Pro tip: set up alerts in your banking app for deposits instead of constantly checking. That way you're not driving yourself crazy refreshing, and you'll know the moment it hits.

I've been in the same boat with SoFi! Filed in early April and just got my DDD for next week. From what I've experienced, SoFi is pretty good about releasing deposits early - I got my stimulus payments and state refund about a day before the official date. The key thing is that they seem to process ACH deposits as soon as they receive them rather than holding them until the official date like some traditional banks do. I'd say there's a decent chance you'll see it tomorrow, but definitely don't stress yourself out checking every hour. Set up those push notifications and try to stay busy! The waiting is absolutely the worst part of this whole process.

TurboTax filer here with some actual data points: • Feb 15 - Filed through TurboTax with direct deposit • Feb 16 - IRS accepted return • Feb 28 - WMR updated to approved • Mar 2 - Refund deposited For Oklahoma state: • Use OkTAP portal (https://oktap.tax.ok.gov) • Select "Look Up a Return" under Quick Links • State refunds typically process in 5-10 business days • Oklahoma has a separate processing center from federal • State refunds aren't tied to federal processing timelines Most TurboTax filers I know are seeing 14-21 day processing times this year unless they claimed certain credits.

I'm in a similar situation with TurboTax - filed February 20th and still just showing "accepted" status. Based on what everyone's sharing here, it sounds like this is pretty normal for TurboTax users this year. I'm going to check the IRS WMR tool directly instead of relying on the TurboTax app for updates. For Oklahoma state refunds, thanks for the phone number tip! I tried the OkTAP website but found it confusing to navigate. The automated phone system at 405-521-3160 sounds much easier. Did you need any specific information besides SSN, filing status, and refund amount when you called? It's reassuring to hear that state and federal process independently - I was worried something was wrong since I haven't heard anything on either front yet.

One thing to be super careful about - if you collect sales tax from customers but don't remit it to the state, that's considered MUCH worse than simply not collecting at all. It can potentially be treated as theft or conversion in some jurisdictions, which is where the criminal penalties might come into play.

As someone who's been through this maze with my own international e-commerce business, I can't stress enough how important it is to get compliant BEFORE you start selling. The complexity is real, but it's manageable with the right approach. A few key points from my experience: 1. Start by researching economic nexus thresholds for your target states - they vary significantly (some are $100k/200 transactions, others like CA are $500k) 2. Consider using a marketplace facilitator like Amazon FBA initially, as they handle sales tax collection in many states 3. If going direct-to-consumer, budget for tax compliance software from day one - it's way cheaper than penalties later 4. Keep detailed records of where you're selling and how much - you'll need this data for nexus determinations The voluntary disclosure programs mentioned by others are absolutely worth considering if you're already selling and haven't been collecting. Most states would rather work with you than chase you down later. Don't let the complexity scare you away from the US market - it's totally doable with proper planning and the right tools. Just don't wing it!

Has anyone actually calculated how much the marriage benefit is worth? Like a dollar amount? I'm in a similar situation (earning about 95k, partner is SAHM with our 2 kids) and curious what kind of savings we're talking about.

I'm in a very similar situation! Been with my partner for 8 years, I work in tech, and she's been home with our twin boys for the past 3 years. We've been putting off marriage for various reasons, but the tax benefits are definitely something we're considering more seriously now. One thing I'd add to the great advice already here - don't forget about the Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) thresholds. Even though you're a software developer, depending on your exact income level, you might still qualify for some EITC as a married couple filing jointly where the thresholds are higher than for HOH. It's worth checking since every little bit helps! Also, if your partner has any interest in going back to work part-time eventually, being married gives you more flexibility with things like dependent care FSAs and the child and dependent care credit calculations. The retirement savings angle mentioned earlier is huge too - that spousal IRA contribution can really add up over time and gives you both more security down the road.

Filed 1/15, still stuck on processing with 2 checks. Called FTB and they said everything looks fine just high volume rn

Filed 1/28 and still stuck on processing with 2 checkmarks here too! Really hoping it moves to issued soon. Based on what everyone's sharing, it seems like late January filers are just now starting to see movement. @Amara Adebayo thanks for sharing your timeline - gives me hope that mine should update within the next week or so! 🤞