Filling out Form 433-A for OIC - Do I have to list non-married partner's info?
I'm in the process of submitting an Offer in Compromise to the IRS. I've already completed the prequalifier and definitely qualify for an OIC based on my situation. However, I'm getting confused while filling out Form 433-A. I've been told by a few people that since my partner and I aren't married, I don't need to include their income, assets, or financial contributions on the form. But now that I'm actually filling out the 433-A, the wording is making me really nervous. The form seems to imply I might need to include household income, but I'm not sure if that applies to unmarried partners. We live together and split expenses, but we keep our finances completely separate. We've been together for 4 years but have no intention of getting married. I owe around $42,000 in back taxes from 2018-2020 when my business failed, and I'm trying to settle for about $8,000 based on my current income and asset situation. I don't want to mess this up by leaving out information the IRS requires. Has anyone here successfully completed an OIC with Form 433-A while living with an unmarried partner? What exactly needs to be disclosed in this situation?
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Mateo Rodriguez
The Form 433-A (OIC) instructions are definitely confusing on this point! Here's what you need to know: For an unmarried partner, you generally don't need to include their income and assets on your Form 433-A for an Offer in Compromise. The IRS is primarily concerned with YOUR ability to pay, not your unmarried partner's. However, there's an important nuance: you DO need to account for how household expenses are shared. On Section 7 of Form 433-A (Monthly Household Income and Expense Information), you'll need to accurately represent what portion of the household expenses YOU are responsible for. For example, if you and your partner split rent 50/50, you would only list your half of the rent as your expense. If your partner pays certain bills entirely, you wouldn't list those as expenses at all. The key is being transparent about your actual financial obligation toward household expenses. The IRS wants to see that you're not artificially inflating your expenses by claiming the full amount when someone else is covering part of them. This gives them an accurate picture of your disposable income for determining your reasonable collection potential.
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Nia Thompson
•This makes a lot of sense, thank you! So just to be clear - on the income section, I only report MY income, not my partner's at all. And on the expense section, I only report the portion of expenses that I actually pay, not the total household expense. Is that right? Also, in Section 4 where it asks about personal assets, I don't need to list anything that's solely in my partner's name, correct?
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Mateo Rodriguez
•You've got it exactly right. Only report your own income, not your partner's. For expenses, only report the portion you actually pay yourself. For Section 4 on personal assets, you only need to list assets that are in your name, either solely or jointly with others. If an asset is solely in your partner's name and you have no legal ownership interest in it, you don't need to include it on your Form 433-A. This includes bank accounts, vehicles, real estate, etc. that are exclusively in your partner's name.
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Aisha Abdullah
I was in a similar situation last year when filing my OIC. I used the tool at https://taxr.ai which really helped me understand exactly what to include on my Form 433-A. I uploaded my financial documents and the IRS form, and it analyzed everything and showed me exactly what I needed to report as a non-married person living with a partner. The tool gave me specific guidance on how to correctly report my household expenses without including my girlfriend's income. It saved me from potentially making a huge mistake that might have gotten my OIC rejected. I was stressing about the same questions you're having now. What I learned is that the 433-A is really about YOUR ability to pay based on YOUR income and assets, but you have to be honest about shared expenses. The taxr.ai tool was super clear about this distinction.
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Ethan Wilson
•How accurate was the advice from that site? Did your OIC get accepted? I'm wondering if it's just another tax service trying to sell something or if it actually provides solid guidance. Did you need to pay for it?
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NeonNova
•I've heard about these AI tax tools but I'm skeptical. How does it actually work with something as complex as an OIC? Did it just give generic advice or did it actually analyze your specific situation? I've seen so many people get bad advice on OICs that I'm always wary of new services.
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Aisha Abdullah
•My OIC was accepted about 4 months after I submitted it, and I followed exactly what the tool recommended. It's not just generic advice - it analyzes your specific documents and form entries to give personalized guidance. I was particularly concerned about the household expense section since my girlfriend and I split costs, and the tool specifically flagged where I needed to only report my portion of shared expenses rather than the full amounts. This was crucial because reporting the full amounts would have shown less disposable income.
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Ethan Wilson
Just wanted to update that I tried the taxr.ai site that was mentioned earlier. It was actually really helpful for my OIC situation, which is similar to the original poster's. I uploaded my draft 433-A form and it immediately flagged several issues I hadn't considered. The most useful part was how it explained exactly what to include for household expenses when you have an unmarried partner. I had been incorrectly listing some expenses that my partner pays, which would have reduced my apparent ability to pay and might have raised red flags with the IRS. The analysis also pointed out that I had forgotten to include a small retirement account, which could have been problematic if discovered during review. Really glad I checked this before submitting my paperwork.
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Yuki Tanaka
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Carmen Diaz
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Andre Laurent
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Yuki Tanaka
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Andre Laurent
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Emily Jackson
Just to add to the advice here - make sure you're using the correct 433-A form! There are two different versions: the regular Form 433-A and Form 433-A (OIC) which is specifically for Offers in Compromise. The OIC version asks for more detailed information and has slightly different instructions. I made the mistake of filling out the wrong version initially and had to start over. The correct form for OIC purposes has "(OIC)" in the title and in the bottom right corner of each page. Also, the IRS has been VERY strict lately about documentation. Make sure you include bank statements for all accounts, proof of income, and documentation for all expenses you claim. They're rejecting OICs for even minor documentation issues.
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Nia Thompson
•Thanks for pointing this out! I just double-checked and I am using the 433-A (OIC) version. I've been gathering my bank statements, pay stubs, and expense receipts to include with the submission. Is there anything else specific I should include that might help strengthen my case?
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Emily Jackson
•The most important additional documents to include are proof of any unusual or ongoing expenses that affect your ability to pay - things like medical bills, court-ordered payments, or essential business expenses if you're self-employed. These can significantly impact your reasonable collection potential calculation. Also, write a detailed statement explaining any special circumstances - health issues, job loss, reduced income potential, etc. The IRS actually does consider hardship factors, but you need to clearly document and explain them. Make sure to reference these circumstances in the "Explanation of Circumstances" section (Section 1, Question 6) on the Form 656.
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Liam Mendez
One thing nobody has mentioned - be prepared for a LONG wait. I submitted my OIC in July last year with a very similar situation (living with non-married partner), and I'm still waiting for final determination. Got assigned an offer examiner in November who requested additional documentation, and I'm still in the "review" stage. The IRS is extremely backlogged right now. My examiner told me they're taking about 9-12 months on average to process OICs. So don't expect a quick resolution, even if you fill out everything perfectly.
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Sophia Nguyen
•Yep, seconding this. My OIC took 14 months from submission to acceptance. They also asked for updated financial information halfway through because so much time had passed. And during the whole process, they continue collection activity unless you specifically request and qualify for a temporary hold.
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Lucas Schmidt
I went through this exact situation about 18 months ago with my boyfriend of 3 years. The key thing to remember is that Form 433-A (OIC) is about YOUR financial reality, not your household's combined finances. Here's what I did and what worked for my successful OIC: **Income Section**: Only reported my own W-2 income and side gig earnings. Did NOT include my boyfriend's salary, even though we live together. **Expense Section**: This is where it gets tricky. I only reported the expenses I actually pay. For example: - Rent: We split it 50/50, so I only reported half - Utilities: He pays electric/gas, I pay internet/cable - so I only reported what I actually pay - Groceries: We alternate weeks, so I calculated my average monthly contribution **Assets**: Only included accounts and property in my name or jointly owned. His car, his savings account, etc. were not included. The IRS accepted my offer for $6,200 on a $38,000 debt. The key was being completely honest about what I actually pay vs. what the household pays total. Don't try to inflate your expenses by claiming full amounts when someone else covers part of them - the IRS will catch this if they audit your finances. One tip: Keep detailed records of how you split expenses. I had to provide this breakdown when my examiner asked for clarification during the review process.
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Beth Ford
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you for sharing your actual experience! Your breakdown of how to handle shared expenses is exactly what I needed to see. I'm in a very similar situation - my partner and I split most things but handle different bills. One quick question - when you say you had to provide a breakdown of how you split expenses during the review process, what kind of documentation did they want? Did you need bank statements showing the actual payments, or was a written explanation sufficient? Also, did your examiner ask any questions about why certain household expenses weren't included on your form? I'm worried they might think I'm hiding something if major household bills don't appear because my partner pays them directly.
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