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Can My Fiancé Claim My Kids on Taxes if I Have No Income to File?

So I'm in this weird situation with taxes this year... I've been doing gig work but honestly had almost no reportable income for 2023. My kids live with me full time and my fiancé (their step-dad) has been financially supporting all of us. Wouldn't it make more sense for him to claim the kids on his taxes since he's the one actually providing for them? Their biological dad is totally fine with this arrangement too, so that's not an issue. But can my fiancé even legally claim them? Don't the IRS rules get complicated with this kind of thing? Anyone dealt with something similar before?

Emma Wilson

This is actually a more nuanced situation than it might initially appear. The IRS has specific qualifying child requirements that must be met for dependency claims. The relationship test allows a step-parent to claim a child, but only if legally married to the biological parent. Since you're engaged but not yet married, your fiancé is technically considered unrelated to the children under IRS Publication 501 guidelines. The residency test requires the child to have lived with the claiming taxpayer for more than half the year, which appears to be satisfied in your situation. However, the relationship status presents a significant obstacle.

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QuantumLeap

Wait so ur saying even tho he pays for everything, just bc they aren't legally married yet he can't claim them?? That's crazy tbh. The tax code seems so behind the times w/ modern families.

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Malik Johnson

Thank you for breaking this down so clearly. If we were to get married before the filing deadline, would that change anything? Or does the marriage need to have been in effect during the tax year being filed?

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Isabella Santos

I'm going to lay this out step-by-step because there's actually a potential solution here: 1. First, even with no income, YOU should still consider filing a tax return. There's no minimum income requirement to file. 2. As the biological parent with full custody, you have priority claim to the children as dependents. 3. You can then complete Form 8332 (Release/Revocation of Claim to Exemption for Child by Custodial Parent). 4. This form allows you to transfer the right to claim the children to someone else. However, and this is important, Form 8332 can only transfer this right to the OTHER BIOLOGICAL PARENT, not your fiancé. The IRS doesn't have a mechanism to transfer dependent claims to non-parents unless they qualify as a relative who provided care.

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Ravi Sharma

There's actually a workaround that might help your situation! Since you have minimal income, you could still file your own return and claim the kids yourself. Then, your fiancé could claim you ALL as dependents if he provides more than 50% of the household support. 😂 It sounds weird to be claimed as a dependent by your fiancé, I know, but the tax benefit would flow to your household either way. This approach requires: - You must have less than $4,700 in gross income for 2023 - You must have lived together all year - Your fiancé must provide more than half of your financial support This might actually result in a better tax situation overall than trying to have him claim just the kids.

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Freya Larsen

This approach could work if: • OP truly had minimal income • The household arrangement was consistent throughout the year • No one else can claim OP as a dependent But I'd strongly recommend documenting the financial support provided in case of audit.

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Omar Hassan

I tried something similar in 2021 and it worked, but I had to provide exactly 53% of household expenses when the IRS questioned it. They wanted receipts for everything from groceries to utilities to medical expenses. Just be prepared with documentation if you go this route.

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Chloe Taylor

I believe this might technically work, although it's somewhat contingent on whether the OP meets all qualifying relative tests. The support test is particularly important - the fiancé would need to provide more than half of OP's total support for the year, which might include housing, food, medical expenses, and other living costs.

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ShadowHunter

I'd be really careful with this situation. I went through something similar and ended up with a notice from the IRS questioning my dependent claims. It took me months to get someone on the phone to resolve it... I kept calling the regular IRS number and getting nowhere. Finally used Claimyr (https://www.claimyr.com) to get through to an actual agent who explained exactly what documentation I needed to provide. Might be worth using their service to speak with an IRS rep about your specific situation before filing, just to make sure you're doing everything correctly. Tax issues with dependents can get messy quickly...

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Diego Ramirez

Is this service actually legit? It's like hiring a bouncer to get you past the IRS phone line velvet rope. Seems too good to be true that they can get you through when regular folks can't.

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Anastasia Sokolov

Have you tried the IRS Interactive Tax Assistant online? I used it last year for a dependent question and it was pretty helpful: https://www.irs.gov/help/ita. Might save you the need for a call service if your question is straightforward enough.

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Sean O'Connor

I've compared waiting on hold myself (3+ hours) versus using Claimyr for a similar dependent issue. The service basically navigates the IRS phone tree and waits on hold for you, then calls when an agent is available. For complex situations like this where you need personalized guidance, sometimes talking to an actual human at the IRS is the only way to get clarity.

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Zara Ahmed

OMG I dealt with EXACTLY this situation last year! What we ended up doing was having ME (the bio mom) file my own return with minimal income and claim the kids. Even with almost no income, I qualified for refundable credits like the Child Tax Credit which gave me a nice refund! My boyfriend (not even fiancé yet) couldn't claim them directly, but the money came back to our household anyway. I was SO RELIEVED when we figured this out because we thought we were going to lose thousands in tax benefits!

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Luca Conti

According to Internal Revenue Code §152(c) and §152(e), the qualifying child rules are quite specific in this scenario. As the custodial parent with full physical custody, you maintain primary claim rights to the children as dependents regardless of income level. Per Treasury Regulation §1.152-4, the non-custodial parent may only claim the children if the custodial parent signs Form 8332, and this provision does not extend to non-parent individuals, even those providing support. Publication 501 further clarifies that step-parent status only applies after legal marriage. I'm particularly impressed by some of the creative solutions others have suggested regarding household support tests.

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Nia Johnson

I was in a similar spot a few years ago! What worked for me was filing my own return with zero income and claiming my kids. Even with no income, I got back around $5,000 from refundable credits like the Child Tax Credit and Earned Income Credit. My boyfriend at the time (now husband) couldn't claim my kids, but it didn't matter because the money came to our household anyway. The IRS doesn't care who in the household gets the refund as long as the right person claims the kids. Just make sure you file before anyone else tries to claim them!

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CyberNinja

Looking at the 2023 tax year provisions, you should be aware that the Child Tax Credit is worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child under 17, with up to $1,600 being refundable (as the Additional Child Tax Credit). Even with zero income, you can receive this refundable portion. The filing deadline this year is April 15, 2024, so you still have time to file and claim these credits yourself. Your fiancé cannot claim the children unless you're legally married, as the IRS defines a step-parent relationship only through legal marriage. The biological parent with custody (you) has priority claim rights regardless of who provides financial support.

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