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CosmicVoyager

What tax benefits come with marrying my stay-at-home partner who has zero income?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 15 years now, and we have 3 kids together. I work full-time as an accountant while she's been a stay-at-home mom for the past 7 years. We've talked about marriage on and off, but never got around to it - life just keeps happening, you know? I'm handling all our finances but I'm not super knowledgeable about tax specifics beyond the basics. I'm wondering if there would be actual tax benefits if we finally tied the knot? She has absolutely no income right now and hasn't filed taxes in years since she doesn't need to. Obviously we aren't going to get married just for tax reasons, but I'm curious if it would make a difference for our 2025 taxes if we decided to make it official. Are there specific tax advantages for our situation with me being the sole earner and her being a SAHM with zero income?

Ravi Kapoor

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Yes, there could be significant tax benefits to getting married in your situation! With one spouse having no income, marriage can be particularly advantageous from a tax perspective. The biggest benefit would likely be filing jointly and taking advantage of the married filing jointly tax brackets, which are generally more favorable than filing as single when there's a significant income disparity between spouses. Since your partner has no income, your combined income (which is just your income) would potentially be taxed at lower rates. You'd also get a larger standard deduction. For 2025, married couples filing jointly get a standard deduction that's exactly twice the amount for single filers. This means more of your income would be tax-free. Additionally, you might qualify for certain credits like the Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) or Child Tax Credit with more favorable income thresholds when married filing jointly.

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Freya Nielsen

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But doesn't the "marriage penalty" make taxes higher for married couples? I've always heard people complain about that. Also, can OP's girlfriend claim the kids as dependents now even with no income, or does OP claim them all?

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Ravi Kapoor

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The "marriage penalty" typically affects couples where both spouses earn similar, relatively high incomes. In a situation where one spouse has no income, there's usually a "marriage bonus" instead, meaning you pay less tax as a married couple than you would as two single individuals. Regarding dependents, currently only the income-earning parent would be claiming the children as dependents since the stay-at-home parent has no tax filing requirement without income. After marriage, they would both benefit from claiming the children on their joint return.

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Zara Khan

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Don't forget about retirement account benefits! If you get married, you can contribute to a spousal IRA for your wife even though she has no earned income. For 2025, that means she could get up to $7,000 in a Traditional or Roth IRA ($8,000 if she's 50+), which gives you additional tax advantages. With a Traditional spousal IRA, you get the tax deduction now. With a Roth, she gets tax-free growth and withdrawals in retirement. This is a HUGE benefit many people overlook when considering marriage tax implications.

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CosmicVoyager

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Wait, I had no idea about the spousal IRA thing! So even though my girlfriend has zero income, if we were married, I could contribute to a retirement account for her? Would that give us a tax deduction right now or is it only beneficial later?

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Zara Khan

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Yes! If you were married, you could contribute to a spousal IRA for her even with her having zero income. It's one of the best tax benefits for couples with one income. If you choose a Traditional spousal IRA, you get the tax deduction immediately on your tax return, reducing your taxable income for the current year. If you choose a Roth spousal IRA, you don't get an immediate deduction, but all the growth and qualified withdrawals in retirement will be completely tax-free. Many financial advisors recommend the Roth option for stay-at-home spouses who are currently in a lower tax bracket.

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Luca Ferrari

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Has anyone mentioned head of household status yet? That's what you'd probably be filing as now with kids and an unmarried partner. When comparing tax benefits of marriage, make sure you're comparing married filing jointly against head of household (not single), which already gives you some benefits. The marriage benefit might be smaller than if you were filing as single.

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Nia Davis

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This is a really good point. I was head of household for years before getting married, and while marriage did save us money, it wasn't as dramatic as I expected. The tax brackets for HOH are already better than single.

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Emma Wilson

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Great question! As someone who went through a similar situation, I can confirm there are definitely tax benefits to getting married when one spouse has no income. One thing I'd add to the excellent points already made - make sure you also consider the timing of when you get married. If you get married by December 31st, you're considered married for the entire tax year for IRS purposes. So if you're planning to tie the knot anyway, doing it before year-end could maximize your 2025 tax savings. Also, with three kids, you'll want to look into how the Child and Dependent Care Credit might change. If your girlfriend ever decides to work part-time or go back to work full-time, being married could affect how much you can claim for childcare expenses. The spousal IRA benefit mentioned earlier is huge too - that's potentially $7,000 more you can save for retirement while getting tax benefits. With 15 years together and three kids, it sounds like you're already a family in every way that matters. The tax benefits could just be the cherry on top of making it official!

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