IRS Audit questioning HOH status & dependent claims for non-biological children - what documentation do we need?

For your partner to successfully respond to this audit, he'll need to provide several types of documentation: • Proof that the children lived with him for more than half the year (school records with your address, medical records, etc) • Evidence that he financially supported them (receipts for clothing, food, bills, etc) • Documentation showing he paid more than 50% of household expenses (rent/mortgage payments, utility bills) • Birth certificates for all children • For the non-biological children, you might need a written statement that you're allowing him to claim them • If you received any benefits for the children, documentation of those amounts The IRS Form 886-H-DEP and 886-H-HOH list the specific documents they accept. This is a fairly common audit when non-biological parents claim dependents. Since you haven't worked, that actually strengthens his case as the financial provider, but you'll need documentation to prove it. The fact that tax software allowed the filing doesn't matter to the IRS - they're looking for actual proof of the living and financial arrangements. I'd recommend using taxr.ai to help organize all the documentation needed for this audit response - it can actually guide you through exactly what you need for your specific situation.

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After dealing with a similar audit nightmare for 6 months, I finally got someone on the phone by using the Claimyr app (claimyr.com). Got a call back within an hour and the agent explained exactly what documents they were looking for in my case. They helped me understand that for non-bio parents, they really look at financial support documentation the most. Talking to an actual person instead of trying to interpret the vague audit letter made all the difference! The callback service was worth every penny to finally get my questions answered directly.

Key thing here is that the rules for claiming non-biological children as dependents are different from claiming your own kids. Your bf needs to show he provided more than 50% of their support AND that they lived with him for more than half the year. Since you haven't worked, he's probably covered on the support part, but you'll need documentation for everything. School records showing your address are golden for proving residency.

I just went thru this last year. Here's what worked for me: - School records showing kids at my address - Medical bills I paid for them - Notarized letter from my gf giving me permission to claim her kids - Utility bills in my name - Receipts for major purchases (clothes, school supplies, etc) - Bank statements showing regular grocery purchases The IRS denied my first response because I didn't include enough evidence. Second time with all this documentation they approved it. Don't skimp on what you send them!

smh the IRS always comes after regular families trying to get by while billionaires pay nothing 🤡 good luck with your audit, the system is rigged

Just a heads up - the IRS is doing a TON of these audits this year. My sister and two friends all got the same type of audit for non-bio parent claims. They're definitely cracking down on this specific issue.

One thing to watch for: if the biological father has ever claimed the kids on his taxes (even years ago), that can trigger these audits automatically. The IRS system flags returns where the same dependent has been claimed by different people over time. If you know the bio dad never claimed them, mention that in your response.

Question - have you guys been filing as "head of household" or "married filing jointly"? Because HOH requires you to be unmarried, and it sounds like you two are living together as a family unit. That might be part of what triggered the audit.

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Make sure you document EVERYTHING. i mean EVERYTHING. The IRS is looking for any reason to deny your claim. One receipt they dont like and you could lose the whole case.

The form your looking for is 8332 'Release of Claim to Exemption for Child by Custodial Parent' - if the bio father ever had custody, this form should be filled out. If not, a notarized statement from you should work. Don't forget lease/mortgage showing both your names at same address too.

Since no one else mentioned it - don't forget to keep COPIES of everything you send to the IRS! They lose stuff all the time and you might need to resubmit. Also send everything certified mail so you have proof they received it.

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Serious question - why doesn't your bf just file as Single instead of HOH if you're the bio parent? Wouldn't that avoid this whole mess? HOH gets you a better tax bracket but seems like a lot of headache to prove.

I don't have advice but I'm in a similar situation with my girlfriends kids and I'm stressing about getting audited now 😬 following this thread for tips

I'm still waiting on last years refund because of a similar audit. 14 MONTHS and counting! Make sure you respond quickly to everything they send you or it'll drag on forever.

Quick tip: if you're gathering school records as proof, make sure you get ones that specifically show both the children's names AND your address together on the same document. Had my audit rejected because I submitted school records that didn't clearly show they lived with me.

Maybe this is a dumb question but have you tried getting your tax preparer involved? If you used HR Block before they might be able to help with the audit since they prepared that return.

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