Don't you need to be married to open a joint account though? OP said they're engaged but not married yet.

You definitely don't need to be married to open a joint checking account! Many banks offer joint accounts for any two adults - roommates, partners, family members, etc. My now-wife and I opened ours about 2 years before we got married. Most banks just need both people to come in with IDs to set it up. Some online banks might have different requirements, but traditional banks and credit unions generally allow non-married people to open joint accounts without any issues.

Does Splitwise integrate directly with Venmo or do you still have to manually send the payment?

How long did that process take? I'm concerned about waiting too long and missing deadlines for filing if the company drags their feet on making corrections.

In my case, it took about 8 weeks from my initial contact until I received the corrected form. This was with a large multinational corporation that had established processes for handling these issues. If you're working with a smaller company or one that doesn't regularly deal with international payments, it might take longer or they might not know how to make the correction. I'd recommend giving them a 2-month timeline - if they haven't resolved it by then, proceed with the refund claim process to ensure you don't miss any deadlines.

Wouldn't you need a US taxpayer identification number to file these forms? I thought that was part of the complexity.

Yes, you do need either a Social Security Number (SSN) or an Individual Taxpayer Identification Number (ITIN). If you don't already have one, you'll need to apply for an ITIN using Form W-7 which you would submit simultaneously with your 1040NR. That's probably what the accounting firm meant by "US tax registration" in their quote. Getting an ITIN can be tricky as you need to provide certified copies of identification documents (passport usually). You can either mail certified copies (certified by the issuing agency) or use an IRS-authorized Acceptance Agent who can verify your original documents.

Thanks for the clear explanation. My gut was telling me this didn't sound right. I'm definitely going to get a second opinion from a tax professional before filing. Do you think I should tell my immigration lawyer about these concerns or just quietly get tax advice separately?

I would absolutely discuss your concerns with your immigration lawyer, but frame it constructively. Perhaps say something like, "I've been researching the tax implications, and I understand that dependent status vs. marital status on tax returns can be scrutinized during the immigration process. Can we discuss how to properly document our financial relationship without potentially creating inconsistencies?" This approach acknowledges your lawyer's expertise in immigration while opening the door to correcting any tax misunderstandings. Also, it would be very helpful to consult with a tax professional who has experience with immigration cases specifically. They can often provide documentation that satisfies both IRS requirements and supports your immigration case appropriately.

True, and there's also the issue of the stepson's other parent. If the biological parent is claiming the child as a dependent (which they likely have the right to do if providing support), then trying to also claim the child could trigger automatic IRS flags.

Thank you for explaining this! Does this mean we'd only pay the 6% penalty for one year on his excess amount, and then "absorb" it in the following year by under-contributing? That sounds much simpler than trying to do a late removal now.

Exactly right! You would only pay the 6% penalty for one year on the $3,400 excess in his account (about $204). Then in the following year, if his contribution limit is $6,500, he would only contribute $3,100 to his Roth IRA. This effectively uses $3,400 of that year's contribution limit to "absorb" last year's excess. The key thing is that you need to have contribution eligibility in that following year. If your income exceeds the limits again, this approach wouldn't work since you wouldn't be eligible to make any contributions that could "absorb" the previous excess.

There's a specific formula the IRS provides: Earnings = Excess contribution × (Ending balance - Beginning balance) ÷ Beginning balance So if you contributed $6,000 when your limit was $3,000 (so $3,000 excess), and your account went from $20,000 to $22,000 during that period, the earnings on your excess would be: $3,000 × ($22,000 - $20,000) ÷ $20,000 = $3,000 × $2,000 ÷ $20,000 = $300 You'd need to withdraw $3,300 total ($3,000 excess + $300 earnings).

No self-employment at all - just a regular W-2 job. The amendment was only to claim some education expenses I forgot on the original filing (Form 8863 for education credits). Nothing business related whatsoever. I'm wondering if maybe the "8" in 8863 and the "95" from somewhere else got combined into "8895" in their system? Still doesn't really explain why they'd be asking for a form that doesn't exist though.

The combination of 8863 and some other form number accidentally creating 8895 is actually a really plausible explanation. The IRS's computer systems are ancient and glitches like this happen more often than they admit. Since your amendment involved education credits, another possibility is they might be looking for Form 8915 (which relates to retirement plan distributions, but sometimes these codes get mixed up). Or maybe even Form 8885 (Health Coverage Tax Credit). I'd definitely recommend calling back and specifically explaining you amended for education credits using Form 8863, and asking if that might be causing confusion in their system. Sometimes just mentioning the correct form can help the rep figure out what's happening.

Good point! Real IRS notices have specific security features. The paper should have a watermark visible when held up to light. Also check if the letter has your last 4 SSN digits (scammers often don't have this). And NEVER call a phone number listed in a suspicious notice - always call the official IRS number instead.