted to add one small tip that helped me when my mother passed away last year. When you do get through to SSA (whether by phone or in person), ask them to email or mail you a summary of what was discussed and what steps they're taking. Having that written confirmation gave me such peace of mind that everything was properly documented. Also, if you're the executor of your father's estate or handling his affairs, you might want to ask SSA about getting a "no benefits due" letter once everything is resolved. Some financial institutions and other agencies ask for this documentation when closing accounts or transferring assets. You're handling this with such care and responsibility during an incredibly difficult time. Your father would be proud of how thoughtfully you're managing everything. Take care of yourself, and remember that this administrative piece is temporary - it will get resolved so you can focus on healing and remembering the wonderful memories you shared with your dad.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Yuki. Losing a parent is one of life's most profound losses, and please know that not thinking about government paperwork immediately is completely understandable - you were focused on what truly mattered during an incredibly difficult time. Reading through all the responses here, it's clear you've received excellent guidance from this community. You now have a solid plan: call SSA Monday at 8 AM, visit in person if phone calls don't work, bring certified copies of the death certificate, get everything documented in writing, and notify your bank about the upcoming reclamation. I wanted to add one small thing that helped me when my father passed - consider setting up a simple folder (physical or digital) to keep all the documentation related to this process together: copies of death certificates, confirmation numbers from SSA, bank records showing the reclamation, etc. When you're grieving, it's easy to misplace important paperwork, and having everything in one place can save stress later. You're handling this with such thoughtfulness and care. Your proactive approach shows tremendous responsibility during one of life's most challenging times. This administrative matter will be resolved properly, and then you can focus your energy on honoring your father's memory and taking care of yourself. The support you've received here really shows how this community comes together during difficult times. Wishing you peace as you navigate this process.

I'm also a newcomer to this community and experiencing the exact same issue! My Social Security retirement payment normally posts to my Regions Bank account on Saturday mornings, but nothing showed up this week. When I called Regions, they confirmed they haven't received any ACH pre-notification from SSA either. This thread has been absolutely invaluable - I was getting really anxious thinking there was something wrong with my specific account, especially after the SSA phone rep I spoke with yesterday just kept repeating "it's not technically late until your official payment date" without explaining what was actually happening. Reading everyone's similar experiences and the detailed explanations about Federal Reserve processing delays related to the 2025 COLA implementation has been so reassuring. It's really disappointing that SSA isn't being more transparent about this widespread issue affecting thousands of people across multiple banks. A simple acknowledgment or notice about temporary processing delays would save so many people the stress and confusion we've all been experiencing. I'm encouraged to see that deposits are starting to post for some community members now! It gives me hope that mine will show up soon too. I have my insurance premiums scheduled to auto-pay tomorrow that I was counting on my normal Saturday deposit timing for, so this delay has definitely caused some anxiety, but at least now I understand it's a system-wide processing issue. Thank you to everyone who has shared their experiences and provided such helpful explanations throughout this thread - this community has been exactly what I needed during this confusing situation. I'll make sure to update when my payment finally posts!

I'm also new to this community and experiencing the exact same issue! My Social Security retirement payment normally posts to my Wells Fargo account on Saturday mornings, but nothing showed up this week. When I called Wells Fargo, they confirmed they haven't received any ACH pre-notification from SSA either. This thread has been such a lifesaver - I was really starting to panic thinking there was something wrong with my account or that I had somehow missed an important notice about my direct deposit setup. The detailed explanations about Federal Reserve processing delays and the 2025 COLA implementation really help put this all in perspective. It's incredibly frustrating that when I called SSA yesterday, the representative gave me the same dismissive "it's not late until your official payment date" response without any acknowledgment that this is clearly a widespread system issue affecting thousands of people across multiple banks. They really should be more transparent about these processing delays. I'm really encouraged to see that deposits are starting to post for some community members now! It gives me hope that mine will show up soon too. I have my credit card payment scheduled to auto-pay tomorrow that I was counting on my normal Saturday deposit for, so the timing has definitely been stressful, but at least now I understand this is a system-wide issue. Thank you to everyone who has shared their experiences and explanations - this community has been exactly what I needed to understand what's actually happening instead of just worrying alone. I'll update when my payment finally comes through!

btw make sure when they do finally call you have ALL your kids docs ready - birth certificates, ssn cards, school info if theyre older, custody papers if theres any complicated family situation. they get super annoyed if you dont have everything and might make you start over with another appt

I went through something very similar and want to add that you should also request a "receipt" or confirmation number every time you interact with SSA about your children's benefits. When I was dealing with missed appointments, I started asking the person on the phone to give me a confirmation number for our conversation and have them note in my file that I was calling about dependent benefits tied to my July 2024 protective filing date. This created a clear paper trail that helped when I eventually got everything sorted out. Also, if you have to keep rescheduling phone appointments, try asking if they can schedule you for the earliest slot of the day - I found those were less likely to get bumped or missed. The whole process is frustrating but don't give up - your kids are entitled to those benefits and the backpay from your original filing date!

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this stress on top of your own health issues! One thing that helped me during my husband's CDR was creating a comprehensive timeline document before the psychiatrist appointment. I listed: - All medications he's currently taking (with dosages and how long he's been on each) - Any dosage changes in the past year - Specific episodes or difficult periods he's had recently - How his conditions affect daily activities (showering, grocery shopping, social situations, etc.) - Any triggers that make symptoms worse Having this organized beforehand made the appointment much more productive, and the psychiatrist was able to write a more detailed assessment. Also, if his previous psychiatrist retired, try to get those records transferred ASAP - continuity of care documentation can be really valuable even with the gap. The fact that he's been medication compliant this whole time actually works in your favor - it shows he's actively managing his condition, not ignoring it. You're handling this exactly right by getting current documentation. Wishing you both the best outcome!

I've been through a CDR myself and want to share what worked for me. First, breathe - the fact that he's been medication compliant this whole time is actually a huge positive. When I called to schedule my psychiatrist appointment, I explained it was for a CDR and they prioritized it within two weeks. Here's what made the biggest difference in my case: - I brought a written list of all current symptoms and how they specifically impact work-related tasks (concentration, social interaction, stress tolerance, etc.) - I asked the psychiatrist to write a detailed letter explaining why my condition still prevents substantial gainful activity, even with medication - I documented several recent examples of how my condition affects daily functioning The key thing to remember is that CDRs for mental health conditions focus on whether you can maintain consistent, full-time work. Even if he has some good days, the unpredictability of bipolar disorder and his severe social anxiety are major barriers to employment. Make sure the psychiatrist understands this isn't just about "feeling better" - it's about work capacity. You're being proactive by scheduling the appointment now. That shows you're taking his treatment seriously, which actually strengthens his case. Good luck!

Update: I finally got through to someone at SSA after being on hold for 2 hours. They said my provisional payments should start within the next 2-3 weeks and that my case has been assigned to an examiner for review. Feeling a bit relieved but still worried about making it until then. Thanks everyone for the advice and support!

That's such great news! I'm so happy you finally got through to someone who could give you actual information. 2-3 weeks for provisional payments sounds much more reasonable than what some people are experiencing. Make sure to keep that reference number or case number from your call if they gave you one - it can help speed things up if you need to call again. You've been through the hardest part already by getting all your paperwork submitted quickly. Hang in there, you're almost through this nightmare!